If you know that someone is scolding you behind your back, how do you deal with it rationally?

There must be some people in this world who don't like us, how should we react when we hear others scolding us?

Change your attitude towards the problem. Knowing that someone scolds yourself behind your back is a very uncomfortable thing, although you also have shortcomings, others may not like your own character, but when you don't hear it, it doesn't matter if others don't like you, when you know that someone scolds you, you have to stay calm, don't immediately refute others, maybe what others put forward is our own shortcomings, we must change our attitude of thinking about problems, and understand other people's nonsense as others envy us, and we must have confidence in ourselves, Others will be jealous because they envy themselves for having this kind of character, so they will scold themselves behind their backs, and after changing the way we think about problems, we will not be so angry, and we will be happy immediately.

Make small changes. Why do others scold themselves? That is because some of our behaviors are bad, others will define themselves because of a move, and if the first impression is bad, we will let others have no good impression of ourselves, and gradually become people who don't like themselves, then others scolding themselves behind their backs is a kind of venting of dissatisfaction with their own behavior, we have to make changes, don't do bad actions again, let others see their own changes, so that others' first impression of themselves will change, from the original bad to a good impression.

When you hear others scolding you behind your back, don't say bad things because of impulse, and ask yourself if you are really judging yourself as you are being told to be.

Those who are stronger than you don't need to scold you behind your back, scold you behind your back, and those who are often inferior to you in some way or even crushed by you in all directions, he scolds you to show that you are lingering in his heart, and you don't scold him means that he is not a fart in your heart, not worth mentioning, in addition, you must make yourself strong, clear goals and directions and strive to progress, so that you will throw them farther and farther, open up a significant distance, and they will have nothing to say,

Don't jump to conclusions. Think about why first, find someone close to you to inquire about the specific content, and judge whether it is true or not, whether it is a misunderstanding, nothing more than a few: 1

I really did something wrong, and it also brought trouble to him, so I found an opportunity to apologize and settle it as soon as possible; 2.It's really wrong to do it, but it has nothing to do with ta, and he is purely a broken mouth and loves eight women, so he doesn't have to care about him at all; 3.I didn't do anything wrong, he was either jealous or character garbage, this is the best way to deal with it, actively communicate and interact with the people around him, the eyes of the masses are bright, who is the scum sooner or later.

For this situation, the dog bites me, I can't bite it back, to convince people with virtue, the pure self-purifying, he wants to scold and scold, anyway, I won't have a piece of meat, I just need to do my own thing.

Straightforward, young and vigorous, very aggrieved and angry at the unfair gossip behind him, and he also retaliated with a tooth for a tooth, and then he felt deceived, and he calmed down and thought about it, is there an end to scolding? If you think you're doing a good job, if you are prejudiced against you, he won't say hello, aren't we alive? I calculated that if we could live to be 80 years old and only 29,000 days, how many happy days would we have left after deducting the daily sleep time?

So in recent years, I've matured and don't waste my precious time on bad people and bad things. Spend more time with the people who love you and the people you love, and be the one who makes you happy. As long as you don't scold her face, let him go!

Happy and happy every day! Let the person who scolds you feel like a punch on the cotton!

You are not RMB, and you can't make everyone like you. When you encounter this kind of situation where someone chews on the root of your tongue, first ask yourself if you really did something wrong, if so, change it, if not, then let them say. Never know someone from someone else's mouth, sometimes you just have to know it in your own heart.

When it's okay, unless you can eat the person who says bad things about you, it's better not to mess around.

At the end of doing the right thing, other people's evaluation of you will not change because she says bad things about you behind your back, just be yourself, don't care about it.

Be yourself and others will understand what kind of person you are. It's not as bad as the guy said it was. The impression of you will be better, and the impression of the person who speaks ill of people will be worse.

Don't do that, you scold me, I slap you, without explanation, if you let others do everything, then you live for them.

The best way is to do better than her (him) so that the other person can't catch the handle and scold you.

went to him, grabbed him by the collar, told him what I was doing, and then slapped him so much that he couldn't take care of himself.

If someone scolds you in the back, you scold him in front