After more than a year of marriage, my husband and I have a relationship crisis, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-07-22
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You don't ask him too much, you let him help you work, he can go, some people are lazy by nature and you want to change him into what you want, but who in this world is really willing to change for whom, if you are entangled with him again and again because of this, there are many contradictions between you, the distance is far away, and it will be irreparable if you can't bear each other in the future. In fact, housework is just a small thing, you shouldn't slowly accumulate it into a big problem, because it's not wise to lose a big one, it's better to look at the benefits of the other party. In fact, when a woman deals with the marriage relationship, she must not be too strong, the way should be gentle, properly reflect your weakness to your lover to know, let him hurt you, not you force him to hurt you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's boil it slowly, just get used to it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not easy to have a child to choose, and I hope he will change for the better.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Such a man is actually psychologically immature, and he has to be taught and guided slowly. As for the method, it's up to you, encourage and praise him more to guide him to do things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Marriage needs to be managed, and if you can't live with this, then the next one may be the same! There are definitely problems with both spouses.

    It's hard for a clean official to cut off family affairs, this is not clear, I hope you can talk to your husband well!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Overcome rigidity with softness. Don't talk about his mother's badness in person. Explain a little more of the housework he can do, praise him a little more, men also need to coax, but not too much.

    To make him feel that he can't do without him at home, the more powerful this feeling, the more he will put his heart at home. In front of outsiders (including his mother), give him enough face. I wish you all harmony and beauty!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everyone will have their own marriage in the process of growing up, but we will find that after a long time of marriage, there will be a sense of crisis in marriage, sometimes if it is not handled well, it will break down the marriage, which will bring trouble to many people, so we must know how to manage our own marriage, only in front of our marriage, will always maintain a sense of freshness.

    Ten years of marriage marriage crisis, at this time we should know how to manage their own marriage, in fact, everyone's marriage will have a period of emotional lull, at this time we need to create some romance for the marriage, many people think that romance is not necessary for old husbands and wives, when you have such an idea is not right.

    For women, what they need most is romance, and if a man gives a woman some romance, it will make the woman feel that the man loves him very much, and then they will die for the family. If in some special festivals, men have been indifferent, there will be a gap in women's hearts, because women have the heart of comparison, and their best friends can receive some flowers and other things on holidays, and they will have doubts about their marriage if they can't receive it.

    When two people have been together for ten years, there must be very few topics, at this time we are to create some common topics, we can cultivate some common interests, and when we get home after work, we can do some entertainment together, so that the process of getting along with two people will become more pleasant.

    In fact, two people quarrel a lot together, which also leads to a lot of estrangement between two people, so both parties must know how to tolerate each other, when there is a quarrel, don't be careful, you choose to be humble At this time, you will find that the family will become more harmonious, and the husband and wife will become more affectionate.

    Love needs to be managed by both parties, many men have been busy with their own careers, thus ignoring the management of the family, at this time the man should return to the family, so that the love will become long-lasting.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is recommended that you observe your surroundings a lot, and you will find that most of the people who are noisy and noisy can get by, and those who choose to divorce generally use freedom and chic as an excuse to slap their swollen faces and become fat. Do you think that if you start over with a divorce in ten years of marital crisis, it will just be a repeat experience.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After all, there are still feelings after ten years of marriage, and when there is a marriage crisis, we should understand and tolerate each other, learn to empathize, and solve problems to avoid crises.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you need to calm down, and secondly, find out where your crisis is, and then the husband and wife work together to negotiate and solve it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It seems that there is a lack of communication and communication after you get married, which will lead to the gradual weakening of the relationship, so that there is a crisis, therefore, it is recommended that you still sit down, communicate calmly, understand each other, each other's thoughts, and give each other more care and care, so that your relationship will be reconciled.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What should I do if the relationship gradually fades after marriage, and there is a crisis in my marriage after ten years of marriage? It is really difficult to say, ten years of marriage should indeed have feelings, and I have to regain the sweetness of Qingqing and me, two people can sit down and talk about it, find each other's faults and mistakes, and really tolerate and understand each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After marriage, the relationship gradually faded. After ten years of marriage, there is a crisis in marriage. It's nothing more than a rift in the relationship.

    Both of them should reflect on what mistakes they have entered emotionally. It's the relationship between the two people that has faded. It's not a one-man business.

    Both are responsible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After a long time after marriage, it must be very flat and calm, as long as both parties do not make each other particularly sad and touch the bottom line, there will be no crisis to the marriage, as long as both parties will understand for the sake of this family

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After marriage, the relationship gradually fades, and when there is a crisis in the marriage after ten years of marriage, you should try your best to save the relationship, and recall the happy scene when you first fell in love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After marriage, the relationship gradually fades, and when there is a crisis after 10 years of marriage, you need to calm down and reflect on the problems of marriage.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, it is necessary to keep it fresh after marriage, after all, it is not right to practice vigorously before marriage, and it will become dull after marriage, so I think it should be cherished more and should recall the sweet process before, in that case, it will slowly evoke the previous feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When there is a crisis in the marriage after ten years of marriage, then it is necessary to find a way to eliminate this crisis, such as two people to do something together, fight for each other's feelings, so that this crisis can be successfully passed.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The love life after marriage is like boiling water, everyone will experience this, even if they have been in love for a long time, they will be dull, so when the relationship gradually fades, I think you should cultivate your own interests and hobbies, so that your life will not be so boring.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After marriage, the relationship gradually fades, ten years of marriage, there is a crisis in marriage, people's marriage cannot be insured for a lifetime, there is a little crisis, you can find a way to solve it yourself, try not to achieve the goal of breaking up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After marriage, the relationship gradually fades, and when there is a crisis in the marriage after ten years of marriage, I think you can do little monkey communication, recall the moment of falling in love, and enjoy the feeling of the two of you before the marriage, so that you will continue to maintain your marriage.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, the relationship gradually fades after marriage, and when there is a crisis in the marriage after ten years of marriage, you must take good care of your lover with your heart to make your life happier and more satisfying.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When the marital relationship appears that the plane lights up red, both parties should communicate calmly and express their dissatisfaction with each other, so that slowly, the relationship will heat up again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, I think two people should communicate with each other, and make some appropriate changes for their marriage, so that your marriage can become better and better.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After getting married, there are often changes in the relationship, and there is a crisis after ten years of marriage. At this time, I think it is necessary to find the cause of the crisis. If it can be redeemed, I think ten years of doubt is really not easy, try not to give up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's been ten years since I got married, and some of it will definitely fade from the emotional aspect, because of housework and pressure, it's normal to reduce the heat, then, there is a crisis in the marriage, and it is impossible to get married for a long time, there is a certain relationship, and the bane may have existed for a long time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In this case, two people should sit down in time, solve the problem well, and see what the problem is? Timely communication may improve the situation.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After ten years of marriage, the relationship gradually faded. passed, and the thick gradually turned into family affection. When the feelings are weak, the emotional life is a little or, the two feelings are stronger.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Ten years after marriage, there is a relationship crisis in the marriage, so at this time, two people must find their own problems, because it is not too late to make amends.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At this time, we can calm down and think about whether we want each other to change our lives over the years, so that the relationship can become better and more stable.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, establish where the crisis point is, find it to prescribe the right medicine, through calm communication, if you want to recover, if you are wrong, admit your mistake, and forget it if you don't want to.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    While marital crises are common, try to avoid some if you can. This is a task in your marriage due to a crisis. Maybe you won't let your marriage die, but you will let you get hurt, and the wounds may come one day, but there are more scars, and your marriage is not good.

    The marriage was too ugly, and it didn't last. So, how do we avoid a marriage crisis? No matter how many years they have been married, they have not been married.

    There is a very interesting passage on the internet asking that your husband is the best for you, not my husband.

    A lot of women say that men don't know how to cherish it, and I say, maybe it can be used to cherish it, I don't know how to cherish it. It's actually a human condition. Many men are married, not a heart, but it is lazy, they don't understand the female heart, they just don't want to pander to the female mind.

    The reason is that the man's feeling is that it is married, that it is deceived, anyway. Many marital crises come from one or two neglects, avoiding only one way to ignore this way, which is to pretend to be married, but also need to go through the heart and think about it. You are not related by blood, you will never be relatives.

    Huang Lei said that love is love, and it cannot become a family. Even if you've been married for years, even if you have a child, as long as one firmly ends the relationship and makes you a stranger, you may not have megawatts in this life. This family is not the same, even if you are disadvantaged, even if your parents are cut off, they will not really care about you and will eventually forgive you one day.

    So, there is no such thing. People always like to leave the worst for their closest people, the habit of always being in front of relatives. Because we know that your loved ones will never give up on us, and that your loved ones can accommodate everything in principle.

    You can take off your armor and pick up the mask in front of him, but you can't take him to your trash can, your ventilation tool. Otherwise, he is your loved one today and your passerby tomorrow. There is some moral kidnapping, more thanks.

    The marriage thinking that I hate the most is that men say I'm married, my parents are your parents, and you have to notice that my parents like mothers. The woman said, I love me, I should give me money. You should raise me for the rest of your life, preferably to help my mother.

    I want to say that this is the problem of marriage in my mind, I haven't started marrying the destination, not to mention the marriage crisis, absolutely.

    Although marriage is a combination of two families, it should assume the rights and obligations of the family. So, even if you get married, you expect less and less from each other. She is filial to your parents and you must know how to be grateful.

    He is your most solid financial support, and you must know how to be grateful. How did you do it, be me, I am very grateful, I believe in me, your marriage will only get more and more beautiful and more beautiful. Most marital crises can be avoided as long as you have the heart, as long as you use your heart.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Two people can communicate effectively and then solve the problem, in fact, I don't think it's a big deal, the main thing is to rely on two people to tell each other their inner thoughts.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The best solution to a crisis in marriage is to take a step back and think about it, give the other party a little leeway, and don't be aggressive even if you want to solve the problem, and it is often impulsive in your heart.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If there is a crisis in the marriage after ten years of marriage, at this time it depends on whether it is internal or external, if there is a problem in the relationship between two people, then you have to solve it well to see if it can be repaired, if not, then there is only divorce, if it is an external crisis, then you can only see if you can save this man, to see if he still cares about this family.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I quarreled with him in a hurry, he would slam the door and leave home, at this time I would be very angry and angry, so I kept calling him ** and calling him back, because he was gone, and my anger was nowhere to go. But this time is different, because he is busy with work, he lives in the unit every night, at first I felt sorry for him, often called him **, asked him to take time to come back, I made food for him. Later, because I asked him to help with two things, but he told me to be busy, and I would do it tomorrow, and ask him again the next day, and he would say that he was busy, and he would do it again tomorrow, and so on for a month, in fact, I didn't think that he could do it for me, but I still hoped that he could pay a little attention to this matter.

    Actually, he wasn't too busy at this time, but he still told me he was busy. I'm really disappointed in him, my business has never been taken seriously in his heart, when I fell in love with him, I didn't want him, only his people are better, and they are good to me, but now it seems that I can't get this. So I stopped calling him **, and I didn't pick up his ** anymore, and told him that he didn't have to come back, he was really a dispensable character in my life, and even if he came back, I would sleep in a separate room with him.

    I don't think about him anymore, I'm happy in the unit, and when I get home, I do my own cleaning, cooking, surfing the Internet, and sleeping. I no longer worry about him, all I think about is regret about getting married, and I even think that if I divorce now, I will definitely agree immediately. It's been going on for almost a month, and I don't have any desire to quarrel with him.

    I don't have feelings for him anymore. Everybody do me a favor.

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