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It's already been beaten, and it's useless to regret it. Calm down and think about whether it's your child's fault or your fault. If you are wrong, you must confess your mistake to your child, if your child is wrong, you must also admit your mistake to your child, the fault is to hit him, but you must explain the reason, so that the child realizes that the mistake he has made, how serious it is, what the consequences will be, you do this, it is also anxious, for his good.
In the first year of high school, I already have an opinion, violence no longer solves the problem, communicate more, talk more, encourage more, and don't affect the child's studies.
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You shouldn't hit him for no reason. However, the child is already a year of high school, and the child is older, so he can talk face-to-face. Find a time to talk to him, talk about your concerns, and apologize for your impulsiveness.
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I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:
1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.
2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.
3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.
4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.
5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.
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Parents hate their children because of iron and steel, and it is understandable that they will fight it, and they will communicate with their children more in the future and face and solve problems together.
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I hit. A child in the first year of high school.
What to do.
I hit. A child in the first year of high school.
What to do.
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Be patient with your child 、、、
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What made you hit him, depending on his temper.
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Finding the school to deal with the violence of students who are in distress Theoretically, the school should be responsible for the bullying of the child at school. In addition to being responsible, it is also necessary to let the school teachers know that the child is being bullied, and can also give the child some protection. In addition, some punishments for violent students are also necessary, but verbal criticism and education have no substantive meaning.
Directly find the violent student, and the parents will warn and teach the bullied students in many cases, even if they find a teacher or even Wang Chong to talk about the school, the final way the school handles it is not satisfactory. To say that a child is beaten or scolded at school is big or small, to say that it is a tantrum between classmates, and to say that it is a school violence. When the school can't control it, it's time for the parents to come forward, and the most direct way is to tell the violent student to stop his behavior immediately and tell him the serious consequences of recidivism.
Teach children to fight back on their own Of course, the above two methods are the solutions after the child is bullied, in fact, before the child goes to school, we should teach the child how to fight back, so that the child can also avoid unnecessary physical and psychological damage.
In fact, people's perseverance is very tenacious, as long as he has the belief to live, then it is okay. We are very serious about living, and we have seen many examples on TV of replacing life with our feet without our arms.
One, don't worry, first of all, from your above description, it looks very similar to my junior high school life, but I was the last to fall in love in junior high school, so it's a bit regressive, I'm ashamed to say it, now I'm studying in a not very good undergraduate university, don't worry too much about this situation, studying and living in high school is completely different from junior high school, now what you can do is to spend this summer vacation while thinking about some of your own learning disabilities, I feel that your self-discipline is poor,, You can try some time-consuming and patient games like puzzles, and you should be the kind that is smarter but not too hardworking, so put a little more pressure on yourself, and don't ignore the rewards after the exam. >>>More
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Parents should communicate more with their children, let him build confidence, not everyone is so good, there are shortcomings, let the child slowly integrate into the school, and the teacher should also communicate more, understand the child's situation, parents are very important at this time, the child needs the care of parents, take your time, I believe that your child will pass this stage, everything will be fine, the key is that you have confidence in your child, there are no bad children, only parents who will not educate.