Tell me why you don t want to get married.

I've just been divorced for five months, so let's talk about it! Now it's a marriage of fear! Let's talk about it myself!

First, in terms of economy, if you get married again, you are afraid of marrying someone with poor economic conditions, and you don't have a house in your hometown! I don't have a secure life! I don't even dare to have children, and it is very important to remarry and have children, which is a bridge between husband and wife!

The relationship between the two mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law It was the biggest problem with my last marriage, because I had a bad temper, what about people! If you say it well, you will be direct, and if you say it badly, you will be a fool!

Won't coax the old man, won't say nice things, okay! I'll admit I'm too stupid! The relationship between husband and wife is the most important thing in my divorce, there is no common language, and the three views are not harmonious!

You say that he is going to do the West, forget it, let's talk about getting married again.

Afraid of having children, suffering, not sleeping, and an older unmarried woman than himself said that I am older than her, indicating that the child grows older than herself, the faster the child grows, not willing to find a person who has no interior, no opinion, listen to the wind is rain, the pattern is small, can not be the front of the car, to put it bluntly, it is not the man you fancy is very good to live by yourself, there are many things that can be done alone, there is no need to give up your life for marriage, and start again when you are old, the older you are, the more worthless, maybe you have to find a character problem and hurt your life, a few heads calculate you, Both men and women are not willing to find a poverty alleviation, relatives do not recognize their relatives for money, and pillow people can also disown their relatives for money halfway! Decades of living for yourself will do!

Economic problems, personal or family economic income is too low, a wedding needs a lot of funds, rich people want to hold a grand ceremony, will pay hundreds of thousands or even millions, no money is also tens of thousands. There is also bride price money, some parents regard their daughters as a tool to make money, although they have been raised for more than 20 years, but marriage is a happy event, and it is necessary to have less, so the economy is low and naturally they can't marry their daughter-in-law.

Fear of marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, disappointed in people, there are too many troubles faced with marriage, and in the end it is not a good one, give me another chance, I will keep my heart, live quietly alone, and enjoy life! Be filial to your parents.

Fear, some people have too strong domestic violence, since he was a child, he saw his parents quarreling and even shooting all day long, he will have a sense of fear, worried that he will get married in the future, and he will be like his parents, so parents should give their children a good influence, and don't do something bad in front of their children at every turn.

The pressure is too great, after getting married, you have to work hard for the lives of the two families, and at this time the pressure is suddenly very great, and if you have children, the pressure is even greater, and everything is money.

The influence of my parents' marriage, my parents' married life gives me the feeling that they are just living together, and they may have had love, but they have long been wiped out by life, my father goes out to play cards after eating, and my mother guards the TV and the child, there seems to be no special communication between the two people, maybe for people of my age, I still hope to live a sweeter life.

The cost of marriage is too high, although it is said to be a major event of their own marriage, in fact, it depends more on the eyes of the parents of both parties, the house, the car, the decoration, the wedding banquet, the children, all the things of the parents have to intervene, and the opinions of the two parents are particularly difficult to unify, which makes us very difficult.

1. Growing up watching the life of my parents, I can't do without quarrels and fights, and I don't want to live like that 2. I feel that it is better to buy a small house than to get married, and there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law 3 There are good and bad men who feel that they can't meet men who they think are good. I believe there are happy marriages, but I don't believe I can have such a good marriage.

I've been hurt by someone, and I don't trust men at all, besides, I have to have children when I get married, and I have to have a difficult relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I have a headache when I think about it, so it's better to live alone.

Maybe I met the guy who wanted me to get married. Marriage is not the same as falling in love, falling in love is a matter of two people, while marriage is a matter of two families.

No house, no car, no money, and the most important thing is that he is not handsome, but he is not ugly and will not be sultry. When you meet someone you like, you don't remember how to start, you can only watch the goddess walk away.

Nowadays, people are hungry and don't want to get married, it can be said that many people, the main reason for changing the monarchy is that there is no nuclear limb rock to meet fate, and the other is that there is a sense of crisis in the economy, and the pressure is also relatively large, so this situation will occur.

On the other hand, everyone may feel that marriage is a restriction on their lives, and marriage may involve a lot of things, so everyone is unwilling to face it.

Because the economic and emotional costs of marriage are too high in all aspects, and the benefits are too small.

It's too much pressure, isn't it? There is pressure at work, there is also pressure to find a partner, bride price, dowry are all pressure.

Because the cost of getting married now is too high, the cost is too great.

And divorce becomes easy and sloppy.

Nowadays, people are fiercely competitive, 996 every day, how can they have the time and energy to find a partner.

How can you get married if you can't find a partner?

The one you're talking about is a few people, but in fact, most of us are okay and can get married when we reach the legal age. You don't overthink it.

They feel happy not to get married.

Some girls are very angry when they know that I don't want to get married, isn't there a saying that love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a trick. Then there is no choice but to break up. But if the other party is in love with the intention of getting married from the beginning, and the purpose is very clear, I will definitely tell the other party that I am not married.

Once you get into marriage, there are many problems. Love is an emotional relationship, but marriage is an economic system, does love have to be marriage in the end? The answer is actually not yes.

Don't you think there are too many nets in society now? Marriage relationships, relationships with parents, classmates, work relationships, the messy web nails you to that point.

Marriage is another complicated web for me, and I don't want to be needed, and I don't want to need anyone else.

Some people will think that some young people nowadays do not marry and only pretend to be a freer covenant, which means that they can make an appointment with an old age? Of course, there are such people in reality, so it's right not to get married, after all, there is such a strong demand, and if you are married, you won't make an appointment? It is a good thing that this kind of person does not enter into marriage, and it can also reduce the harm to others.

I think that human beings really have more pain than happiness in this life, so I want to live as much as possible according to my own will. I don't want to be responsible for another life or family, and I don't want to bear too many things that shouldn't be borne by me. I really don't bother to integrate into another strange family, I don't want to be spawned, I don't want to deal with complicated interpersonal relationships, I don't want to turn the small family into everyone.

I want to get married, but I don't have any money in my hand, and the other party is too demanding and needs to buy a car and a house. I can't meet her conditions, so people don't want to be with me. The reality is that Sui Xun is so cruel.

The encounter is not human, so I don't want to get married. Or if you meet the right person, you are not in the right family of origin, and you don't want to get married.

The answer, from the description of the analysis, because I haven't met someone who wants to get married, Jianna.

And I feel that it is also very good to live alone, and the married life of the girlfriends who are not told by the manuscript around me is not very happy, it is better to be happy and comfortable, and I don't want to get married.

When it comes to marriage, in fact, many of us are very much looking forward to it.

Because marriage is very happy and very sweet, especially when two people like each other, so that boys will take the initiative to care about girls and love girls, it is in the boys' constant care and love, which will make girls feel very happy and happy.

In this way, girls will also show their sincerity and have a good relationship with boys. In this way, the two of them will be more happy and happy together, and they will be able to have a happy and sweet love, so that when they get married together, they will also be able to live a happier and more satisfying life.

Although many people are very much looking forward to marriage, there are many people who don't want to get married, so there are many people who think that these people who don't want to get married, they are actually abnormal, but in fact this is a completely wrong idea.

Because in fact, each of us is very much looking forward to marriage, but now there are many people who don't want to get married, not because they really don't want to get married, but because their pressure is really huge, especially for boys.

Now a lot of boys are under a lot of pressure. Even there are many girls who have very high requirements for them, and there are many girls who require boys to have a good job, a good family, and a very high income, so that they will be with boys. Only when the boy hits the girl's request, the girl will talk to the boy about marriage, and when the boy and the girl want to get married, the girl and the girl's family will also ask the man for a large bride price, which will undoubtedly make many boys unable to bear this so that they feel that the pressure is really huge.

This has led to a lot of people, who are unable to get married. And for many girls, because they have very high requirements for boys, plus there are some girls, they are very good in themselves, and it is even more difficult to find someone as good as them. So this makes some girls choose not to get married.

So for each of us, the reason why they don't get married is not because they don't look forward to marriage and love, in fact, each of us wants to get married, because we all know that love is happy and marriage is beautiful, especially when two are mutual, so that when they get married, they will care more about each other and love each other, so that two people will be happier and more satisfied in their married life.

Hello! I'm glad to have your question, read your problem description, I don't want to get married because my life is too stressful now, and there is no way to give my family and children a better life after getting married, and I haven't met myself more suitable, this is the reason why I don't want to get married, I hope mine can help you, I hope you can.

The reason why I don't want to get married is because I am afraid of marriage, I am afraid that my marriage will be unhappy in the future, and I am afraid that something will happen.

The reasons why you don't want to get married are financial pressure, advocating freedom, and the pressure to have children and raise children. 1. Economic pressure. The economic pressure is actually quite large, you see that this view of marriage will lead to, especially boys, this marriage has to have a house, a car, and where is the house?

What brand of car? In such a situation, if you think about a boy, when he is about twenty-five or sixteen years old, he graduates, finishes school, and is about to get married at the age of twenty-seven or eighteen, where can he go to get a house and a car in three years? If the family conditions are better, you can support a little, but what about the poor family conditions?

So at this time, the economic pressure on this man is still relatively large. 2. Because young people especially advocate freedom, young people are no longer like people a few decades ago, their ideas are more advanced, and they advocate freedom. If something has been forcing him, they must also learn to resist, and most of the young people leave their hometowns to work in other places, although their monthly salary is also very high, but they are used to living alone, in the face of their parents' urging to marry, although they are very distressed, but they always want to deal with their parents, rather than thinking about finding someone to fall in love with in a down-to-earth manner.

3. Because the pressure of giving birth to children and raising children is relatively heavy, once a man and a woman get married, their parents will always force two people to have children as soon as possible, and raise the children as soon as possible, and they want to hold their grandchildren. The consequences of not getting marriedIf you don't get married, first of all, you will experience other people's gossip, especially some relatives and friends around you, their gossip will definitely talk about your personal feelings. When you meet some people with more poisonous mouths, you may still be suspicious of your orientation, so the first thing you have to face if you don't get married is the questioning of the seven aunts and eight aunts and become the object of discussion after dinner.

But it is not without benefits that Qi accompanied Hu not to get married, the advantage of not getting married is that it is rare and chic to be quietly blocked, many people live a life of peace and tranquility, not to mention that these people are very poor, some people may have their own houses, they live a very happy single life, they can do whatever they want, and they don't have to be controlled and constrained by others.

1: Experiencing stress.

Now is the economic era, if there is no basis for economic conditions, I believe that not many people will choose to get married. Car loans, housing loans, children's education funds, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are all inseparable from money.

2: Unfortunate family of origin.

The inner trauma of childhood, the discord between parents and the breakdown of marriage, and the lack of loving care lead to low self-esteem, crankiness, social fear, and fear of marriage.

3: The relationship is deeply hurt.

The feelings are old and hurt, and I don't dare to give my feelings easily. once loved you more than himself, and trusted you with all his heart, but later he was covered in bruises. In order to love yourself well, I don't want to let myself be wronged and hurt again.

4: I like the feeling of being single.

I don't want to get married, but I actually like the ease brought by single life, which is both relaxed and free, without too much worry and pressure, and I don't need to accommodate others, and I can choose the most comfortable state for myself as I like.

5: The cost of divorce is too high.

Divorce can be very harmful to children, including disputes over marital property. The people around you are under too much pressure from all kinds of criticism of themselves or their families, so they dare not choose to get married easily in order to avoid the risk of divorce.

6: Not ready to get married at all.

Once you get married, you lose the freedom you had when you were single, and you also have to face complicated family relationships, so you are not ready for any marriage, and you don't even think about getting married.

7: Fear of taking responsibility.

Many people have been single for a long time and enjoy freedom, feeling that they will not get married, have no children, have no constraints, and are afraid that they will have to take on all kinds of trivial tasks after marriage, so they never want to let themselves have so many burdens.

8: I feel that the other person does not love me enough.

In the process of getting along, after a long time, you will lose your temper, ignore you, disrespect, and even not disclose this relationship, showing that this love is no longer available.

9: Too ambitious.

Ambitious is the so-called workaholic, knowing that if you want to be financially independent, you must focus on your career, and the pressure of work leads to no time to think about marriage.

10: Wait for the right person to show up.

The right person is not easy to meet, there are people who talk and laugh in the end only become confidants, people who fall in love at first sight later become other people's lovers, and secondly, they have become excellent, there are too many choices, and I don't know how to choose.