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What should I do if I meet true love after marriage?
Faced with someone who can't meet all your needs, and a marriage where you can't get everything, we have to make a choice:
If you want to get the benefits of the marriage system, you have to bear the defects brought about by the marriage system; If you want to get true love, you need to leave the stability that comes with the system.
But the best ending is to be prepared and expected before marriage.
More and more sociologists** believe that the existing institution of marriage will eventually disappear. But until it's gone, we still have to endure its imperfections.
The ideal marriage of love, sex, and family is a model that the world celebrates, but it is not easy to obtain.
As long as bread is love, you have to accept the shortcomings of love;
As long as you love, you have to accept the instability of your material and even emotional life;
Unfortunately, people's needs may also change, so it is best to form your own stable values and needs before marriage, and accept that the needs of both parties will be fine-tuned or adjusted in the second half of your life.
When you encounter "true love" after marriage, you will either subvert the system or tame human nature.
But it is best to admit the imperfections of the system before marriage, recognize the needs, and be prepared.
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If the marriage can't last, you should cut through the mess quickly.
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Since you should live a good life honestly in marriage, didn't you get married because you love your wife?
However, the choice of life is in your hands, if you think it is worth it, you can try, but there is no turning back in life, and you must think clearly about the consequences when you want to do it
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Because this person only participates in your eating, drinking, and merrymaking, and does not participate in your firewood, rice, oil, and salt. Didn't the lover in your marriage get married because of love in the first place?
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I think it should be carefully considered, because in life, a person should not only consider their own feelings and personal preferences, but also consider the family, especially the impact on the growth of children, this is a responsible idea, giving up your marriage to find your true love may be beneficial to yourself, but it is a heavy blow to the rest of the family, so you have to be thoughtful.
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Now that you have chosen marriage, don't be tempted by anyone anymore! If you do that today, you could be in the same situation tomorrow. When will it be the end? Is marriage child's play? To be a man, you must have principles, a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
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Yes, if you can find someone who really works with you to strive for progress and work hard together, this is your honor. He is not necessarily in love, but he must be the most cooperative and tacit couple in marriage. So, as long as it's suitable, as long as it's suitable, it can also become family affection after marriage.
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The best love is not to find a good person, but to find someone who makes you better. That person will make you progress and make you see the bigger world. But on the path of feelings, we can step on a pit and fall until we meet someone.
Those people, those things tell us that it is the price of our growth. When we are young, it is easy for us to lose ourselves because of love. We didn't meet at the best time until we met the right person, but we found that because we had each other, we could have the best time.
Loving someone is not about relying on the other person, but trying to give the other person a better version of themselves. The best love is for the other person to continue to love themselves. In this way, you can survive the long years.
True love will make each other better and better, and we will see more beautiful scenery together. There is no encounter, there is no morning or evening, there is no need to meet the right person at the right time in the most beautiful years, there is no need to meet the right person at the right time.
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I think this is indeed the best love, only two people make progress together, then the relationship between two people will be more stable, and two people will have a better future.
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The best love is to find a person who is really reasonable and progressive, I think yes, only when two people progress together, such love can last for a long time, and the marriage can also last for a long time.
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Yes, in marriage. You can find each other and share the same goals. People who make progress together.
That's the best ending. People must have an ambition in their life. 2e Both parties in love can reach a tacit understanding, stupid to this ambition.
Work hard to have a happy ending.
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This is certain, two people can only work together when they have a common goal, if two people in life have different ideas and work hard to achieve different goals, it is inevitable that there will be conflicts.
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I think yes, finding someone who can really progress with you will have a sense of accomplishment in such a marriage, and you can also make yourself continue to improve and become more confident, which is the best love.
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I find a person who can really make progress with you, this is the best love, this is indeed very correct, two people make progress and develop together, they will be very happy.
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If this is the case, this is a perfect love and a perfect marriage, these two people will be happy together for a lifetime, but this kind of life and this way is really rare.
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This is for sure, because in throwing to become stronger, so that your life will be more beautiful, is the best kind of love.
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It should be, I think that in marriage I found someone who is really in sync with you and has common hobbies. Talent who works together is the best love.
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Find a person who is really suitable for you to enter the palace of marriage, this kind of love is the most perfect, although the other party is not excellent, but you can accommodate it.
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Yes, this kind of love can deepen the relationship between two people, can make two people progress together, and can allow two people to maintain this relationship together.
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You can also find a person with positive energy, who will definitely make you progress, and sometimes marriage is two people learning together and making progress together.
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Yes, if you can find someone who can really progress with you in marriage, this is the best love, and it is also a kind of marriage perfection.
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In marriage, if you can find someone who really makes progress with you, it should be a very good love.
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Working together in marriage, improving each other, and trying to keep up with each other's footsteps, this kind of love is the most wonderful!
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Yes, that's not wrong at all, marriage still has to find someone who can really make progress with you.
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Finding someone who is truly progressing with you in your heart is the best love, as it should be.
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When I meet true love after marriage, I will not abandon my wife and children to choose true love, because I have already married my wife and should be responsible for her, people are often responsible for the more important, and they can't abandon each other because they meet true love, so it is not a man's behavior, and they will be abused by everyone.
When you marry your wife, you should take your own responsibility, and the other party has no hard work and hard work, so you should be more considerate of each other. After marriage, such a thing as true love befalls me, in fact, I think it is unreliable, only the person and woman who accompany you are dedicated to themselves.
At the beginning, no matter what reason he was combined with himself, but after a long time, he would establish a relationship, and he would have a certain emotional foundation for his wife, because he couldn't do it when he met true love and chose to abandon his wife. Many times our happy life is built by the other party to accompany us, and the trivialities of life are also dependent on the other party's cooking, and we can't abandon each other without conscience. As an adult, you should know how to restrain your heart and behavior, and after marriage, you should be honest and do not have any thoughts with other members of the opposite sex.
It is enough for a person to be able to meet a person who enters marriage with him in his life, and he may not know what the so-called true love is. Look at your wife's dedication to the family, true love is actually not worth mentioning at all, we should cherish the opportunity to be together as a family, and don't choose to betray our wife.
After getting married, you will have a different role, and you should take your own responsibilities instead of subjecting yourself to various challenges. No matter how good you meet the opposite sex, you must take a firm stand, have your own ideas, and cannot be easily shaken, and be a family responsibility.
will be happy.
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After getting married, you have a certain sense of family and responsibility. If you really meet true love and you can't be with your wife anymore, then you can choose true love, but the premise is that you must first divorce your wife, give up your family, give up your children, and leave the house.
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I think that as a responsible man, even if he meets true love after marriage, he will not abandon his wife and choose true love.
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Married and fighting true love for a lifetime, will you abandon your wife and choose true love? I don't think a marriage needs to be maintained, maybe your woman's true love is just what you think. It's possible that someone else is lying to you. So I don't think I'm going to abandon my wife.
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The two people who like it have lived together, they should be responsible for each other, and the love they met for a while is not real, only their long-term wife is the real feeling! You must not abandon your wife who has been with you for a lifetime!
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If this happens, I will definitely not abandon my current wife and choose true love, because I feel that it is irresponsible for me to abandon my wife now, and I am a responsible person, so I will not do it.
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No, I think that after marrying my wife, my wife is true love, and it is impossible to meet true love after marriage.
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First of all, you have to understand that marriage is not child's play, and before you enter into marriage, you have to ask yourself if you can afford this responsibility, for your wife, your children, your family, all your relatives and friends. Secondly, when you are sure that you can afford to take responsibility and enter into marriage, can you easily abandon the search for true love? You can say that I am not happy with her, I don't have feelings, that person is my true love.
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This kind of thing sounds like it makes people blush. Already married. What else do you have?
Go find true love. Could it be that you were blind when you first got into someone? Thoughts like yours belong to people who are not serious.
As the old saying goes, it's a matter of style. If you are married, you must be worthy of this family. It's right to have a sense of responsibility.
Wife, **I'm sorry for you? You have this kind of thought, first of all, you are sorry for your wife, you know?
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I wouldn't, and I think this kind of behavior is very irrational and very unkind, and this kind of behavior is very typical of betrayal marriage.
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I won't, because I think being responsible for someone is the most basic responsibility of a boy, so abandoning a child can have a huge impact on the individual.
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After marriage, if you meet true love and abandon your wife and children, this kind of man will not be good when he is old, a man who has no responsibility, and he will inevitably be retributed in the future.
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After meeting true love, I will definitely tell the other party, but it is not appropriate for me to abandon my wife and choose true love.
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Prefer to marry someone who loves you, if the person you love does not love you, she will feel a humble existence, even if she is willing to marry you, it is not because of love. The person who loves you will regret that Lawu will give you everything, and you will be ecstatic to respond to Bi or his love a little, and it will be easier to be happy after marriage.
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I will be willing to go into marriage with the person who loves me, because the person I love may not love me.
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In the relationship, I prefer to enter into marriage with the person who loves me because the person who loves you will accommodate you, and he will accept all your bad habits, and the person you love will still not accommodate you.
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Of course, I am willing to enter the palace of marriage with the person who loves me, I think such a person can really give me a better life, and when I return to life, I can also give me more tolerance and understanding.
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Yes. It's more important to live a suitable life than to like it. Firewood, rice, oil and salt will dilute the vigorous orange slow love. Suitable means that the other party has a lot of merits that are suitable for marriage.
When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.
Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.
It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience, people who have experienced marriage will choose yes, the reason is that you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old in the future, and you will not love now, and you will live with someone who is suitable for you, and in the end it is not love but also used to life, like relatives.
The most important thing is whether the person you choose is "suitable", which is the core. There is no standard for this, only you can experience it yourself.
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Yes, married because of love.
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I think you have to define what true love really means in your heart. Under normal circumstances, the love that can be sustained comes from the blood. The human body is exclusive, so the initial true love is only oneself, and the love that arises due to certain circumstances can only be instantaneous and cannot be lasting.
The so-called true love in love is even more so. One moment is true love, the next is unknown. If it is to be long-lasting, it must be appreciated and exchanged for each other.
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When we meet someone we like, but they don't like us, don't stalk them, that will only make the other party hate us more, go with the flow and stay with each other more, let the other party get used to their existence, and slowly the relationship between two people will heat up.
Keep your sanity and think carefully about your current marriage. If the family is happy now, and you like others just for the novelty, then you have to learn to refuse. After all, you also chose to get married when you liked it before.
This has a lot to do with their expectations, when the other party can understand themselves, they will feel very down-to-earth in their hearts, or they will feel that their efforts can be recognized, and they will have that feeling of joy in their hearts.