Why do I feel that my college classmates are far less affectionate than my high school classmates?

This is very normal, because when you go to university, everyone comes from all over the world, and it takes a long time to understand the habits of life, and it is really difficult to understand each other without a year and a half. After understanding, due to regional differences, there are still very few common languages among everyone, and there are very few things that can be talked about together. Such words also make many people afraid to speak, for fear of making others think that they are different.

High school classmates, everyone has the same goal, they are all to get a good university in the college entrance examination, to get a good grade, and then after arriving at the university, everyone's path is different. Some people want to get a diploma in college, and some people want to make a big career in college and serve as more cadres in the student union, so everyone's path is different. This invisibly creates a kind of estrangement, I feel that he is different from me, I am different from him, and there is nothing to say, after all, everyone is not the same person.

However, the feelings of some college students are very deep, which requires a class leader to lead, so that everyone's hearts can be cohesive, so that everyone can shine in the university.

First of all, high school classmates sit in a classroom and meet every day, which naturally creates a sense of intimacy; College classmates have different courses and inconsistent activities.

Second, most of the high school classmates come from the same place, or generally at least one province, and the cultural differences, family environments, and concepts are not so different, while the college classmates are from all over the world.

Third, high school students work hard towards one goal - the college entrance examination, and universities go abroad to study and work, and everyone's pursuit may not be the same.

Fourth, for some people, after having a special high school friend to talk to, they will no longer need to find a great friend by their side

Because high school classmates are basically from the same city and are fellow villagers, while college classmates are from all over the country, college classmates are not as affectionate as high school classmates.

There are no fixed classrooms and seats in the university, and all classrooms run around all day long, each thinking about its own thing, doing its own thing, and even the collective is gone, what kind of classmate love is there to talk about?

In high school, all classes are in the same classroom, and in college, there are no classes together, and there are many unfamiliar ones until graduation. The roommates are basically hardcore brothers...

After many people go to college, they feel that the relationship between classmates is not as deep as it was in high school, so why is that? Let me talk about my personal experience.

When I was in high school, I had a lot of friends, and we would go to class together, eat together, and even go to the toilet together. At that time, my thoughts were still very simple, and I would not make friends with others for the sake of profit. But when I went to university, I actually felt that university was equivalent to half of society, things were very complicated, and when we were all adults when we went to college, even if it was a dormitory, the relationship was not very good, let alone with other dorms.

Personally, the most important thing in choosing a friend before going to college is who I play with. When you go to college, you can't say that it's not important, but it's not important, you can pay more attention to the other person's lifestyle and the way you act when you make friends.

When I was in college, in addition to joining the student union and other activities, the rest of the time was basically spent sleeping and playing games in the dormitory, and I didn't like to go out to play, plus when I was in college, I was in a new city, and I didn't want to go out to play if I wasn't familiar with life. When I was in high school, I had to go to class every day except for weekends, and the relationship between my classmates was naturally deeper, but in college, sometimes I didn't have a few classes a week, and there were few opportunities to meet, so I didn't talk about the relationship between my classmates.

Summary: In fact, when we were in college, we were mentally mature, learned to be independent, and we would choose friends selectively. Classmates usually only smile politely when they see each other, unlike when they were in high school, they fought every day.

To be honest, I really miss my old life, but as we grow up, these good memories can only become memories.

The feelings of college classmates are not as deep as those of high school classmates, which is indeed the case, because high school classmates struggle with each other, fight each other, and already have a deep friendship.

If you feel that college classmates please don't have high school classmates please have deep feelings, maybe I think to fall in love, because in college we have some other relationships, so some people will play some tricks, I was at home in high school just a simple study relationship and there is no other.

Because when I was in college, during the class, the seats were all spread out and not in class together. Therefore, there will be less communication between students, and the feelings will be weaker.

Hello dear, this may be because of the university, we then have our own different things, and then everyone is not focused on studying in a day, we still have a lot of expectations for more things that can not be developed in the future, that is, not only studying, but also other things to do, and then possibly, classmates do not spend a lot of time together, so it may lead to a relationship that is not very deep.

Because there are fewer intersections in college, there are fewer contacts, there are fewer words, and there is less time to get along, and there is no longer a deep relationship with high school classmates.

It's because many people think that they don't have much affection in college, and they don't put their hearts into it, and at the same time, there will be a lot of intrigue in college.

Because when I was in college, it was already equivalent to half of society, and when I was in college, everyone had their own things in their hearts and their own judgment on things, unlike high school students, who were more innocent and innocent.

Because the interpersonal relationship in college is very weak, you will get to know all kinds of people in college, but you don't have much contact with them, so the relationship is not deep.

For this question, I personally think that because in college, we all have our own things to do, and each has different goals, and high school is the same goal, which is to be admitted to college.

Why do I feel that my college classmates are not as affectionate as my high school classmates? The students who experimented in college were more active in the exchange of interests, and the high school period was purely sense.

Because everyone is not too old in high school, making friends is only based on their own personality, and there are some benefits in college.

Because why do you feel that the feelings of your classmates in college are not as deep as those of your classmates in high school? Is it because you come from a lot of places when you come to college, and is it that the high school near where you live is the person from the neighborhood where you live? So you're going to feel very similar.

Because the classmates in the university don't get along for a long time, and the feelings are not very pure.

Because in college, students can only be exposed to class, but high school students can only be exposed to a day's study life.

College classmates don't have as much affection as high school classmates, probably because the free space in college is that the kind of classroom where classes are not fixed, but when there is a class, they probably go to that classroom, and the teacher is not fixed, the classroom is not fixed, and even the dormitories are not very close together, and they usually don't have much contact, so the feelings will naturally be great.

1. There are many differences in habits and ideas between college roommates.

After students enter the university, they will have a different life during the holidays, and the students are from different regions, so many times everyone may have different living habits and thoughts, so there may be some small differences in the process of getting along, so the relationship between college roommates will generally be very poor.

2. College life is more like a small society, and everyone has their own thoughts.

Entering the university, in fact, students are like entering a small society, in fact, each student has their own careful thoughts, at this time, everyone pays more attention to their own interests, and high school classmates, is relatively simple, so, many times the relationship between college roommates may not be very good, will each hide some careful thoughts.

3. College students have different family backgrounds and different ways of doing things.

After entering the university, the family background between each student is different, and the family background is different, there may be a lot of differences in many things, so this will produce some conflicts in the process of getting along, so this is why the relationship between college roommates is relatively poor.

I also encountered this situation when I was in college, mainly because of my personality.

When I go to university, everyone comes from all over the world, including Chongqing, Xinjiang, Hainan, and all over the motherland, and of course everyone's personality is different.

Some people are a little more bold, and some people may be a little more serious and meet together. Serious classmates may think that the other party is inattentive and perfunctory, and the arrogant classmates must feel that the other party is calculating.

Moreover, it's not as simple as making friends in high school, everyone grew up in a different environment, and it's not so easy to get together.

Most of them are ordinary classmates and roommates, but there are also particularly good, even if they are not iron buddies, college roommates are also one of the biggest gains of your university, the feelings are slow, just start contacting, each knows a little about each other, and if there is a problem, it must be solved in time.

Moreover, what can help each other is to hide others, all college students, adults, others help you, you will definitely think about returning the favor of others, and over time, the feelings will be deep.

College is not like middle school and high school, where everyone learns in class for a day.

University students only attend classes together during class, and go straight back to the dormitory after class.

Therefore, the relationship between college is basically not very deep, and the relationship with roommates is more intimate.

Not necessarily. To be precise, each dormitory in the university is different, some dormitories are good or something, and some don't speak. It depends on whether the life experiences of the people in the dormitory are similar, some people are poor, and some are rich, which may cause conflicts.

It also depends on the personality of each person, some people care about everything, and some people don't care about anything.