Why have those things that were once solid have now vanished?

When we are not yet old, we will always be full of determination and confidence in everything around us. I feel that these things will always be with me, and I will not leave no matter what. But when I grew up, I realized that no matter how strong things were, they could disappear.

In the process, we will also have a new understanding of many things around us, and gradually understand that whether it is people or anything else, it is possible to change due to time or some other reasons. <>

1.People and things are subject to change.

If you look at it from some very subtle places, whether it is each of us, or the friends and relatives around us, their daily state and mood will be different. From the perspective of the external environment, everything around us, including social conditions, is in a dynamic change. There is nothing we can do to stop all this, and the so-called "general trend" is this truth.

Returning to us is more likely to make us feel that it is "solid" to "dissipate" that is actually the emotions with people. It's like a lot of our friends during school will gradually become very distant when they grow up. Sometimes, although we often reminisce about the good times we used to be together, we also know that there is no way to return to the same intimacy as before.

2.Feelings need to be nurtured by each other, and people need to be accompanied by each other

At that time, the friendship mentioned above was the same, and the reason why the two people changed from good friends to last strangers was because the relationship between the two people was weak. Just imagine that the reason why there was a deep friendship between two people at that time was not because you spent a lot of time with each other, as you grew up, each of you had different paths for your own future, and these paths would naturally separate you. <>

Separation also means a difference in time and place, and you don't have the opportunity to laugh and play together and communicate your feelings like before. And everyone will meet new friends and get acquainted with new environments in the place where they are. The distance between two people will become farther and farther away, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker.

Because time can change a lot of things. As time passes, what you once thought was strong will suddenly wake up at some point, and you will feel that it is dispensable. Gone.

Time is the best thing to test everything, so ah, when those solid things disappear, be sure to look away.

Some things slowly disappear with time, then they will be thin, they will no longer be so strong, they will disappear after a long time, and nothing will always be so beautiful.

Some things can't be strong forever, they will disappear after a long time, it's a normal thing, life is capricious, and you should learn to accept reality.

Set against the backdrop of the political and social revolutions of the nineteenth century, this book charts the trajectory of the twentieth century and beyond by reinterpreting Marx and reflecting on Robert Moses' influence on modern urban life.

Set against the backdrop of the political and social revolutions of the nineteenth century, and through the major works of Goethe, Marx, Dostoevs, and others, the book presents us with a picture of the modern world full of contradictions and ambiguities.