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Saying bad things behind your back, pouring cold water on you when you're particularly happy, saying sarcastic things often, won't help you when you're in trouble, and looking down on you when you're at a low point.

The first manifestation is that they are very close on the surface, but behind the scenes, they speak ill of us or do something that hurts us; The second manifestation is that when you are good, the other party is close to you, but when you are frustrated, they choose to stay away from you.

Often talk bad about you, often get angry with you, often show off, often speak ill of you behind your back, often make bad things behind your back.

He always belittles you, speaks ill of you, chews his tongue behind his back, laughs at you, and looks down on you, which shows that he can't see you well.

People with higher kinetic energy than you recognize you and praise you, while those with lower kinetic energy suppress you and slander you, and their spiritual essence controls you and hates to turn you into the same person as him. You will find that as soon as you get close, some people start to perform in various ways, often suppressing you in various categories and making you feel very uncomfortable. That kind of person himself is the spiritual essence that controls you, and because he can't see you well, he keeps pouring cold water on you, suppressing you all the time, and wants to pull you down.

You should believe in your own ideas, and if you are always robbed of your momentum, and when you get close to some people, you can choose to avoid them. Don't let the other party hurt you again and again because of your face, don't let the other party hurt you again and again because of your indecision, this is cruel to yourself. The person who is really good for you is ruthless and can't hurt you, even if a person suppresses you every day, how can it be for your good?

Don't believe his reasons, it's just a cover for jealousy of you.

In the case of your weakness, you can actually see people's hearts the most. People who really feel sorry for you will not give up when you are at a low point and do their best to pull you along. And people who usually don't look down on you well, when you are at a low point, will be very active, eager to step on you, so that you will not be able to turn the tables for the rest of your life.

Maybe you haven't done anything wrong, but some people are bad engraved in their bones, they can't see you well, and when you are weak, they also cross the river and tear down the bridge.

You must know that the people who poured frost in the snow during your trough period were never teachers and friends, so they avoided it fiercely, fought back with their own efforts, and shut up these people who looked down on you. There is no purity in the world at all, and everyone must learn to protect themselves, and they don't have to show sincerity when they meet others. Some people are engraved in their bones, and you can't influence them, so you have to take precautions when you meet them.

People who really care about you, who are good for you, will give you happiness when you get benefits from your unremitting efforts, and regard your happiness as your own happiness. And there are always some people who don't like you, and when you have something to achieve, they like to cause you trouble. For example, they will gossip about you in private, make rumors about you, and add a lot of trouble to your life for no reason.

Even, no matter what you want to do, even if you don't hinder him, he still stumbles you everywhere. This kind of person who sees that he can't be kind to you in his heart, really don't move his compassion anymore, think more carefully, and can't give him the opportunity to damage you again and again. I really want to give it to someone who is very worthy, but some people don't like you at the beginning and cause you trouble everywhere, so don't be soft-hearted when you see that person again.

There are characteristics that care about you very much in front of you and say bad things about you behind your back, and you must stay away from such people when you meet them, because there is no benefit in associating with such people.

They may be very close to you on the surface, but what they say to you will make you feel uncomfortable, that is, they will not see you.

will show off in front of the other party and defeat the other party's self-confidence; Helping others with a false heart.

When you are limited in all aspects of your functions and cannot be alone, they look down on you, gossip about you, and constantly denigrate your relatives and friends, so that there will be no more contact. Not only do you not help yourself, but you also want others to look down on you, think you are not good, and obviously prevent you from developing your trend. Live well, the first thing to avoid is such a person.

Because you keep a certain distance from them, you will not be less likely to lack self-confidence and will not become more and more depressed.

Very little contact, not easy to be harmed, life is unlikely to cross the trough cake. You can't control who treats you, but you can stay away from him and don't want him to happen in your life, so that the two of you don't have too much contact. A relative, who can be trusted, will never dislike you for the rest of your life, and will reach out as soon as you need help, instead of gossiping about you if you reject you in person.

Your relatives and friends, you must recognize it, and you also need to be willing to avoid it, rather than being reluctant to be related by blood, being devastated every day, and feeling significantly afraid.

Truth be told, jealous people are very scary and can be very damaging to you. If you spend and have a lot of things, he doesn't think about how hard I work and should learn from you, but thinks that you don't deserve it.

With such thoughts, it is unlikely that you will be better and better, and you will be playing tricks behind you all the time. You should know that the more people you know, the more they grasp your shortcomings, the more they understand what can push you into the abyss, and it is already difficult to stand up. It's hard to live well, but it's very easy to live poorly.

Live well, learn to play tricks on others, don't think that everyone treats you as a good friend, everyone will help you when you need it, and no one will cause you harm.

On the surface, he is kind-hearted and wants to help himself, and he will not worry about you, but in fact, he is all ideas, and he is not willing to help himself at all, and he wants to see you look foreign. In your circle, there must be people who seem to want you to improve, climb higher and higher, but in fact I want you to fall, and there are injuries all over your body, and you will never be able to stand.

In life, it is not certain what kind of person you will meet, what you can do is to recognize the people you can meet and find the most suitable way to get along. That is to say, he will not hurt you, the two can help each other, that can be more contacted, he has the intention to hurt you, it will make you feel afraid, so you should avoid it. If you notice that someone who speaks completely differently than they think will eventually have a bad effect on you, you should not have any dealings.

If you are not worth it, don't pay it anymore, you should keep a certain distance, then you should keep a distance, so that the two don't have too much contact.

Relatives, friends, colleagues, these kinds of acquaintances can't see you, although these kinds of people are the closest, but they don't want your life to be better than his.

Very snobbish relatives and friends, very vain friends, friends with small hearts, relatives with a heart of comparison.

It's the kind of people around you who are particularly jealous or have weird yin and yang when communicating with you, and people who behave particularly hypocritical in front of you.

As the old saying goes: the heart is separated from the belly. It means that it is difficult to guess the minds of others, and it is difficult to truly understand.

When we have been with someone for a long time and think that we know him enough, we will not hesitate to trust him and share our joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

Family trivialities, firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, the current situation of career, and chat with familiar people in your spare time.

If you are simply chatting and pouring out your feelings, the speaker has no intention of listening to the listener, and when it reaches the ears of others, it may be understood as a different meaning.

People are jealous, even if they are broad-minded, few people can achieve the realm of "the prime minister's belly can support the boat".

Some of your unintentional words make people feel hurt and looked down upon, so they will be jealous of you and not see that you are doing well.

All in all, not all of them want you to do well.

Many times, the people who don't see you are often the two kinds of people around you, and I hope you can be aware of it and learn to keep a low profile.

Relatives of the seven aunts and eight aunts

This kind of relative, although not as close as siblings, is also a person who breaks bones and tendons. Generally called this kind of relationship is "not out of the five suits", these people usually do not interact, and they will get together during the New Year's holidays and red and white ceremonies.

When you get together, you will be surrounded by a cold and warm question, ask this, ask that, and will not think about other people's privacy issues.

Because of the relationship between their own families, most people spoke freely, did not hide it, and came to the truth. This kind of relative seems to care, and it is really a fun.

On the one hand, satisfy your gossip heart, and on the other hand, confirm whether you have a good life with them. You are not as good as him, find a balance, maybe pity you in your heart, you are better than him, you have jealousy, all kinds of discussions and slander behind your back.

Therefore, in the process of interacting with relatives, don't tell the truth unreservedly, the only people in this world who want you to live well are probably your parents.

People who are not as good as you

Not everyone can accept that they are more mediocre than others, and there are many friends in life who see that you mix well, marry well, and stay away from jealousy. In the past, your conditions were similar, and even you were not as good as him, but now you have suddenly changed, one is in heaven and the other is underground, you will be unwilling in your heart, you will pretend not to care, you will be jealous, and you will stay away.

I have seen a small paragraph: There is a family in the village who has just learned to grow greenhouses.

Villager: It's hard to get up early and work late every day, you can earn a lot of money a year, right?

Shack owner: I don't earn as much money as you don't earn if I don't have any experience.

When the villagers meet people, they say, that family is hot like a dog every day, and gets up earlier than the chickens, and it is not as good as us all year round, is it stupid.

After another year, someone asked if you made any money?

The owner of the shed honestly earned a lot, and the next day he went to the greenhouse, and the vegetables grown in it were pulled out and trampled on, and it was a mess.

Jealousy is a cancer that makes people lose their minds and conscience.

I have heard the saying that there are two things in this world that cannot be looked at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.

Too many people would rather applaud people they don't know than willingly admit the excellence of those around them.

Relatives and good friends in the true sense of the word, from the time you encounter difficulties and are at a low point in your life, they will help you in meaningful ways. Even if it really can't help much, at least it will still actively care about you, encourage you, and sincerely hope that you can get out of the situation as soon as possible. A person with a good heart, even for a down-and-out stranger, is destined to have mercy, let alone the people around him.

But you never know what kind of attitude the person you think you can believe in has towards you.

Some people, this person is narrow-minded, good at jealousy, and can't see that others live better than him. Only when you are unlucky, when you are down, is they the happiest. It may sound a little hard to believe, but this is their truest state of mind.

If he were a passerby, he might not care so much, but if you were close to him, then his jealousy of you would be more obvious than anyone else's.

Every time they hear the news that you are in a predicament and at a low point in your life, they will feel very comfortable in their hearts. On the one hand, it is they who find psychological solace: there are people who have lived worse than me.

On the other hand, they can look down on you with pride and say things like "I didn't want to see you then" or "I know it's not good," all in a cynical tone.

If you are diligent, they will not be able to see you when they are cold, and they naturally don't want you to cheer up again. Only the one who collapsed after failure also met their expectations. When you are depressed and sinking, they will not feel sad at all, and in turn they can only feel very secure.

But one day when he came to his senses and made up his mind to work harder, they began to feel uneasy. As we all know, if you persevere, you will reach your dreams sooner or later.

Once you're getting by, they're going to feel bad all over. Striking your faith is what they are most passionate about at the moment. No matter what you say you want to do, they are very unwelcome, and they will pour cold water on you, hoping that you will give it up yourself.

For example, if you say you want to investigate, they will also say that you have to be able to pass the exam, and everyone in China can be admitted.

If you say you have to start your own business, they will say that it will be like this, and there is no doubt that they will end up bankrupt. If you "don't listen to dissuasion" and persevere to be your true self, they will be unwilling but helpless to say some cold words. For example, "it consumes time", "I will regret it in the future", "I don't know what the devil is", etc., in short, it is very difficult to hear.

At the end of the day, they just don't see you well and therefore don't want you to be diligent at all.

People around you who don't see you well, when they see you doing well, will say something sarcastic. Will gossip about you with others. Such people must be vigilant.

may often talk to you in a mocking tone, and may chat with you in a yin and yang tone.