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In fact, such love results or endings abound all over the world. Even if there are differences, they can only be regarded as similar. It is not only universal, but also normal.

It is said that it is normal because the issue of male and female consciousness has been discussed again and again in ancient and modern times, and the rights and interests of men and women have been painstakingly disputed and escaped. However, in today's society, the relative equality of men and women is already obvious.

Women need a sense of security more than men in real life, and the security of society is equal for everyone. As a personal security, there will be one-sided or exclusive one-sided personal thoughts and behaviors, and on the other hand, women pay more attention to this aspect (women are weaker), and even more so if it involves feelings or marriage. There are two inherent prerequisites in society that give women a sense of security in this regard:

One is money, status, and power; The other is affection, marriage, and responsibility. The former factor changes with the change of the market economy, and the economic base determines the superstructure; The latter factor is more in favor of traditional ideas. These two trends of development or progress are some of the ideas, ethos and concepts that have changed with the transformation of society as a whole.

To sum up, you will find out which aspect of security that girl needs more.

In my opinion, both forms of security can only lead to a greater sense of burden, and even if they have obtained it by some means or for some reason, they will generally not have peace of mind and no regrets, because people have lost their true sense of "freedom". So how can there be a real sense of security? Why should they deceive themselves?

Because they are all "too practical", if these things overflow, the consequences are often uncontrollable, but you must also choose one to survive! Otherwise, wouldn't that be considered to be a "Martian" out of the crowd? Hehe......

Where is love, if not, even if you have been dating for decades, hundreds, or even thousands of years, why bother?! Of course, it's a big exaggeration, but that's actually the case. If there is no unswerving and desperate concept of love between the two of them, and they only care about or care about the above views of life that cannot be detached from the world, then they will never be able to sort out or deeply realize what the value of life you are pursuing, and all swings or struggles are futile and meaningless!

It's yours, it's yours, it's not yours, and you can't come....Gaining means losing, you lose a love for many years, but what you get is the qualification, you can have the qualification to marry....Seeing the reality clearly, she has already gotten along with others, first put herself in the right position, face her position, and decide what to do? Retain, you deserve? Or don't care about her betrayal?

If you let go, your soul may be sublimated by it....Think quietly for a few days and let your heart give you the answer! Remember, once you have chosen, you cannot change it....

Blame you, money is important, but you didn't spend enough time with her, and you didn't have enough time to care about her, and blame her for being too ruthless.

Dear landlord.

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

Love is gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since the choice of love, we must sincerely praise it, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is difficult, failure is with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad together. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him happy forever, to be her eternal safe haven, to protect her, even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time that belongs to him/herself, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love. Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the other person's hunger and rent will always be happy and happy, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

It depends on why it's gone.

The rain kept falling, and when I looked up, the lightning was like a sea dragon in the sky. I still don't feel awake that she's gone! Although how many times assuming that her departure will be like a troublemaker, is it heartbreaking, crying, and grieving?

But at this moment, it was completely blank, I didn't know how the tears would flow, how my heart would hurt, and I was so calm that I didn't even know myself!

Always say I'll see you when I'm free. If I had come sooner, I might have seen ......But there really is no if, no debate waiting....Regret is deeply seared in my heart, indelible, and eternal! My dearest and most loved ones have left, and I don't have a grandmother ......anymoreMy son asked me, will my grandmother come back?

I can only be silent, I don't want to say that true answer, and I don't want to say that she will become a star in the sky......The calmness was so real that I felt cold-blooded, but I knew I really didn't want you to leave...Without you, my faith and my heart would be diss......ipated