Is love hard? How can it be hard to fall in love?

There are pros and cons to everything, hard but also sweet, so if you really love each other, you will insist, if you don't love, give up, don't look back when you really divide it, and be decisive in emotional matters. It's different from people, some people who are not suitable will only be miserable together, obviously love each other, but the two have different temperaments and personalities, they can't go on if they don't know how to endure, there is not much sweetness, they are either noisy or fighting every day, and finally break up, making each other scarred. Some people have a good temper and will tolerate the little temper of girls,,, but it's in love, that's it, it's more hypocritical, because when they are in love, they don't know each other's shortcomings, some people are very good at pretending, isn't there this sentence "Love makes people blind, marriage makes people eye-catching" So, I can't figure out what kind of person the other party is, I will disguise myself perfectly when I am in love, and I won't expose my shortcomings, I hope that I am the best in the eyes of the person I like, as long as I get married, it will deteriorate, They won't pretend anymore because they have achieved their goal of chasing people down, but there are also a small number of people who say that they have been their original personality since they fell in love.

First love, everyone can't escape the heartache, can't forget the person of the first love, so when you go to school, you have to study hard, and when you grow up, you are in love. Can't trust people easily, whether it's a man or a woman, the first to understand feelings is always a loser, don't regret it when you can't get it back, and make yourself bruised.

It should be hard, but I'm sure most of the time it's sweet!

It's very fortunate, so don't age or don't.

In fact, if you really like this kind of thing, it's not hard to really like it.

If you want to feel hard, don't fall in love; If you want to be in love, don't feel hard.

If you meet the right person, it is sweet, and if you don't touch the right person, the harder you work, the more embarrassing it will be.

The first point is to give the other party private space.

There may be many people who think that there should be no secrets and privacy between couples, and that they have to tell each other everything about themselves, but this is actually wrong. When couples are in love, they should know how to give each other private space. Because no matter who you are, you should have your own privacy and secrets in front of everyone.

Second, trust each other.

Since two people are already together, they must know how to trust each other. The premise is that two people must be honest enough, and honest enough to do a good job of trusting each other. Mutual trust can make two people very comfortable in the process of falling in love, because they will not be suspicious because of a little thing.

When two people get along together, in fact, what they are most afraid of is that there is an estrangement.

Third, mutual understanding and respect.

When two people fall in love together, they must know how to understand and respect each other. Sometimes, if there is a misunderstanding, we must know how to explain it clearly, and we must know how to empathize. You can't force the other party to do what you don't want to do, and you must respect the other party.

In fact, couples in love, if they get along in a mode of mutual understanding and respect, it may be difficult for them to have any quarrels.

Fourth, spoil love, there is a lover who is willing to resist everything for you.

No matter what happens, he has no reason, any excuse, spoils himself unconditionally, and will take care of you very carefully, this kind of love is envied by many people, whether it is the person who is spoiled, or the one who is spoiled, it is envied by others. A person who loves others wholeheartedly, and a person who is loved happily, such a relationship is very beautiful, which many people yearn for, and what many people want all their lives.

Fifth, enterprising love, work together, I will not be absent for the rest of your life.

When many couples first start, they have nothing, and when many couples first get together, they may just be two students, whether it is nothing when they first started looking for a job, or the relationship when they were students, as long as the two people work together, their hearts are together. Many things will slowly get better, and slowly become what you like, this kind of love really makes many people envious, when you are with him, you will eventually become a better version of yourself, and you will get the blessing of many people.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

I know I can't, but I want to like you, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel ridiculous, a little silly, and even childish!

So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, give up and give yourself a glass of cold water, extinguish the fire in your heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant wildly.

It's all right! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty!

Meteors are beautiful, but do you know that any star has its beautiful side, but you haven't found it, as long as you use your heart to find it, a lot of beauty is no worse than your current one! Well, that's it, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people, I hope you get your own happiness! ~

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Because two people in love need to constantly run in, and there will be a lot of problems in between, so it will make people feel more difficult.

Falling in love is a complex process, so the reason for exhaustion is not something that can be explained simply. As a person who has come before, I have three main observations.

First, you meet an unsuitable person, but you want to have a relationship that suits you. The eating habits are different, she likes to eat spicy food, no spicy or happy, spicy beef is her favorite, and you southern man, you can't eat spicy. The rest habits are different, she is a night owl who loves to stay up late to make dramas and play electricity, while you are tired from work and can't stay up late.

The concept of consumption is different, she likes simple and practical miscellaneous brand goods, while you like pomp and circumstance, quality brand goods, you can't save money. It's just that you like her, you feel that you should love the house and Wu, and if you like her, you learn to like her food, clothing, housing and transportation, learn to adapt to all her habits, learn to suppress your preferences, and learn to change your personality. In the background of life, the two of you have been playing their own one-man shows.

So, when you are in love with her, slowly, you are no longer you, and she is no longer her. You become an actress and she becomes an art director.

Second, you meet someone you don't like, but you want to change her into the one you like in love. The one in front of you is obviously a Cinderella, but you are struggling to turn her into a princess. However, in real life, there is no crystal slipper, no pumpkin cart, and no magic.

It's obviously a Cinderella, you don't like it, please don't bother others, okay? Maybe you're not her Prince Charming, just one of her frogs. Maybe she is also struggling to turn you into a prince, but looking at your unattractive appearance, it is difficult for her to give you an affectionate kiss.

In this way, you are wasting your time and your emotions. If you don't like it, just break up. Therefore, falling in love with someone you don't like is playing hooligan.

When you fall in love, you don't feel tired, because you are happy in it, and it feels so good that you don't feel tired.

Falling in love is actually not tiring, as long as two people understand each other, respect each other, love each other, think more about each other, think about problems from each other's point of view, get along sincerely, and have more self-sacrifice and tolerance, then they are happy and happy together, and there is no pain or tiredness. In fact, I personally think that falling in love is a very sweet love. If two people really love each other, and they also understand each other, tolerate each other and think about each other everywhere, I think this love must be very sweet, and it is also very long-lasting.

There is nothing in return for paying for each other, and I think this kind of relationship is very tiring, and it will not last long.

Tired, of course tired, tired whether it is suitable or not, in this world, there is nothing that can succeed without being tired, including falling in love.

Of course, you'll be tired when you're in love.

In the process of falling in love, everyone will quarrel more or less, if there is no quarrel, I will think that you are not in love, but brotherhood! They all want to be each other's fathers, haha.

I don't think you should be tired of being with someone who is suitable and in love.

It's funny, I can say I've had two people and two ex-boyfriends, but I've never been in a relationship.

simply got a partner, and broke up in less than a month.

I've never been in a relationship either.

What it's like to fall in love...

When you are a student, you may think that it is beautiful to be in love.

But it's really tiring to fall in love while studying, and to fall in love with someone who is not on the same path as you.

Of course, it's not tired, and if you feel tired from falling in love, then there's no need to keep talking. If two people fall in love, if they feel tired, it means that there is no need for this relationship, because it makes both people feel painful or uncomfortable.

If two people really love each other, and there is no insurmountable mountain, then these two people are not tired of falling in love at all, and they are very happy, I am afraid that girls will treat men as spare tires, and this is over, this way of love is super tiring.

I am not tired of falling in love, because I will think more about each other, consider problems from each other's point of view, and will understand each other, support each other, love each other, discuss problems together, and communicate with conflicts together. Therefore, two people are very happy and happy together, and they rarely quarrel and contradict each other.

If a good relationship, mutual like feelings, is not tired, falling in love is the best, will not feel tired, together will feel very happy, not together will miss, tired feelings indicate that there is a problem, there is already pressure, in the relationship will feel very tired.

We had a good time in a relationship. The two of them feel very happy together, so they are very happy to fall in love and not tired at all.

1 At first, when we fell in love, no one would feel tired, 2 because what we couldn't see was the good of the other party, and we were willing to have such an excellent him, 3 But it was not so simple after talking for a long time, 4 In fact, in many cases, we would say that we had no time to take care of it, these are just excuses, the point is that his mind is not on you, 5 instead of a one-sided party to work hard, so we will feel more and more tired, 6 may be because you have invested too much and gained too little, so can you not be tired?

7 At this time, there are often two choices, either to break up and never see each other, or to endure each other and continue to walk.

If two people are in a good relationship, they will not feel tired. On the contrary, during the relationship, you will feel happy and full of energy. Not seeing each other for a day is like three autumns. This is the real feeling of being in love, and it is too tiring to be in love. Double Yellow's worldview is inconsistent.

Well, for some people, if they are happy to fall in love, and can feel cared for, cared for and happy from love, then they are not tired of falling in love, but for some people, what they can only feel from falling in love is betrayal, contradictions, and all kinds of quarrels, so they are really tired of falling in love.

Tired because you pay more, and the result of this kind of giving is not what you want, so you will be very tired. And really in love with someone, everything you do for him and her feels like a very happy thing, and it is worth it to see him and her happy, no matter how hard and tired you are, because you love him and her deeply, and everything about him and her is more than yourself. Isn't there a saying that whoever falls in love with whom first, then whoever will be very tired, the party who falls in love first is the one who pays the most, and if you don't get the corresponding return for a long time, then the party who pays first will be more and more tired.

Love. It's just tired and happy. It's really tiring because two people have to meet on dates often. also has to suffer from lovesickness. But no matter how bitter and tired it is, it is sweet in my heart.

Are you tired of falling in love? In fact, falling in love is very sweet and happy. If two people truly love each other, and they also understand each other, tolerate each other, and think about each other everywhere.

Then this relationship must be very sweet and happy. It's also more long-lasting. If you fall in love again, you just like each other unilaterally.

And to give wholeheartedly for each other without anything in return, I think this kind of relationship is very tiring. It won't last long.

Are you tired of falling in love? Actually, I think it's inevitable that there will be quarrels in love, but I think it's a very pleasant thing to fall in love, because being in love will make two people happy. If someone cares about the other person, they will definitely feel happy.

So if you often feel tired when you fall in love, such feelings are actually such feelings. There are certain problems.