Children use their parents mobile phones to learn online and can t help but play with their mobile

Nowadays, many children may use mobile phones in the process of learning, because mobile phones can allow children to intuitively watch some online classes and help children improve their grades in various subjects, especially students who take online classes on time, can only use mobile phones to take online classes on time, without offline teaching, they can only learn all kinds of cultural knowledge through online classes, but in the process of using mobile phones, some children will unconsciously use mobile phones, start playing games or watching other software, parents are also very helpless about this situation, Some children will lose their temper because of their parents' accusations, and they will become half-hearted when listening to online classes, so how should parents educate children who have little self-control and like to play with mobile phones?

First of all, the easiest way to control children to play with mobile phones is to encrypt other software on their mobile phones, so that when children listen to online classes, they will not be able to open other software to play, and over time children will develop a habit of taking mobile phones, they can only listen to online classes or learn and will not have any other ideas, which is the easiest way to prevent children from learning online and then watching mobile phones to play, and it is also the most effective way.

Secondly, you can stipulate the time for children to play with mobile phones, after all, children should have some free time to play mobile phones or sports in addition to learning in life, and appropriate relaxation can improve children's academic performance, so parents should make three chapters with their children, let children play within the specified time, if it exceeds the time range, you must do what you should do, once you find that you secretly use your mobile phone to play in the process of watching online classes or learning, you should give your child some punishment.

Finally, children's self-control ability is usually very poor, so parents must help children improve self-control, when the child's self-control ability is improved, academic performance will definitely improve, parents in educating children at the same time, do not torture children excessively, to avoid causing children's rebellious psychology.

I think it's okay to make a three-chapter agreement with your child, if his academic performance reaches a certain standard, he will be allowed to play with his mobile phone, and if his grades are backward, he will be forbidden to play with his mobile phone.

I think it's okay to ban children from using mobile phones, after all, mobile phones are not a necessity for learning.

Preface: For some younger children, their self-control is relatively poor and they are easily influenced by external factors. With the development of science and technology, more and more mobile phones have entered people's lives.

Although it is said that the original intention was to facilitate people's lives, many people have developed a strong sense of dependence on mobile phones. If the child does not study all day and only wants to play games, then parents should guide the child and set strict requirements for the child.

If you want your child not to play with mobile phones, then parents should set an example and influence their children with their own behavior. Because children are susceptible to the influence of parents, if parents lie on the sofa after work, play with mobile phones and brush **. Then the child will learn this bad habit of the parents, so if the child does not play with the mobile phone, the parent should reduce the time he plays with the mobile phone.

After work, you can read books and newspapers, and try not to play with your mobile phone. Under the influence of this family environment, children will also learn some good habits from their parents.

At the end of the school day, parents can ask their children to do their homework first. When you finish your homework, you can let your child play with their phone for half an hour. Parents must be strict with their children and put forward certain requirements for their children, so that they can help their children form good self-control.

If parents are soft on their children, it will have a great impact on their children's future development. We need to control the amount of time our children spend playing with their phones every day, not more than two hours.

Some children are not interested in learning, so they want to spend all their time playing with their phones. Children are still young, and they don't understand the importance of learning. In order to increase the importance of learning, parents can work with their children to make plans.

Parents can put forward some requirements for their children, such as getting the first place in the class in the next exam, then they can turn this big goal into a small goal and ask the child to implement the plan.

I'm in a child's point of view.

If your child is a girl and a ** fan.

It is recommended that you don't think about confiscating your mobile phone, that is, from my point of view, I can't see **, I have to go to great lengths to find my mobile phone, I don't study, the more you ask me, I don't learn, children generally have a rebellious mentality, you have to follow his ideas but you can't ignore her.

You can give him a mobile phone to play with, and when she gets tired of playing, she will go to do her homework, but you also have to hint at him on the side and talk to him about somethingSuccessful peopleThe knowledge, such as "who is studying hard and what is it" instilled in him that only by learning can he stick to his love, otherwise where will the money come from to buy books? But if your child doesn't even want to talk, this won't work.

The second is that you can talk to him about Dingxi he likes, encourage her, and then instill the knowledge of the previous one, and the most important thing is not to be in the process of talkingExcessive, angryOtherwise, it's all in vain, and besides, if your child wants to write, don't tell him anythingIt's useless to write** for a long timeand so on, you have to support him, and when the time comes, he will find that he can't write well without other knowledge, such as if he wants to write about the ancient background, you don't know how the ancient people spoke, and what official positions were in ancient times. That's when he needs to learn the language. You then hint at him learning, for exampleLearn to learn the language, otherwise how do you write **, right?

Remember! Communicate with your child more often to support him, and don't let him hate you for not even learning in the end.

Third, you set a goal for him to write about what books he likes, and then talk to himWhen you get better, I'll buy you this book. That way he will have a goal to strive for! You have to believe in our children's persistence and do anything for what they love.

That's all for my advice, and most importantly, if your child loves to play games, the only way to save him is to set a time for him to play games.

At this time, parents need to guide their children, let them learn well, and also need to control the time when children play with mobile phones every day.

Parents should confiscate their children's mobile phones, and should also tell their children that if they don't get any grades, don't let them touch their phones again for a semester, and it is impossible to let them play games again.

Parents tell their children that they should not play mobile phones often in their lives, which will affect their children's intelligence and will also reduce their grades. You should set a time when you play with your phone.

Tell your child what harms and disadvantages there will be if you do this often, and you should also tell your child how to improve it in life, and your child will be very obedient.

What to do if a sixth-grader plays with a mobile phone rebellion:

Clause. First, parents themselves should have a clear understanding. It is not uncommon to hear parents and teachers say that the child is actually quite smart when they comment on a child who does not work hard.

In the past, I often felt that some students seemed to be very clever, but they could not learn anymore, and when I carefully observed their classroom performance, I often wandered. Looking at their holiday homework, it's all obvious that they've coped with things.

Clause. Second, parents need to understand that they cannot replace their children in the future, and one day the children will leave. Parents do not need to urge their children to study, telling them that learning is his own business, he needs to arrange it himself, and he has to bear the consequences of studying well or not studying well.

However, parents need to support their children when they need help.

Clause. 3. When children feel that their studies are difficult, parents can help their children divide the problems into small pieces, and whenever they solve one of the small pieces, the children can experience a sense of accomplishment and the joy of learning knowledge. In the process, don't have any criticism, but encourage a lot.

Clause. Fourth, parents can apologize to their children, saying that they did not pay enough attention and companionship to him before. Parents should spend more time with their children, so that children can feel the care and love from their parents.

In terms of children's good performance, parents should give timely recognition so that the child understands that he does not need to seek parental attention by deliberately doing bad things.

Clause. 5. Parents can tell their children that they always want their children to obey them, which is disrespectful to their children, and that children can have their own choices, and parents believe that they have the ability to arrange their own studies well. At the same time, parents need to give up the punishment and reward of the child, the punishment and reward are the control of the child, and they still want the child to listen to themselves.

Clause. 6. Find a suitable time to talk to your child about his concerns about playing games. For example, bad eyes, delayed studying, etc.

Ask your child what he thinks about this and what he thinks can be done to improve the situation. When the child has said something, parents ask the child if he wants to listen to some of his suggestions, and if the child does not want to listen, then do not say; If the child is willing to listen, then it is up to the child to choose from all the suggestions he has just said and what the parents have said.

Clause. 7. Participate in some meaningful social practices with your children. We can take our children to volunteer with some volunteer groups, or we can let them try some work.

This is mainly to let children experience the lives of others and realize that life is not easy. At the same time, it also enriched his own experience.

You can let your child redeem the time to play with the mobile phone through the grades, for example, you can play with the mobile phone for a few more minutes when the grades of the class are a few places ahead, so that the child will have momentum.

Parents should tell their children about the importance of learning, find a time for their children to play with their mobile phones every day, and help them find the joy of learning.

If the child does not want to learn, parents must communicate with them, and cannot blindly scold.

1. Find a sense of accomplishment and a sense of value.

Such children often do not have good grades, in the eyes of teachers and parents, such children are not excellent children, they can not find a sense of accomplishment in learning, Dou Chun can not find the value of his existence in the eyes of his family and teachers, so he will be addicted to the Internet.

2. Emotional loneliness.

Everyone needs psychological nutrition, parents, teachers and people around them do not meet the psychological nutrition of children, children are lonely in their hearts, they want to be noticed, and if they don't get attention, they will seek the Internet.

3. Parental influence.

Modern mobile life has become a trend, mobile phones and other electronic living devices have been an inseparable part of life, we often teach children not to play with mobile phones, but they hold a mobile phone, children see that the two adults in the family are so keen on mobile phones, life and everything revolves around the mobile phone, naturally it will also be affected. The first way of entertainment that comes to mind is to play with mobile phones, just like Mom and Dad are all gone.

4. Children lack companionship.

Without the company of parents, children feel lonely and have nowhere to appeal, and the rich content information in the mobile phone impacts the child's vision and brain, and the child is more likely to be interested in it, immersed in it and forget about loneliness, boredom and boredom.

What should I do if my child is addicted to mobile phones?

1. Good communication.

Keep your child away from your phone and communicate well with your child is key. Parents should not see their children playing with their mobile phones, and they will be furious and scolding their children, which will only make things worse, but should patiently persuade and guide their children step by step.

2. Establish a system of rewards and punishments.

Once the family has set rules for the use of electronic devices, parents and children can monitor each other and follow them. When parents break the rules, they should also be punished to build up their children's sense of rules.

When children follow the rules, parents should give timely encouragement. When appropriate, rewards can be used to motivate children to follow the rules.

3. Use mobile phones healthily.

For the sake of children's visual health, parents should remind children not to play with mobile phones in the dark, and try to turn on the lights in the room when using mobile phones; The time spent playing with the mobile phone should not be too long; Pay attention to the posture of playing with your phone, don't get too close, and don't play lying down.

Children who are addicted to mobile phones must learn from adults at the beginning, especially their parents. If parents use their mobile phones to play games and chat on WeChat when they come home from work, then their children will also be interested in mobile phones. Therefore, if you don't want your child to be addicted to mobile phones, parents should first start from the root cause and play less with mobile phones.

If parents can't change it themselves, then buy a regular mobile phone, or adjust the function of the smartphone to the lowest level. In addition to the necessary calling features, some entertainment software is uninstalled.

Hold up the mobile phone and ask the child to write homeworkParents should be strict when educating rough children, if the child starts to play with the mobile phone without writing homework after school every day, this situation should be strictly stopped, otherwise there will be countless times with the first time.