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Once a person is enlightened, he will find that the whole world view has become very different, the things he thought and knew before seem so small, and what he thought could not be changed before has the confidence and way to do it.
After enlightenment, people will change in the following aspects:1Spiritually, people will become more awake and able to understand themselves more deeply.
2.Spiritually, people will be full of energy and fighting spirit, and have greater courage. 3.
Physically, it seems that there is infinite energy and strength, and I will be very optimistic about everything I do. 4.In terms of action, they will be more positive, have stronger execution, and be able to act immediately without delay.
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You will find that you can't learn things before, but now you can understand them at a point, maybe you can learn things faster than others.
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He might do something that makes people think he's powerful.
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1. Begin to speak and do things purposefully.
No longer just act on feelings, start thinking about the consequences of everything. They began to have the thinking of "self-interest," "leaving a way out," and "not saying anything to death."
2. I used to watch the excitement, but then I was obedient and began to listen to the doorway.
When talking to someone, start analyzing whether there is another meaning to what he is saying.
Why is he telling me this? Do I have any interest in him? What did he really want to know?
3. Understand that the most important thing you can't waste is your own time.
In the past, I didn't dare to refuse, for fear of offending people, and even if I didn't want to, I used my own time to chat with me and relieve my boredom.
But then he began to dare to refuse some "meaningless" conversations and socialization.
4. Don't be afraid of offending people.
Not being afraid of offending people here does not mean to cause trouble in a hurry, but to stop being submissive.
No longer afraid to speak your mind and opinion, you can calmly express your true feelings.
5. It looks very backbone.
I can't find a good adjective for this one, which is that I have begun to have my own opinions and ideas about things, and people are a person with ideas at a glance.
There is a certain aura around him, and others will not easily shake and bully him.
6. No longer obsessed with distinguishing and refutating.
I won't contradict anything you say, but I won't be affected by your words.
7. No longer expect, no longer complain, the first thought of everything is to solve it by yourself.
Be your own savior and stop thinking about relying on others for everything.
8. No longer think about changing others.
9. No longer worry about the problems of the original family.
10. Start paying attention to and connecting the connections between things.
For example, I found that many movies are about a frustrated (divorced) middle-aged man who suddenly encounters an event in which his life changes dramatically, either mutating or becoming rich.
11. When encountering things in life, start to compare the cases, opinions, and principles you have seen in the book before.
It's not that reading is useless, it's that you can't connect and don't compare.
12. I can understand many people, but I also understand the malice of human nature.
13. As soon as others do it, it will be full of situations when it comes to me. Once fate was unfair, now I understand that everything has a reason.
14. Think one more step and think one step deeper.
In the past, I could only see one point when I looked at a thing, but then I started to think about the fields and related knowledge behind this point.
15. Have a good ability to imitate learning.
Because you can see the connections behind things, you can imitate and learn.
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Once a person is enlightened, there will be psychological and physical changes. First of all, it is a psychological change, which will become more mature and stable, understand how to deal with people, understand the sophistication of people, take into account the feelings of others, empathize with others in the self-code of conduct, and consider problems from the perspective of the other party.
Physiology will also undergo a huge change, and it will develop towards the essence of one's own gender, becoming more individual, belonging to the tenderness of the individual.
For example, girls will be good at picking up female characteristics and dressing up to make themselves more beautiful, which will cause jealousy and comparison.
Later, I become more mature psychologically, I know what I can and why I can't, I become shy, and sometimes I have to be bold and crazy. To put it bluntly, once a person is enlightened, he is sensible, has a code of conduct that distinguishes between right and wrong, and is no longer willful and stubborn. These changes are all due to the fact that they are sensible and understand things.
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1. I don't like to waste my time, to meddle with other people's affairs, and pay attention to other people's lives.
2. I like to be alone and try what I like.
3. Focus on today, focus on yourself, and don't think nonsense, because it's useless.
4. See through interpersonal relationships, except for parents and children who must be responsible, others come and go freely and are not attached.
5. Don't measure others by your own values, there are some things that others can do, but you can't touch them.
6. Put right and wrong, feelings, and morality aside, and weigh the pros and cons of everything.
7. Control your desires and do what you can.
8. Exercise, regular work and rest, and regular physical examination.
9. Have time, spend more time with your family, and give up ineffective socializing.
10. Don't take shortcuts, learn to work slowly.
11. Turn off the circle of friends, have time to read more and talk less.
12. Understand yourself objectively and rationally, and don't touch what you are not good at or understand.
13. Don't force yourself in everything, do this to yourself and others, and don't go to dangerous places.
14. If you have time to travel and see the scenery, life is a process, and the important thing is to experience beauty.
15. Don't get entangled with bad people and bad things, and stay away from right and wrong.
16. Believe in cause and effect. If you don't create evil causes, you will accept the retribution calmly and naturally. Do good deeds and accumulate virtue.
17. Live in the moment. Don't dwell on the past, don't worry about the future. Treat people and things in front of you with joy.
18. Don't worry anymore. We always have a lot of worries, worrying about our children, worrying about our husbands, worrying about getting sick, worrying about losing our jobs. Enlightened people understand the law of attraction and know that what they want will attract you, so they won't be scared anymore.
19. Don't complain. Enlightened people don't blame and complain. He understands that those who see saints all over the street must be saints, and those who don't like anything will definitely be looked down upon by everyone.
20. There are fewer and fewer words. Those who are enlightened understand that it is useless to say more. Sickness goes from the mouth and trouble comes out of the mouth. It takes us a year to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn to shut up. Those who understand you understand it even if they don't say it, and it's useless for those who don't understand you to say it.
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In fact, once a person is enlightened, there will be a lot of changes, such as from feelings, from life, and from personal communication.
From the emotional level, once it is enlightened, it can have a better emotional intelligence. Treating others with affection can make others feel like a spring breeze. Let others have a relatively high opinion of him.
From the perspective of life, once people are enlightened, there will be a lot of convenience. Whether it's in terms of study or work. The enlightenment will make learning better and work ability more prominent.
Another person who is enlightened will be at ease when it comes to personal communication. Therefore, there are many benefits to enlightenment, which can make us better face our study, work and life, better deal with related things, and make ourselves happier.
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A person who is truly "enlightened" is, in the final analysis, to open up his own wisdom.
The so-called wisdom is actually to be able to see through the laws and secrets behind things, and go straight to the essence.
That is to say, those who are truly "enlightened" are often very wise, and it is these wisdoms that allow them to avoid detours and reach the pinnacle of life.
On the other hand, those who are confused will run into walls everywhere, and even exhaust their entire life's energy, still not understanding what they really need.
Let's take Wang Yangming of the Ming Dynasty as an example.
Wang Yangming has been determined to become a saint since he was a child, this is what he has always insisted on, and it is precisely because of this ambition that he has broken through many difficulties and never lost himself.
The implication is that not only is he clear about his needs at a very young age, but he is also able to recognize the setbacks on the road of life, the laws and secrets behind them, so that he can quickly adjust himself, which is the fundamental reason why he was able to realize the Tao in the "Dragon Field".
Of course, this is also one of the characteristics of "enlightened" people.
Second, when they encounter things, most of them will not be moved by external objects.
In real life, everyone's IQ is actually about the same.
If anything, there is a difference in how people perceive things.
The implication is that people always judge a person's ability from the perspective of the amount of knowledge, but rarely take into account the level of insight into things.
It can even be said that, in fact, the vast majority of people often need external assistance, or rely on the accumulation of knowledge and experience to increase their "wisdom", and never think of opening the "key" from the inside - as Wang Yangming said, everyone has the same wisdom as a saint, so to become a saint, there is no need to seek outward, that is:
It can be seen that people who are truly "enlightened" are mostly unmoved by external objects when they encounter things, and even when they look at problems, their depth is different from that of others - they are more inclined to solve problems independently, avoiding external and other interference and influence.
And this is actually very difficult for those who have not been enlightened to do - for those who have not been enlightened, most of the time, they just go with the flow.
Therefore, to sum up, these contents are actually the two characteristics of a truly "enlightened" person.
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Once a person is enlightened, he will be able to understand everything, so that he will appear confident in his mental outlook, and he will get twice the result with half the effort with half the effort if he has a good attitude.
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Be more active in learning.
I remember that when I was in elementary school, I couldn't say that I hated learning, but it was definitely based on play, and the initiative in learning was definitely not enough, although it would not be particularly procrastinating, but it was absolutely impossible to do it, and I took the initiative to take learning as the first priority.
But after the enlightenment, the first thing that shows me is that I have a strong interest in learning, I will regard learning as a very interesting thing, I am very active in going to school every day, and I am very willing to enjoy the learning life in school.
For homework and other things, I often use recess or even some fragmented time to write in advance, and I will take the initiative to practice or consolidate other content in the evening.
In short, on the one hand, I am more interested in learning, and on the other hand, I don't need to be supervised by my parents and teachers, so I can take the initiative to complete it, and even add some learning content to myself.
Learning is more efficient.
And there will be a great improvement in learning efficiency.
The most typical performance is that when listening to lectures, I will understand as soon as I listen to them, and when doing problems, there are very few situations where I can't do it, and often my thinking is very active, and even if I remember correctly, I may have multiple solutions in my mind when I see a problem in a subject like mathematics.
The questions are also more proactive.
The quality of the work is also significantly improved.
And will think about how to complete the learning content faster and better, or how to improve their learning efficiency and quality, this kind of thing will take the initiative to think.
Grades improved quickly.
The most intuitive embodiment is actually the obvious progress in the results.
And this result is not only reflected in various exams, but also in various daily tests, and there will be very good performance.
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Learning is advancing by leaps and bounds.
The work is progressing very smoothly.
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