Be a person beforehand? What does it mean to be a person first and then do things

Advice for your life:

Eat more whole grains.

Memorize your favorite poems.

Don't believe everything you hear, don't spend all you have, and don't sleep as long as you want. Whenever you say "I'm sorry," look the other person in the eye.

Never ignore someone else's dreams. Resolve disputes in a clear way and don't take offense.

Never judge people by their appearance. Speak slowly, but think quickly.

When someone asks you a question you don't want to ask, smile and say, "Why do you want to know?" ”

Remember that those who dare to take the greatest risks will receive the deepest love and the greatest achievement.

Call mom **. If not, at least think of her in your heart.

When someone sneezes, say "Bodhisattva bless."

If you fail, don't forget to learn your lesson.

Remember the three "respects": respect for yourself; Respect for others; Maintain dignity and take responsibility for your actions.

Don't let petty disputes ruin a great friendship.

Whenever you find yourself doing something wrong, do everything you can to make amends. Move fast!

Whenever you hit **, please smile when you pick up the microphone, because the other person can feel it! Find some time and be alone for a while.

Be open to change, but don't abandon your personal philosophy.

Remember, silence is golden.

Read more books and less TV.

Live a noble and honest life. When you look back on the past when you are old, you can enjoy life again.

Trust God, but don't forget to lock the door.

The harmonious atmosphere of the family is invaluable.

Do your best to make your home smooth and harmonious.

When you quarrel with someone close to you, try to talk about things and don't pull out those things that are old sesame seeds and rotten grains.

Don't get rid of yesterday.

Pay more attention to what you say.

Share your knowledge with others, that's the eternal way!

Be kind to our planet.

Don't fool Mother Nature.

Do what you have to do. Go to at least one place a year that you've never been to before.

If you make a lot of money, do more good deeds while you are alive. It's the best you can get in return.

Remember that sometimes, it's good luck to get the best of things.

Deeply understand all the rules and update them reasonably.

You came here and asked the truth of being a human being?

Realize it for yourself.

It means to learn to be a man first and then to do things, being a man is the beginning of doing things, and doing things is the result of being a man.

Be a man first and then do things, and only when you are a good person can you do things, which is an iron law that has been used since ancient times. "Be a man first and then do things" is an ancient adage, which contains two meanings: on the one hand, only those who do it first can achieve things, and on the other hand, they do things in the way of being a man.

Those who are honest first will succeed; Whoever is a man who puts vanity first will fail. That is, to be diligent and honest. When interacting with people, you must guard your mouth, do not speak ill of acquaintances behind your back, and do not expose the privacy of acquaintances after the relationship breaks down.

To be a man is to be able to handle relationships well:

The psychosomatic relationship between man himself, the interpersonal relationship between man and society, and the relationship between man and nature. To put it simply, it is to learn to let people, learn to respect others, learn to love others, learn to tolerate others, learn to treat others well, and learn to respect others; Not publicity, not arrogant, not revealing, not hypocritical, these are the basic requirements of being a human being.

People who can be people are good at dealing with the problems of being a person, winning the respect of others and social recognition, and at the same time developing and improving themselves. People who don't know how to be a person can't deal with the problem of being a person, and their careers are failing, and their lives are in a state of anxiety. To learn to be a human being, we must start from ourselves, from improving our personal cultivation and quality.

In the world where we live together, communication and coordination between people are essential. In this process, how to behave and how to be a noble person who is respected and welcomed by others is an important issue that many people are thinking about and striving for. As the saying goes:

There are thousands of difficult things in the world, and the most difficult thing is to be a human being. Everyone hopes that everything will go smoothly and have a successful and happy life, but many people still fall into some misunderstandings on various issues and are difficult to extricate themselves, their failures are not limited to career failures, but also include character failures, failures in dealing with people, psychological and emotional failures, failures in marriage and family, and failures in life feelings. Why is it so hard?

Hit a wall everywhere? The reason lies in the failure to realize that personal success in society is actually the success of interpersonal relationships, and that in order to do things, we must first be a human being, and only by first being a correct person in a complex society can we be chic and free in doing things, and everything will go smoothly, and finally reach the other side of success.

Sunday, September 12, 2021 Sunny (the sixth day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar) is full of reflections and growth diary].

Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, everything has cause and effect;

Seriously reflect on the past, peel back the cocoon, and find out why.

Observe the little things in daily life, and see how to be a person from doing things.

Be a person in advance, and be a person who shouts to be virtuous.

1. To be a man, we must abide by our own principles of sedan infiltration.

To be a man must have a correct belief in life, a persistent pursuit of life, and a man must be closed to follow the trend of history, not to follow the trend. Tao Yuanming does not bend his waist for five buckets of rice, Zhu Ziqing would rather starve to death than eat American flour, and Lu Xun "crosses his eyebrows and coldly points at thousands of people, bowing his head and being willing to be a son of a cow."

2. If there is no desire, it is rigid.

Confucius said, "In fact, being strong does not mean being competitive. To be truly strong is to be desireless.

To put it simply, the selfishness of wanting to compete with others is considered 'desire'. The real 'rigidity' does not refer to being strong and competitive, but an ability to restrain one's desires. No matter what the environment, being able to be consistent and not be succumbed to desires is the real 'rigid'.

Through yesterday's school incident, parents and students work together.

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