What should I do if the man s parents disagree because my house is far away from his house?

Whether it's your partner's excuse to give up or whether the other person's mother really doesn't want to, you have to know it yourself.

If you love him very much and refuse to give up, I suggest you go to his house with your partner to sit and eat and chat. As long as parents like you, things will be much easier.

Happiness is created by both parties, and there is no need to be too inferior if the conditions are not good for a while.

A lot of things that are missed are forever missed. If you get married, do you plan to live in any city? It's still the man's house, right? In this case, as long as you have no cultural differences with the local area, have a good personality, good character, and are very affectionate with the man, there should still be hope.

Don't be upset, it's important to solve the problem. Persist in what you can, but persist in action. Do your best, and the rest will be left to fate.

If you can, it is also recommended that you do more good deeds on weekdays and smile often. Pray for God's help. You can also go to a famous (remember) temple in the area.

If you don't do anything, you'll have to do it forever. Happiness requires effort and a price.

Can't give up. But there must be sacrifices to be made. Either you went to Yantai, or he was with you despite the opposition of his parents, hurting his parents' feelings.

I think it's better to choose it, because hurting your parents' feelings is temporary, and when you get married, the two elders will accept you when they see that you love each other very much and respect them very much.

Support the first floor, that is, you have been together for a long time, he is tired of playing, just find an excuse to break up, even if you can be together, this matter can only show that your personality is not compatible, his love for you is no longer enough, you love him so you can be like this, this can only prove that his love for you is not enough He is against everything, even if you are together, you will quarrel and break up because of incompatible personalities.

Breaking up because the family doesn't agree is basically an excuse.

My parents don't agree to marry far away, and my boyfriend's parents don't agree to come to our side to develop, what should I do?

First, let parents see the advantages of their boyfriend, and parents will be more relieved.

The reason why parents do not agree to marry far away is because they are afraid that they will always be wronged after marrying into their in-laws' family, so they will not worry about themselves, which is also out of love for themselves. As a little padded jacket of parents, you must understand your parents' minds, and you should not go against your parents, but communicate well with your parents, so that they can see that your boyfriend has many advantages, and most importantly, no matter what happens, your boyfriend will take care of herself. Parents are indeed very responsible and trustworthy when they see the boyfriend their daughter chooses, and they will also give their daughter peace of mind to their future son-in-law.

Second, find a city that is not too far from both families to settle down, so that neither parent will object.

The distance between the man's family and the woman's family is more than 1,000 miles, and in the minds of many people, it is a distant marriage. In order to convince both parents, you can choose a compromise way, in the middle of the two cities, so that the distance to both families will be closer, which can be considered a balance. Perhaps it will be agreed by both parties.

3. If all the methods don't work, you can only break up, so as not to lose family affection.

Although today's society advocates free love, and marriage should have its own decision, however, when getting married, the opinions of parents cannot be ignored, especially if you marry far away. Although the transportation is convenient now, the distance is far away, and the parents must be more concerned, which is why most parents do not marry their daughters far away. Because, the children who have been raised for so many years are too far away from themselves, and they will inevitably miss them very much.

Children should also understand this kind of thinking of their parents, so they can't ignore their parents' feelings for their own sake, and if both parents don't give in, then they can only choose to break up, because a marriage without the blessing of their parents is also imperfect.

In fact, it still depends on the two of you, although your parents disagree, but the two of you can compromise for love, as long as you love each other enough and can find a job to live in each other's cities, then take the initiative to go to each other's cities.

You should choose to break up, after all, the risk of marrying far away is very large, and if the other party is not willing to come to your side, you should stop the loss in time.

The two of you should consult with each other, and you should negotiate a better outcome, or you can go to another city together.

First of all, you have to be sure that this person is worthy of your love, and you can't be deceived by the moment. As the saying goes, the authorities are obsessed, and we are in love, sometimes we can't judge someone rationally, so try to keep a clear head and objectively observe to determine how his personal conduct is, and whether he is sincere to you.

Secondly, you have to be honest with your parents, including your boyfriend's personal conditions, family situation, etc., even if your boyfriend has shortcomings in some aspects, don't hide it, after all, God is fair, and he must have his own shining points. It wouldn't be worth it to ruin your bond in order to hide a small flaw.

The reason why your parents disagree is undoubtedly that they are worried that your boyfriend will not take good care of you, and that you will be wronged and bullied. Create more opportunities for your parents to find out that they genuinely care and love you, so that they feel that your boyfriend is genuinely reliable and worthy of being trusted for life.

Often we say too many nice things, and our parents will think that we are defending our boyfriend, so you might as well pull in your close friend. Objectively evaluating him (her) in front of your parents will always add a little trust.

Don't give up just because you don't get permission to try various methods, think about your bright future, and you should be motivated. You should insist on communicating more with your parents, understanding your parents' worries, and at the same time, taking care of the feelings of the opposite sex, cheering each other up, and firmly believing that you can succeed.

If you really like him and don't want to lose, then go and express your determination. Destroying family affection because of love must hurt the hearts of parents. If it really comes to this point, it means that he may really have something unacceptable, after all, his parents are more reliable than you are.

Finally, I wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Parents think that your boyfriend's house is too far away to convince them, I suggest you try to say this:

First of all, although my boyfriend's home is far away, he has more conditions and advantages in all aspects, and he loves him more. And the happy life of two people after marriage in the future is the most important. If it's just to get closer to your own home, find a boyfriend at random, your daughter doesn't like it, and your life after marriage will not be happy in the future, aren't you two worried about your daughter!

Secondly, if you do feel that your boyfriend's home is far away and many things are inconvenient, we can consider buying a house near your second elder after marriage, and then he will transfer his job. Or after we get married, we will take your second elder to live with us, won't it be convenient? In short, I think that as long as two people really love each other and feel happier together, other issues are secondary.

Parents feel that your boyfriend's home is far away from you, but the starting point is also for your own good, because your parents are worried that if you marry far away, you are in a foreign land, and you are afraid that you will not be able to cope with the feeling of missing your parents and loneliness, and at the same time, they are also worried that if you are wronged in your in-law's house, there is nowhere to confide.

In this case, if you want to dispel your parents' concerns, you should tell them that you are already an adult, you can take care of yourself, you know the difficulties you will face when marrying far away, and you will learn to adapt and deal with them. In addition, to reassure your parents, your boyfriend should also show enough sincerity to prove that he is the one who can make you worthy of marrying for him.

Parents feel that your boyfriend's house is too far away to oppose it, just because they are worried that when there is a conflict between you, it will be inconvenient for you to go back to your parents' house, and you are too far away, if your mother-in-law's family bullies you, your mother's family will be too long to help, which is understandable.

In addition to explaining to parents that the transportation is convenient now, it is convenient to come and go, and there is no need to worry about the long distance. I think you should let your boyfriend show sincerity, let the family believe that you will not be bullied over there in the future, he will love you sincerely, wholeheartedly, care for you, will not let you be wronged, and it is best to make some guarantee so that parents may let go of their worries.

It's not that your parents think that your boyfriend's house is too far away, but they are afraid that you will not get used to it after you get married, you will be bullied, and you will live unhappily.

If you want to convince them, you need your boyfriend to work hard and behave positively in front of your parents, so that your parents can see that he is a very reliable boy who loves you very much.

They trust the boy's character, so they will naturally marry you with confidence.

For a relationship, be true to your heart. If you feel that your boyfriend's house is too far away, your parents will not accept it. can let parents know who their boyfriend is, even if it is far away, it will not make parents feel that they are marrying the wrong person.

Only by really facing it and doing ideological work for parents can we still get the understanding of our parents.

It mainly depends on how you choose, and after identifying your boyfriend, parents always want their daughter to be happy, and when it comes to talking about marriage, parents will generally compromise. If you want to convince, you can only take your time, let your boyfriend be filial to your parents, so that they feel that your boyfriend can rely on and can rest assured that they can hand over their daughter to him. Walk around a lot and can't ignore your parents' feelings.

Let parents know that they are far away, and they are often missed. It can also show that the transportation is convenient now, and the distance is not a problem.

In fact, your parents feel that your boyfriend's family is far away in the final analysis, or they are worried that you will have a bad life, if you have decided that this life must be him, and the other party is really good to you, you might as well make an agreement with your parents for half a year or a year, if you are not doing well, you will come home, but if you are doing well, then let yourself and your boyfriend go on forever, you have to believe that your parents will always love you!

In this case, first of all, I will tell my parents that although my boyfriend's house is far away, his home is a very good place with fresh air and fragrant birds. Secondly, they are very friendly to the people, and his parents are good. Thirdly, it is convenient for transportation and smooth roads.

If you really love him, use your true feelings to convince him, if you can't even convince yourself, you can try to say from the current traffic that after all, the traffic is so developed now, and it is only a few hours to fly far, I believe you can convince them.

The above are some of my thoughts on this issue, I hope it will be helpful to you, thank you!!

I think I can show my heart to my parents, and show my parents that my boyfriend and my boyfriend's family are very good to me, the family background is the same as our family, he is also very protective of himself, and the most important thing is that he also respects his feelings, even if his boyfriend's home is far away, but we will consider buying a house close to home, and we will come back to visit you often, so please parents don't worry about themselves.

Tell your parents that you love your boyfriend very much, and now the transportation conditions are very developed, even if it is from other provinces, it can be reached in a few hours. Make your boyfriend behave well in front of your parents, or ask your boyfriend to buy a car so that you don't have to worry about distance.

Nowadays, there are not many children in every family, and parents want their children to be closer to them, so that it is convenient to take care of the elderly in the future. In this case, parents should be more likely to communicate. After all, the traffic is very convenient now. You and your boyfriend work hard to get your parents to you.

There are three points to convince.

1. Now the transportation is convenient, no matter where you go, it is very fast, and high-speed rail plane travel is regarded as tourism.

2. From the perspective of eugenics, the farther apart the family of both men and women, the smarter the children will be.

3. It is easy to have conflicts if you are too close, and once there is a conflict between the two families or the two people, the parents will also be angry.

Summary. The family disagrees, it must be their thoughts, I don't want you to marry too far, and it is difficult for them to meet when they are old, and they only meet a few times a year, but now the transportation is developed, and it is very easy to meet, as long as you are really together, I think the family will definitely not hinder it, their obstacle is that it is too difficult to see your daughter, and you must communicate well with your family. Happiness is instantaneous, and if you miss it, you really miss it.

The family disagrees and thinks that my boyfriend's house is too far away, what should I do?

Hello, I'm sorting out the answer according to the question you asked, please wait a while The family doesn't agree that there must be their ideas, I don't want you to marry too far and wait for them to get old and want to meet is difficult, only a few times a year, but now the transportation is developed and it is very easy to meet, as long as you are really together, I think the family will definitely not hinder it, their obstacle is that it is too difficult to see your daughter, and you must communicate with your family well. Happiness is instantaneous, and if you miss it, you really miss it.

Her parents were afraid that our family would treat her badly in the future, and she wouldn't be able to go back if she wanted to go home, and she didn't agree to all kinds of communication.

You can go back to his house during the holidays, and then go to work at your house.