I hope you can help me with what to do next I m desperate right now

If you hadn't written "him and her" I would have thought you were female and she was male. But on the whole, you are indeed a delicate person, you pay attention to her every move, you take every thought of her to heart, such a person is difficult! Hehe!

But your current problem is how to forget her, right? Did you notice her expression and movements when you brought it up to break up? Can you tell if she's calm on the outside, calmer on the inside, or a little sentimental, and ask if you've thought about it?

Since you didn't write it, I'll assume it too. Assuming she's the former, I think you're basically out of the picture, and if she's the latter, and you're so unforgettable, I think you can offer to break the mirror from the circle. Feelings, for us young people, are a bit just a bit of a fun and a show.

Most of them, like you and me, can't understand the strange concept that the old doesn't go and the new doesn't come. We are still young and I am also a high school student, we still have a long way to go, maybe this experience will add a lot of maturity to your future relationship. It's just that you can find people with delicate minds.

If you really love her, then you will regret that you broke up with her for such a trivial matter. When you want to reconcile with her and she doesn't want to, you will feel that her "don't care" about you is nothing at all. (I'm afraid she's going to like someone else).

If your feelings for her are just ignorant feelings between students, then you won't care too much about it in the future. Don't go abroad if you don't have much money at home, you will be even more lonely abroad, I am abroad now. Since she studied well, wouldn't it be very good......Progress with her

Love should give each other enough space, if two people stay together every day, how will they live in the future? She may not care about you as you think, it's just that you care too much and want to ask her to treat you the way you do to her, maybe it's not her way of life, but it doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Four years, neither long nor short, you have to be brave enough to face the fact that even if you fall in love in the future, there will be all kinds of run-ins, perhaps the so-called marriage run-in period.

Listen to me and give up! Your main task now is to study, your relationship will not last long, believe me!

Not only you, many people are still confused for many years after graduation, do not know what job you like the most, do not know what job is the most promising, often this mountain looks at that mountain high, what job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market.

Then set some stage goals purely funny, the kind that can be achieved as long as you jump yourself. After it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that you can reach the ultimate goal step by step. The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

Go bravely, go with your heart, don't stay put.