My boyfriend has a very bad temper and is very good at scolding, what should I do? Help me analyze i

My boyfriend and I have also been in a long-distance relationship for 3 years, and his temper is sometimes like that, since you have been talking for 2 years, there must be a relationship foundation, he is working outside, you have to understand him, if he is in a bad mood, you should try not to quarrel with him, otherwise it will make him more irritable. Men are under a lot of pressure to do things outside, sometimes he will not tell you about work, so it will lead to a bad mood, tantrums, men are not like women, men don't need women to quarrel with him at this time, as long as he is given a certain space, he will naturally be fine, and then fart to find you, so if he is having a seizure, you don't quarrel with him, let him, admit his mistakes, change to a relaxed question and continue to talk, isn't it good, if you have time and money, you can also go to see him. When it comes to feelings, they will eventually be transformed into family affection, and two people will get used to each other after a long time, especially a long-distance relationship, and if they are not maintained well, it will be easy to separate, and they must trust each other and be tolerant.

Don't just revolve around a man when you're fine, it's not good. You also have to have your own life circle, if he wants to hang you again, you don't need to call again, not only a waste of phone bills, but also a stomach, why bother, women should be better to themselves, and when they see the signs in the future, they will hang up first, and don't give him the opportunity to hang first, so it's not good. Hope it helps.

Are you sure that if you get married, he won't have domestic violence?

Fiercer than him, don't always go with his temperament and give him some color.

Let's go! It's undignified to be scolded all day long, and I won't beat you to death after I get married! If it hurts, it won't scold you. A man who doesn't have such patience for girls is still a man?

I think that anyone who is in a bad mood when they are upset will vent in some way. Your boyfriend may be in a hurry, but you have to remember that when he is troubled, you can't let him vent to you all the time, otherwise it will become a matter of course in the future. Also, if he does something to you, then, lift up your head and leave him.

A man who beats a woman is not a good thing!

Sometimes it's more for men to think about. Men are also human beings, not gods, and they also need warmth and love. Love Him, think of Him ... There's something wrong with your boyfriend, too, and you should talk about it.

Maybe it's upset, the two of them are more considerate.

I think when you encounter this kind of boyfriend, break up quickly, when you fall in love, your boyfriend's temper is so bad, and he always likes to talk hurtfully, so once two people get married, there may be greater contradictions, I think both men and women should learn to tolerate in the relationship, but at the same time they must learn to respect, your boyfriend always likes to attack you with words, which proves that he actually does not respect you from the heart, for such an irresponsible boyfriend or leave as soon as possible, so as not to add unnecessary noise and trouble later.

Many women rely on intuition rather than a person's inner self when looking for a boyfriend, which makes it easy to suffer in a relationship. If your boyfriend's temper is problematic, you can communicate with the other party first and ask for immediate correction, but the other party has not changed, and he often loses his temper, then I think don't grieve yourself anymore, I think a good love must go to each other, if two people are always arguing and quarrelling, they will not be happy in the future life.

Girls must be cautious when choosing a partner, after all, there are so many men in this world, there is no need to interact with bad-tempered boys, not only will they suffer from each other's violence, but also their hearts are very aggrieved, if they realize that the other party's character is problematic after falling in love, I think we must stay away in time, if the love object can not change for you, and often shout insults to you, this is actually a manifestation of not liking you in the heart.

In a relationship, we must achieve mutual understanding and respect, respect each other's personal hobbies, track each other's behavior and habits, will not be concerned about some trivial things, will sacrifice themselves in order to please each other, if two people really love each other, then there may be some disputes in the relationship, but the two people will soon be reconciled as before, and will not lose their temper with each other at will, let alone hurt each other's hearts, do not associate with people with poor character, so that they will only find themselves unhappy.

My boyfriend has a bad temper and always says hurtful things when he is angry, so I think it is necessary to discuss with the other party and ask the other party to correct it, and if the other party has not changed, then I don't think there is any need to be together at all.

If I were you, I would choose to break up, because this kind of hurtful words will make you slowly become sensitive and inferior, and it will hurt you a lot.

I think you can talk to him so that he can change his bad temper.

If your boyfriend scolds people every time he is impatient, and it is particularly ugly, then I think you must talk to your boyfriend about this issue, because we must know that every man is working or living in this society, his image is very important. If a man cannot maintain the image of a gentleman with a polite manner, then everything he does is a hidden danger, and every man should be calm and composed when he encounters impatience.

Your boyfriend will say crazy words to you because he is impatient, so why do you want to break up with him directly, if this kind of man marries is a nightmare for a lifetime, do you still think he will abandon the dark and turn to the light after marriage? Stop dreaming!

In fact, in the face of this situation, you should choose to refute. Because if you don't refute it, it will make your boyfriend a habit.

The main thing is that he has a bad temper, poor psychological tolerance, and is easily excited, try not to provoke him, it will be better if he is older.

Change a boyfriend who doesn't scold, why do you have to find someone who makes you uncomfortable with so many good men.

In this case, I think you should sit down and talk to your boyfriend when he is calm, let him know his shortcomings, and then supervise him to correct them.

Such a boyfriend will not be happy when they stay together, and he will not give you a sense of security, so it is better to break up early.

Be sure to communicate well with your boyfriend, euphemistically say his mistakes, and if your boyfriend can't change, you must not wronged yourself and choose to break up in time.

Why do you keep this kind of non-breakup, waiting for the New Year? This kind of man is very bad, and he has no feelings for you. Now greedy lovers will scold people, and it is estimated that there will be domestic violence when they get married in the future.

Your boyfriend always scolds you, shouldn't you scold you back? When two people are together, they are not anyone's slaves, and they don't have to use scolding to solve things. Since he scolds you with such an attitude, it means that he doesn't love you at all.

For someone who doesn't love you at all, you don't need to face him with your sincerity. Girls should be spoiled like a princess by their boyfriends, why should they find a boyfriend who scolds them every day?

The happiest thing in a woman's life is probably to be able to meet a man who loves and spoils herself, but she meets a boyfriend who always scolds her, I think if I were you, I would have broken up with him a long time ago.

I think from the emotional side of me, since you two are boyfriend and girlfriend, then there is affection between the two of you anyway, but your boyfriend always treats you with an irritable attitude when solving things.

Then you should reconsider whether the man next to you really loves you, maybe he just attracted him to a certain advantage in you, and later found out that the person he once liked you was not as good as he imagined, so it will lead to this to you.

But two people need feelings when they are together, since there is no affection between you, there is no need to continue to be together, even if you really like him, but there is no need for a man who swears to himself all day long.

If I were you, I would definitely choose to break up with him and break up, after all, how can the person I like tolerate hurting myself like this? And if he really likes you, he will definitely be reluctant to talk to you.

The person you have experienced in your life will experience a lot of things, and you understand that your object should be the final destination in your life, since he did not treat you as a boyfriend, you don't need to pay meaninglessly by his side.

Feelings are reluctant, and he has clearly seen to you with this attitude that he doesn't like you anymore, and if you continue to insist on it, it may not be as simple as just scolding you.

Some boys will always be violent to their boyfriends and other similar phenomena, when they don't show their true colors, they are especially good to girls.

So when he hasn't fully shown his true colors, you still have to return to your sincerity, find the person you love the most, and live your best life.

If they really scold you, then don't scold you back, if he scolds you jokingly, then you joke with him.

Of course, you can't take everything seriously, and it may just be that you think he is scolding you, but in fact, he is not really scolding you in his heart, but just joking with you, or that lovers love and kill each other and mock each other.

You have to know that some people actually want to play with you, but he just can't express this kind of scale, if that's really the case, then you don't need to care too much, just play with him.

However, if your boyfriend is really fierce and scolds you fiercely, if it is your fault, then when you apologize to him, if he still does not forgive you and keeps scolding, then you wait for him to calm down and communicate with him, if he has been refusing to forgive you, then this man's strength is too small, give up on him.

You have to remember that love must not seem too humble, and when love needs to end with the humble concession of one party, then there is no need for the relationship to exist.

I hope you and your boyfriend can have a good communication, and finally go on safely.

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When I asked questions, he always said that it was because of my fault that he scolded me, and after scolding me, he would find all kinds of reasons.

Asked questions, but he scolded me again and again, and I felt very aggrieved.

Every time you finish a question, you will never do it again, but it will be the same next time.

Every time you end a fight, you will never do it again, but next time it will be the same.

Hello, so he has machismo.

If he scolds all the time, there must be a reason.

First of all, you should reflect on yourself, maybe you look like something wrong, ordinary people will not scold, for fear of offending you, your boyfriend is half of your relatives. After all, the boyfriend must be with him for the sake of the two of them to develop better in the future, of course, this is all on the premise that he loves you. Let's see if your boyfriend's scolding is really right, maybe he just hates iron and steel, and wants you to be better, and he has no choice but to scold him, you should understand it, not that he always scolds you for not loving you, it is important to adjust your mentality.

Maybe I have a lot of bad things in myself, but I always feel that everything is right, and I never want to hear what others say, just because my boyfriend often scolds me, and when I'm unhappy, I will reflect from the inside, whether I really did something wrong, and then start to change, and finally our relationship is still as good as ever, although sometimes there will be a little resentment in my heart, but I still hurt him very much, just imagine, if he just blindly follows, then what will he become in the future, will he not be spoiled? It's hard to say.

There is also a possibility that it is the daily play between couples, if two people are together just to talk about love, it will be such a boring thing, he just jokingly scolded you a few words, but never thought that you took it seriously, so it was not explained in time, it should be understandable.

But if he always scolds you for no reason, and he always uses you as a tool to vent, then it won't work, and you must judge him at this time. Let him deeply realize his mistakes, otherwise use your practical actions to let him know that you are very serious.

Although love is the same as life, not only sweetness, but also a lot of ups and downs, but there are always people whose boyfriends are not so reliable and like to scold their girlfriends, so when girls don't like this way of getting along, how should they solve it?

The second solution is that you can think about it carefully, whether you should consider breaking up with him, choosing to wait for a good man and then start a new relationship, because since your boyfriend always scolds you, then it means that he doesn't respect you at all and doesn't love you, because if a guy really loves his girlfriend, he is reluctant to scold her, this is his baby and not his enemy, adhering to the principle that long pain is better than short pain, it is recommended that you break up with him happily and choose a man who really loves you and is good to you.

The third solution is that you can have a cold and violent war with him, threaten him with a breakup, if he really cares about you, he will be able to change his past mistakes because he is afraid of losing you, get rid of the stinky mistakes he always scolds you, and never do it again. Finally, I hope you can be happy and no longer sad because of this.