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As long as they do a good job, they can't say what they want to say. I used to hate them talking about everything, it was so annoying. Later, I simply did everything, and they stopped talking.
In fact, parents don't want to talk like this all day long, people are mutual. Maybe you can't listen now, because I was like that. Later, I thought of any way, such as buying earplugs, I can't hear it if it's blocked, ** open it louder to divert my attention.
Or simply change all your shortcomings, this is the most effective solution, I wish you to get rid of the nagging as soon as possible, hahaha. It's just a process.
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As parents grow older, they become more and more nagging, and this nagging contains their concern for their children, and the blame for their children also contains expectations for their children. It sounds like a silent chatter and annoyance, but how much love there is here is impossible to measure. When one day, we can't hear the nagging of our parents, that is the most painful thing in the world, please cherish these kind nagging!
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We must listen to our parents well, be filial to our parents, and practice filial piety cannot wait.
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You listen when your parents nag. Talk to them when they're not nagging,..In fact, you have grown up to be sensible. I hope they respect you and love you in the same way.
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Don't bother with the nagging of parents, they are all for the good of their children, if you say it directly, it will hurt the hearts of parents. In the face of these, you can only endure it.
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Parents are like this, you'd better go along with him, just don't do it, and go along with your mouth, so that you can reduce some nagging.
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You can tell your parents that the more nagging you have, the more your happiness will be nagged away. I usually talk to my parents a lot.
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Parents nag for your own good, and when you have a child yourself, you will understand the painstaking efforts of your parents.
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Nagging is all for your own good, parents are like this, nagging worries for a lifetime.
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If you get everything done, they won't nag anymore.
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It's all like this, for the sake of the good of the children, mutual understanding is the best.
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If you're not around, don't nag, old people are like that.
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They love you to nag.
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Before I got married, I often heard my mother nagging in my ear, and I felt annoyed! Now that I'm married and a mother, I know that they are all for my good, and now it's hard to listen to my parents' nagging when I'm away from home! So you have to understand your parents' hearts.
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Just try to do things well, and it's a very happy thing to have someone nagging! Be understanding and respectful of your parents, and one day you will have your own children ...... too
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Hehe, I'm seventeen, although I'm not as old as you, my parents are always nagging me, nagging and nagging, but I know that they are for my good, that's why... Although you are an adult, you are still the daughter of your parents, heart! They'll nag you too much or too little.
When you are an adult, you should have your own opinions! You should talk to your parents and trust that you will understand them and they will understand you!! Nag just nag, it's nothing, let it go! Hope to adopt.
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Growing up, we grew up with a lot of nagging from our parents to remind you to pay attention to this and pay attention to that. How about this. How about that. But as we get older, there are fewer and fewer places for my parents to remind me.
The older we get, the more disgusted we are with our parents' nagging, and our parents also know that we have grown up and can handle many things on our own, but they just don't feel at ease.
Let's talk about how to deal with parents' nagging from two aspects.
First, nagging is a form of expression that reflects the relationship between the rights of parents and children.
Since it is a power relationship, it is insoluble.
Parents, as authorities, are accustomed to setting standards and tasks for their children, and are accustomed to constantly giving guidance and giving opinions before they meet their requirements.
When children are young, they will obey their parents, and gradually children, with their own judgment and ability to deal with things, will gradually no longer rely on their parents and gradually lose their sense of authority.
At this time, you only need to say: "I also know that I have to wear autumn pants, but young people are so angry that they can't wear them." "I also know that playing with mobile phones is not good for my eyes, but I just can't change it!" And he had nothing to say.
Isn't it the same as you advised your parents not to smoke and play cards, and not to be too economical, don't they also know but can't change it? It's good to be a fool and mess around, don't get angry and go back.
Second, nagging is a way for parents to care about us.
The child is older, more independent, and more capable than his parents. Parents are getting older, and there are fewer and fewer things they can do to help their children, so they have to express themselves by caring about their children's lives.
At this time, we have to understand the good intentions of our parents, they just can't find a good topic to communicate with you, but they can't ignore it.
In the details of life, I usually talk to my parents more about family life to reduce their anxiety about the separation of their children. In this way, there are more other topics, and there is less nagging.
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My parents and I have encountered many difficulties in the process of communication, such as urging marriage is a big problem. But also tell yourself that maintaining a good attitude and communication is the way to solve the problem. You also need to learn to understand your parents more.
First, to understand her parents, her habits were formed over the years.
It is very difficult to change a person's personality that has been formed over a long period of time. When you don't try to reform your mother according to your own ideas, but respect her ways, you can feel less helpless and anxious about your mother. You can tell yourself this, you see, you have such a mother, although it is difficult to get along, but when she is older, don't point to her to change.
Second, when you get along with your parents, don't be in a hurry to get angry, don't be in a hurry to reason, don't be in a hurry to teach them to do this, and change the way you respond to your mother.
When you spend time with your mother, keep your mouth shut and change the way you respond to them. By keeping your mouth shut, you can avoid conflict, and then put yourself in the shoes of your parents and consider why they are doing it. You know, parents aren't bad people either, they're just used to it, they're used to worrying, they're used to nagging.
With such an understanding and a calm response, it is possible to figure out how to solve the problem effectively.
Third: find an outlet for your parents' emotions.
Many times, the impenetrable love of parents for their children makes children who are accustomed to getting along with each other feel suffocated. Then keep parents busy, encourage them to develop interests, love to talk, meet new friends, and parents who have their own life circle will not focus on their children.
My mother likes to work, and our family no longer cultivates land, so she often goes to help her neighbors work, or often follows the foreman to work to make money, and she is very busy. I often can't find anyone when I hit **, I said I wanted to go back for two days, and people said directly, don't come back, I'm not available. Parents are busy, have their own lives, and work under the premise of their own ability, they can gain a relaxed chat atmosphere with their peers, and it is estimated that their children often find them in the way.
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Dear, you can do the following: First, try to make your parents feel that they are independent. Regardless of whether the child is an adult or not, parents always feel that they have not grown up and will not take care of themselves.
As a child, you should be independent, this independence is not only to do your own things, but also to be financially independent, as long as parents see that their children are living well, they will talk less and not nag.
What should I do if my parents keep nagging?
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Dear, you can do the following: First, try to make your parents feel that they are independent. Regardless of whether the child is an adult or not, parents always feel that they have not grown up and will not take care of themselves.
As a child, you should be independent, this independence is not only to do your own things, but also to be financially independent, as long as parents see that their children are living well, they will talk less and not nag.
Second, have the courage to take responsibility, take your own affairs, and don't worry your parents. Parents know that when their children encounter difficulties, they will be worried about not being able to sleep and being irritable.
Third, allow parents to withdraw from their children's lives with dignity. Chinese parents and children have a very low sense of boundaries, and they are used to treating their children without distinguishing each other, and if they clearly distinguish between their parents and themselves, parents will feel hurt, so they should talk to their parents in an appropriate way, do not let their parents interfere too much with themselves, and let their parents understand that they are capable of living a good life.
Fourth, when parents nag, use jokes and hugs to stop the nagging.
Fifth, don't add fuel to the fire when your parents are nagging. Sixth, care about the life of the parents, enrich the content of the parents' life, shift the attention to other places, live a good life by yourself, so that the parents have nothing to nag about. Seventh, think about your parents when they are old, nagging and listening to one sentence less, and talk to your parents well.
First of all, as a child, you shouldn't be very impatient, at least you should listen carefully, and talk about things behind your back. In addition, we can find another suitable time to communicate with our parents and see if we can change the situation. Or sometimes parents are very nagging, it may also be a disease state, we can also find some psychologists or physical health consultants.
In short, a good family is the most real.
Just the usual nagging, it's okay, the main thing is to even talk and scold, and I'm afraid to beat me.
This is what parents are used to.
Most parents in China are like this. Parents are actually very tired, but they don't know it. I have always treated my son as a child, hoping to manage it from beginning to end. Dear, it's okay, they are more independent, so that they can rest assured that they will say less.
Dear, they are more considerate of each other, which is also a way for them to love you.
If you are a non-boarding student, you are better off staying in the dormitory; If you stay for a short period of time, it is better to change to a long-term one. I just stayed for a long time to avoid my mother!!
It's true, but you can't take ** as true.
As long as you like it, you have to be brave to pursue it, there will not be too many opportunities, and you must grasp it well.
When there is a disagreement, follow your parents' ideas first, and then talk to them about your thoughts afterwards.
You can still find your friends or family to communicate well, tell them what is on your mind, let them comfort you and enlighten you, you can also find some appropriate ways to vent, you can do something you are interested in, divert your attention, and let yourself stop thinking about it.