In April, I fell in love and encountered a cold period

If the other party is really a good person, the person who is worthy of trust should stick to it.

I don't understand it too much, this kind of problem changes with time, so don't be too serious, study hard

A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, and that is:

The time required to transition between the independent phases of coexistence and anti-dependency is not necessarily the case, and it varies from person to person.

Phase 1: Coexistence.

This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for what they want to do, and the other will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along with each other has taken shape, and your other person (her) has become your closest person.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you don't tie each other down, but grow with each other.

However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

As long as you communicate well, you will be fine with many things, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, so that the time of the second and third stages will be shortened.

How to pass the 4 stages of love? If you understand it, you will understand.

When you are in love, at the beginning, you have a good impression of each other, you are curious about everything that the other party does, and you are all good at showing each other, and they are the best and irreplaceable in each other's eyes, but after a long time, they are all familiar, and they will not try their best to hide their shortcomings in front of each other, and even the small faults are unobstructed, and there are not so many surprises, not so many flowers before and under the moon, and gradually there will be a feeling of exhaustion, no more curiosity, no more surprises, and slowly cold.

Excitement, fatigue, loneliness, harvest.

At the beginning, they are attractable, have good feelings, impulsive, have feelings, miss all the time, love deeply, men and women get along with each other, misunderstanding, do not understand, suspicion, quarrel, understand each other a little, regret, cold, each wants to let the other take the initiative, reconcile, cherish, contradiction, mutual accusation, contradiction escalation, tired, hateful, disgusted, tired on both sides, realistic pressure, other people's opinions, overwhelmed, too tired and want to quit, and reluctant, cold, not new to each other, suspicious, fed up, break up,,。 Miracles are good and good, never give up. Realistic problems, pressure, tiredness, emptiness and loneliness, both parties do not understand, women compare, regret, men have no freshness for a long time, women are depressed for a long time, out of the rules, looking for a lover, extramarital affairs, men out of the rules extramarital affairs, both parties find out, reconcile or divorce or love killing, and then look down, continue to live, not in the willful are old.

Shelf life, run-in period, and finally happiness haha.

The period of hot love, the period of stability, the period of coldness.

The early, middle, peak, and cold phases of a relationship.