How to be more mature, masculine, what is a mature man?

It is said that mature people are calm no matter what they encounter and can always handle things properly.

So why can mature people do this?

The reason is that mature people do not look at things on the surface, but at the essence. There will be no joy or sorrow because of appearances. For example, when a bad thing comes out, immature people will shout and scream, and they will die or live.

A mature person can clearly know the hidden essence behind this matter, and he knows what to do in the future to change. Therefore, it is not that people become insensitive when they mature, but that they do not need to be excited about something that can be completely controlled by themselves.

However, matter determines consciousness, and the maturity of human consciousness is not something that can be had, but must be tempered by continuous experience in life, and some things can only be truly understood after experiencing them. The ancients said that fifty knows the destiny of heaven, and people can only understand some of the meaning of life after fifty years of events.

But as long as you think a little more about the things in your life, think about the nature and the ins and outs of some things, "Why is this happening?" "What trend does this imply", people will be able to have more insights into life, and their thinking will become more and more mature. When you encounter problems, you are naturally very calm, and others also feel very calm and mature when they see you.

Open-minded people don't dwell on the past, wise people don't stick to the present, and mature people don't worry about the future.

To be a man is thirty years old.

Be confident. Take it easy.

Be accountable to yourself.

It can only be achieved through practice.

Every stage of life is different.

Take your time and enjoy each day.

Don't let yourself regret it.

I'm just a muscle, but when I started practicing at the age of nineteen, it was called a bitterness, and hypoxic exercise was really tiring, I don't know if you had the perseverance to persevere? After a year of perseverance, you can practice local muscles, anyway, sweat profusely every day, you can think about it.

It's good to be yourself, being a man depends on the accumulation of time, and the more life experience you have, you will naturally mature. Don't be in such a hurry to grow into a man, boys have the cuteness of boys.

1 Emotionally mature people understand that they are not omniscient, which is why it is better to be open to other points of view rather than to be opinionated, we may have strong personal opinions on a topic, but this does not prevent us from being proactive and listening to other people's objections, rather than thinking about how we can convince them, to prove them wrong, it is better not to judge some people or things immediately, if we learn to keep an open mind even in the face of small things, We get the opportunity to experience something new.

We can enjoy different movies or literature, even if we once thought they were not the right taste, and we can try a unique cooking recipe. The most important thing is to listen to others. We may be able to learn something from someone else's point of view, or even find out what we have done wrong, but we can still see for ourselves in the end.

But before making this decision, we need to be open to listening to other people's ideas or opinions, and even if we don't agree with them in the end, we can at least get to know them a little better, and this understanding can make us stronger, as our model Mother Teresa suggested, "If you are always judging others, you will not have time to give love".

2 Dwelling on the past can lead to our sadness and remorse. Live in the future. Don't even stress yourself out at first.

In this way, we can learn from past experiences and make choices for the future. We need to learn to live in the moment.

If we are aware that we are living in the moment and have made an informed decision, we will rarely have a negative reaction.

Or pick up old habits and live in the moment to give us great strength. It's the only moment we can act and choose to experience and enjoy. We need to remind ourselves that we can't change the past and we can't jump into the future.

So why waste precious time dwelling on the past and the future? Life is playing out as we say, right in front of you, and Teresa Xiu will say, "Yesterday is over." Tomorrow has not yet come, we only have today, let's cherish the present".