Couples are confused and troubled and urgently need guidance from a master

Yes, at this stage, it is really hard to be a man, but you have to be considerate of your wife, and it is very hard and hard to conceive a baby in October. Especially for the first child, there will always be gains and losses, and there is a feeling of no bottom in my heart, so I especially want my dearest people to be by my side. And you are still working in the field, and the number of times you go home is limited, so say more intimate words when talking and calling, such as:

How do you feel today? Are you uncomfortable? Is the baby well-behaved?

Didn't kick you or something. I guess it will be returned!

Ren Wukong is right, I don't need to persuade you with a big reason, I'll give you an example from my side, which is very similar to yours. But he went home once a week, and one weekend, he didn't come home (this was a colleague's idea), his wife called, crying, talking, (similar to what you said above), he listened, only said one word, I was in a bad mood, there was a problem with the drawing design, this month's salary and bonuses were deducted, and he was speechless for a while, he said: "Okay, goodbye!"

I didn't come back in the afternoon, and on Monday, this colleague said that his wife only called one ** on Sunday to say, don't hurry back, and take care of the work. He only has one word:

Okay", just like that, on the weekend again, his colleagues helped him buy a lot of delicious food, and also bought a voice recorder, so that he could record the wonderful parts and use them as a school case for future generations. Now the relationship between their husband and wife is much better, his wife's troublesome degree has decreased a lot, and he understands his husband's hard work very well, and in turn, he is more spoiled by his wife.

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It feels like this woman has changed from her bones, becoming realistic and monetized. With such a woman, if her work ability is stronger than yours, she will look down on you, and you have to listen to her for everything; If your salary is higher than hers, you can satisfy her material desires for the time being, but you will never be able to satisfy her vanity. Such a woman can only be once had, not forever.

I gave the advice, how to do it, it's up to you to decide. As the saying goes: It is better to teach people to beat their sons than to teach them to divide their wives.

Hopefully you've made the right decision。。

If you are suspicious, say it, communicate more with your wife, and if you are really unhappy together, you don't have to be reluctant, and you can find happiness in divorce.

For the sake of the child, for the sake of the family, talk to her well, if she really doesn't want this home, let it go, the long pain is better than the short pain! But children will leave a shadow for a lifetime, and it's really hard to decide. It would be better to improve her!

Don't come back if you leave, work hard with your children, and men should be self-reliant!

What problem are you trying to solve? Or is it just here to vent?

Husband and wife should communicate more, and if there is a problem, they will speak up, so that the other party can understand their true thoughts. In this way, misunderstandings can be avoided.

Let's talk to her.

So why quarrel? Grasp the main root cause and apologize to her in a unique way to give her a little face. Give her a space for love. Also, how long have you been married?

You just pretend to tell her that you have someone outside.

It's normal for husbands and wives to quarrel, but don't have a cold war, that will affect the relationship, what to say, don't think in your heart, you communicate too little with your wife, you should listen to her thoughts more, if she doesn't say it, and don't listen to you, you can send her a message, or write a letter, so that communication is okay, try it, good luck and a happy life!

It's not that it's difficult for husband and wife to communicate, it's that other people exist, such as both parents.

Marriage is generally considered to be the grave of love, so many couples who are in a relationship are reluctant to move towards marriage, they do not want their relationship to change because of marriage. In fact, this is a kind of fear of marriage, in fact, when you really enter the marriage, you will find that marriage is not as terrible as you imagined, as long as the two people in the marriage can cherish each other and face the ups and downs of life together, then the marriage will also be sweetened by two people. Even if you watch children grow up from a young age, they will still have conflicts with their parents, not to mention two people from different families and different environments, it is normal for them to have conflicts at the beginning of marriage.

In fact, there will always be some confusion in the relationship between husband and wife, and if these confusions can be solved smoothly, then the relationship between husband and wife will be much more harmonious.

First of all, two people have to face the problem of the concept of life, each child grows up in a different family so more or less will have the shadow of their parents, two people at the beginning of their marriage will definitely have certain contradictions because of different ideas, at this time two people just need to sit together and communicate well, know each other's living habits and ideas, so that many contradictions can be stifled invisibly.

Secondly, as time goes by in the relationship between husband and wife, the husband and wife may feel that the other half has become different from before marriage, and at this time, "how did you become like this" has become the mantra of husband and wife quarrels, in fact, sometimes it is not the other party that is changing, but two people changing together. After all, what you face after marriage will be very different from what you faced before marriage, and at this time, both parties may have some changes to a greater or lesser extent, but these changes may not be perceptible to yourself, but the people who accompany you will definitely find out at the first time. Then they began to make all kinds of accusations about each other's changes in their hearts, as if they were grabbing each other's pigtails, and they all felt that the other party had become less beautiful than they saw during their relationship, and gradually the dissatisfaction in their hearts began to grow, and finally made the relationship between the two people worse.

If two people live with the man's parents after getting married, the tense relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may plague every man, and it will also make the woman feel tired and tired. If you live with the woman's parents after marriage, then the man will always feel that he is under someone else's roof and always has a feeling that he can't hold his head up, so the parental problem is the most troublesome confusion for couples to get along. However, as long as two people love each other and can firmly believe that they can grow old together, then all kinds of confusion in marriage can be solved with mutual tolerance, care and love.

Men must learn to bow their heads first in marriage.

There are often different opinions in life, who should I listen to? The relationship between the wife and the mother-in-law is not good, how can the husband coordinate the relationship between the two? Should my husband's salary be paid? There's a lot of confusion.

I can't feel the sweetness when I first got married, the relationship is relatively cold, except for firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, life has also changed its taste.

The most common confusion is that many small problems that did not exist before marriage will emerge one by one after marriage, which is very common and a very intuitive feeling, and then you will wonder if it is all disguised before marriage.

I think they will have the confusion of distrusting each other, or the relationship is cold, after all, they have been together for a long time, and they lack the sweetness of being in love, I think they can travel when they have time, which can enhance their sweetness.

The confusion of most wives, what exactly does a man in his 40s want?

If the divorce agreement pays the son's living expenses, why should the other party sue to pay the son's living expenses?

The conditions for divorce by mutual agreement become a legal clause that must be bound by both parties at the time of obtaining the divorce registration, and must be strictly enforced by both parties.

If one party is unable to perform its responsibilities or obligations in accordance with the law due to a change in living environment, it can negotiate with each other and reach a new agreement, which can have legal effect after being notarized into a document.

If one party has evidence that the other party deceived himself at the time of the divorce by mutual agreement and obtained the divorce by mutual agreement at that time, he or she can file a lawsuit with the court to reopen the divorce case.

Please consult with a lawyer based on your specific situation and carefully decide what action you should take.

Yes! That is true! Almost all families quarrel because one or even both parties want to impose their ideas on others!

We know that everyone's life experiences and habits are different, which determines that everyone's views and concepts on the same thing are also different. Almost every one of us stands on our own conceptual standpoint, thinking that we are right, and there are always 10,000 reasons to ask the other person to listen to us and follow us. Everyone has this concept to a greater or lesser extent, and some people show it more obviously, and the conflict is greater.

Some people show relatively little and have less conflict. People in the world are always like this, so they are always looking for troubles. If you can understand that there are all kinds of plants on this earth, there are towering trees, there are grasses covering the ground, there are blooming flowers, and there are thorny thorns, each of which grows luxuriantly, blends with each other, and does not interfere with each other.

Why are we not as good as these plants, and we are intolerant of others?

To change others is to change yourself. If everyone could start by changing themselves, the situation would be very different.

In addition, when the two get along, they should be calm and communicate more. For example, even if two people have an awkward relationship, don't let others get involved, the more people are involved, the more complicated and difficult it is to solve. Why should a matter of two people evolve into a matter of two families, or even more families?

Many family members think that they are helping their relatives, and they think that they are supporting and venting their anger for their relatives, but they do not know that it will only make both parties more painful. In these aspects, you should agree with your lover. On the basis of a certain consensus, other effective communication is carried out.

It will also require the efforts of both of you. I believe that your situation will be different.

May you all have a harmonious family, a happy and auspicious New Year!

After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", you will know what to do.

Maybe you need a period of cold treatment to see if you will miss each other and think about each other's good.

You also know a lot of times that it's not good for you to lose your temper No matter who you are, you have your own ideas It's not that the abuser doesn't like other people's ideas to impose on you If your wife also lets you do what she thinks, is it because you don't obey her, she should also lose her temper You don't really want to lose your temper It's just that you can't control it yourself Finally, the conflict in your own family leads to the family between the two parties Your parents and her parents are not obliged to join this war It was your own immaturity that hurt the three families again You also know that I don't care about money No matter how rich I am, it's as boring as no one to share Forbearance is necessary for both parties Give each other a promise After all, the feeling of happiness after a quarrel is not always there.

If you love him, he also loves you, and under mutual discussion, mutual understanding, communication. He'll know, "Oh, so you care about me.""It's as simple as that. If you lose your temper with him and he fights, it means that you are emotionally unstable.

Let's talk about it, it will be solved.