What should I do if my lover has a bad temper and is still very strong?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-23
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My lover is over 60 and has a very bad temper and is still very stubborn, what should I do? People over 60 are a little bit of a change in temper and very stubborn, maybe her forbearance may have been tolerated with many things before, but at the age of 60, he understands that he feels that there is no need to wronged himself, so he has to lose his temper when he looks at the wrong things, and this needs your patient guidance to care more, if what I said is right, then you also have to change yourself, give each other more care, set her advantages more, give her the greatest care, let them return to nature, return to the previous state, You play a very big role in this, and I hope that your lover can change his temper and go back to the past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because a 60-year-old person is menopause, his temper will be very strong, you have to help him through this menopause, try to satisfy her, and tolerate him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone's menopause is too short, and their temperament and personality are different, there is no right or wrong in the family, tolerate each other, communicate well, support each other, and spend the rest of your life together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is another stage of life, and menopause has this time to understand each other and be tolerant.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe the man used to have a good personality and was able to tolerate things, but after a few decades, his heart was tired. So if your temper becomes bad, you think about the advantages of the past, and try to be satisfied and tolerant of others, so that the family can live a life in harmony and happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two people feel too tired to live together, just break up, I feel like living like this, living is very tired.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Slowly get used to her, don't compete with her, there is no good way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Live your life, open one eye and close one eye, let it go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't be tough, I'm afraid you'll be the same as her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no way to change it, it is innate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Either stronger than her or weaker, scolding will only ruin the relationship,

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The most important thing for husband and wife to get along with each other is to tolerate each other, in fact, the most important thing between people is tolerance. You can't guarantee that you're going to satisfy your wife, can you? Husband and wife communicate more with each other, since they are husband and wife, they can't talk if they don't have anything. I wish you all happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What's so bad? It's up to you, do you like this kind of character? If you like it, her personality will help you get through a lot of ups and downs in your life in the future, and if you don't like it, then you will have disputes about it in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Water nourishes people, but it can also destroy people, water is gentle and fierce, you have to learn the character of water. That's fine, if the water keeps flowing strongly, no one will dare to approach because it's too dangerous.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you get married in the future, you will definitely get divorced.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Why don't you put yourself in their shoes. Don't measure others by the way you think.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no good or bad, good and evil are in the heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's hard to say, tolerate each other,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's how I think it's good.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This kind of girl has a strong personality and is enthusiastic about people.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I have also met such a person, you are friends with her, and her strength can train you how to communicate with female men. The bad thing is that sometimes you have to learn to be generous and agree with her ideas. There is a saying: the prime minister's belly can row.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is no such thing as good or bad, and no one is perfect? Just be tolerant of each other!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's good to like it, but it's not good if you don't like it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Some aspects are good, some are bad, half and half.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is a dead eye, a firm believe, and a perseverance.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This kind of person is good and can grasp opportunities.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What should I do if my baby has a strong temper.

    What should I do if my baby has a strong temper.

    There is generally only one child in each family, so the child is often more accommodating, if the child is often accommodating, it will make the child develop a more self-respecting character, especially when encountering things, the child will often lose his temper. So what should I do if my baby has a temper?

    If the baby's temper is stronger, it is generally caused by the doting parents. When a hot-tempered baby encounters something, he doesn't care what others say or do, just follow his own ideas. When this happens, parents should talk calmly with the baby and communicate well with the baby.

    You can't rely on the baby for everything, which will make the baby's temper more and more strong.

    When the baby's temper is stronger, you can use some methods to divert attention, such as you can get a toy for the baby, delicious, make the baby happy, don't always be more serious with the baby on a problem, only in this way can you avoid a big conflict with the baby.

    If you want to avoid your child's temper, you should not let your baby win the first time he is against an adult. If the baby succeeds for the first time, he will become more and more tough, and even grow up to be more difficult to manage. The baby's character should be cultivated from an early age.

    If you want to have a sensible baby, you must reason with your child from an early age.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Two people tolerate each other together, do not be critical, do not blame, do not complain, accept his current character, treat him calmly regardless of his strengths and weaknesses, and get along with him with trust, encouragement and positivity.

    Let him be mentally happy, gain a sense of satisfaction and self-confidence, and thus gain the motivation to seek good.

    There is an old Chinese saying, "A scholar dies for his confidant".I think this sentence is also appropriate for the relationship between husband and wife, the wife regards her husband as a confidant, trusts him completely, respects him, can improve his self-esteem, and bring out the good in his nature.

    For example, a person who is known to be short-tempered and vulgar has unwittingly become a stable and kind husband after marriage, and when asked why, he says, "My wife trusts me."

    Just blindly believing in me makes me embarrassed not to change. From this, "to change a wayward or cruel person."

    There is no better way than to show affection to him and let him change himself. ”

    A man has a short temper to help him change, it is difficult for him to control his emotions, and-for-tat can only make him angry and angry, so finding out his temper and mastering some ways to suppress violence can gradually change his violent temper.

    To know how to take it step by step, you can write a diary, record the reasons and process of his irritability and tantrums, sort it out every week, see what things are easy to make him explode and lose control of his emotions, do not touch his anger switch, reduce the cause of his attacks, and prevent problems before they happen.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you meet someone with a particularly strong temper, then you can only stay away from him, well, and then far away, if you can not communicate, you don't need to communicate, if you communicate with him, he will also make you angry when he has a strong temper, so it is best to say that you are far away.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think I should have a good chat with him at this time, people with this kind of temper are generally more upright and do things more properly. I'm sure if you can make it clear to him, he will understand you very well.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't explain, just say it once, let him think that it is good, the wicked have their own wicked grinding, and one day, he will be ashamed.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What should I do if I have a particularly strong temper? Be calm, drive slowly until he has time and follow him, so that slowly her temper will soften.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think when I meet my beloved, if he is obedient to you, he will only become more and more tough, because I am like this, and I can't change it. My husband said that now unless you throw me into a place full of strangers, let me suffer a little, and sharpen my temperament, just like an ox, I will be more and more tough if I plow the field without a rope, hehe.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The quality of a person's temper is related to a person's character, and a person's character is related to a person's virtue, and virtue cannot be pretended, and virtue must be cultivated bit by bit. Grumpy people are generally more impulsive people, in the face of many things often only rely on their own perceptual understanding to deal with problems, this is very bad, if when dealing with problems do not be so impulsive and rational look at the problem then the temper will be much better. Grumpy people will often talk and act aggressively, which not only gives a bad impression to others, but also encourages your short temper while others tolerate you.

    Grumpy people usually lack self-control, and self-control is actually very easy to exercise, when you are doing something that you find very interesting, if you stop doing it and there is nothing to lose except for making you feel unpleasant, force yourself to stop immediately and not do it. How can I get rid of my bad temper? First and foremost, it is important to have a good understanding of the dangers of a bad temper.

    In our social life, we always have to contact and interact with other people, hoping to get the favor, friendship, appreciation, and cooperation of others (of course, not everyone), otherwise, we will feel lonely, lonely, lifeless, and unable to move an inch. People's behavior is regulated and controlled by consciousness, and when we understand the harm of bad temper, we can generate a demand from our hearts to change our bad temper. Second, it is necessary to strengthen ideological cultivation.

    Only when we always think of others in our hearts and respect the interests and needs of others will we be warm, considerate and loving to others. Only by always putting the interests of the collective in the first place can we not be rash and stubborn, and can we be calm and think twice when encountering problems. Finally, you must have determination and perseverance to change your bad temper, and if you can't remember it today, just be cautious, and after two days, you will still be the same.

    With determination and perseverance, you will definitely get rid of your bad temper.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you don't listen to the persuasion now, it will be better to persuade him when he suffers a little!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You have to be patient! Because he's not an outsider, he's someone you care about! If you don't have even the most basic patience and the ability to speak, who will listen to you?

    So first you have to understand him, and then you have to understand what the consequences of what he does, and if you tell him this, he won't listen.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There must be one who is willing to bow his head first, as long as there is one who is willing to give in.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Don't try to change anyone's character, it's something they've been forming over a long period of time, and you can't change it unless you're determined enough to change it all!

    When he is in a good mood, you can find the opportunity to point out this matter to him, but it is best not to hurt his self-esteem and face, men are the most face-saving animals!

    You can communicate with him gently, and if you have a live-in relationship, it is best to communicate with him on the pillow, which is a good effect.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Be gentle and probationary, you can't change it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Her family environment is born like this, her personality can't be changed, you can communicate with him more in case of trouble, and slowly she will be subtly affected. And the most important thing is that you say you love her, what you love is actually her character is not much, but you dislike her indifferently, everything is divided into 2 sides, you really love her, you should change yourself to accept all of her, otherwise you love yourself more than you love her.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    How do you feel that her personality is a bit similar to mehaha (is this the reason for my maternal fetus solo) I feel that she should be a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and your kindness to her will definitely be remembered in your heart, she is just not very good at communication and expression. You can communicate with her more when you encounter problems, and it's no problem to make her happy a little bit

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Personality is born and formed for a long time, it is difficult to change, and if it is changed, it is not hers, you can only adapt, it is really not good to get together and disperse.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    "Wuzhuang View" (also known as "Wanshou Mountain").

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