After living together for a long time, is it true that the longer the time, the weaker the relations

After living together for a long time, is it true that the longer the time, the weaker the relationship becomes? Everyone seems to think that when two people are together for a long time and have a deep relationship, it is difficult to talk about breaking up and separating each other. The longer the time, the deeper the relationship should be, which should be reasonable logic.

However, even if it makes sense, this is not the only rule. As the time together increases, the number of cases in which the relationship becomes stronger and stronger increases.

There is this situation among friends around. It's right at your desk and mine, and in a state of being too emotional, say good morning to each other every day. In addition, it takes two or three hours to meet four or five times a day, and it takes two or three hours to hit ** when you get home.

The other party was a little late, and he was so distraught that he couldn't sleep.

After three or five years, few friends have only seen each other once in a few days like we did when we first got together. **It's also from two or three hours to dozens of minutes, and the other party doesn't stare at the phone when he replies late.

Of course, this situation will not be cleaned. Over time, the novelty of the other party will slowly decrease.

At the beginning, when the other party comes into contact with you, they will be curious about you because of various differences in gender, personality, ideas, preferences, etc. This curiosity will naturally absorb the other party, and he thinks you are so special. However, after being together for a long time, the other person will get used to your character, understand your thoughts, get used to everything about you, and new feelings will slowly disappear.

For example, if you watch a movie because of its shooting angles and its different methods of expression, or because of the different themes from before, you like the movie very much. Can watch it again. Also, you may be able to watch it 3 times or 4 times, but after watching it once, will it still absorb you?

In addition, if you are together for a long time and the distance is too close, there are many things that you can't usually see. The advantage is that there are more flaws. The other party's living habits and details of life do not appear in front of you now, and the other party is also a filtered and complete appearance for you.

After that, before you live together, many of the flaws that were deliberately hidden from the outside are revealed. Moreover, long-term relationships can easily become the same way of interacting. Doing the same thing and greeting each other every day, it is easy to get tired after a long time.

Every day, in the feeling of exhaustion, it is said that the cold and warm gradually turn into a bland greeting, which is also one of the reasons for the weakening of feelings.

It can be seen that with the progress of the social position of the two and the increase of income, more and more things can be seen, more and more people are met, and there are more choices around them. Not only should we pay attention to each other again, but also focus on that person, slowly, compared with others, I dare not talk to the other person, and that person can also understand and understand him more and more, and slowly transfer the feelings to other people The longer we are together, the weaker the feelings?

There is nothing eternal in the world, and love can change suddenly.

Does the fading of feelings really mean the end of love?

I don't think that's the case, on the contrary, it should be that the longer we get along, the deeper the relationship becomes. Because a person who really likes you and wants to live with you for the rest of his life will not let the relationship fade.

No. Some people's relationships will get better and better, because they will get to know each other better and better.

No. Two people who really love each other will only love each other more because they have lived together for a long time, and they will not love each other more because of the longer they live.

Yes, mainly because two people have been together long enough, there are not too many topics to communicate, so slowly there is not too much topic communication.

After a long time, some of each other's little problems have come out, and it's really annoying to fight around for trivial things all day long, and it's still comfortable to think about it.

Yes, and in the process, love will become affection, and at the same time, there will be less and less common topics between two people.

Yes. After a long time, there is no novelty, and everything feels very bland.

No, it will only make everyone speed up the pace of marriage, and they will generally get married soon.

In fact, the relationship between the two changes after living together, more of the dominance is in themselves, everyone and each person's environment is different, the same things encountered are also unique, and the way of dealing with them is also very different. The relationship between the two is often not entirely affected by the environment, but only through cohabitation, they can accelerate the comprehensive understanding of each other and experience the future lifestyle.

After living together, we can really see the small details of each other's things better, and we know the small details of whether we love you or not. If two couples who love each other very much and are willing to change for each other, their cohabitation life will become happier and happier. On the contrary, it will cause the two to break up.

Therefore, cohabitation can test a person's feelings for you, and the person who loves you makes your love for him stronger and stronger, and vice versa, and even breaking up is very common.

At the beginning of cohabitation, the relationship between the two people will be one step closer. The two first started living together, which was the freshest time, and this freshness kept a sweet and greasy state between the two. Two people almost every day longing for you to live your own little life together, when to get up, who will cook after getting up, and sleep together every day, this kind of life is what many couples who do not live together dream of.

Therefore, two people who have just started living together will enter a state of life in which they are inseparable every day.

After living together for a period of time, they will adapt to the life of the other party, which will reduce the freshness to a certain extent. In the case that two people are used to living together, they will slowly deal with their own affairs, and there is no longer the freshness that they had at the beginning. After being busy with their own affairs, the two of them will often go for a walk together, come back to watch TV, and enjoy a good dinner.

But it is less intimate at the beginning, and more of a little habit. This habit makes two people not cherish each other's existence, so that there is a sense of alienation between two people. Before living together, every message you sent was like a smear of honey and panicked, and after living together, your chat box was full of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, that is, life.

There will be times when you need each other all the time. You will witness the best of them for you, but also the worst of your temper.

After living together for a long time, the relationship between the two will be slightly affected and become flat. In fact, not all couples will have a weakened relationship after living together. The weakening of the relationship is not directly related to cohabitation.

When you fully adapt to each other's integration into your own life, life slowly becomes trajectory. After living together for a long time, they are accustomed to each other's existence, and they will live the life of an old husband and wife, as if they have to do the same thing every day, and then their life will become boring. At this time, how to alleviate the initial novelty becomes very important.

If two people can't get back that feeling of being in love, a long period of coldness will make the relationship between two people fade. Life may start to be dull, but it's the dull that counts as life.

There are three main reasons why cohabitation makes it easier to make the relationship weaker.

First of all, after two people live together, because they are too familiar, they will soon expose their respective shortcomings and problems, and they are unwilling to hide or compromise, and there will be many contradictions and problems, and the strong feelings in the past will gradually fade.

This is the process that every lover will go through, and most mature relationships, two people will constantly adjust and eventually come together. Of course, at this stage, there are many lovers who will end up breaking up.

Secondly, after living together, each other's sexual attraction continues to decline, from the beginning of the strong affection, to gradually fade or even get tired, slowly, the sexual attraction of two people to each other will decline rapidly, and the relationship will naturally become weaker and weaker.

Cohabitation is actually a quasi-marital life, and if two people do not have a correct understanding and a good attitude, it is natural for the relationship to fade.

The last is aesthetic fatigue, distance and fantasy will make the other party love themselves more, there is no hero in the eyes of the servant, there is no saint in the eyes of the wife, two people live together, and there will be aesthetic fatigue slowly, from appreciating each other's appearance, ability and personality, to slowly not feeling that beauty, and the feelings will gradually fade.

Therefore, lovers must be cautious when living together, and cohabitation may be a prelude to two people breaking up.

Hello, cohabitation may or may not deepen the relationship.

Previously, there had been extensive discussion about whether or not cohabitation was supported before marriage. There are many people who support and those who oppose it. Here, I will not analyze it. Of course, some points of view are still enlightening on the question of whether cohabitation and affection have weakened.

Why do you think it might be deepened? Because if you are in love with each other, have common hobbies, have endless topics, and live together without the pain of lovesickness, you can better like care and help in life, and you can also save some unnecessary expenses in terms of economy, and the increase in positive emotional interaction will inevitably deepen.

Why does cohabitation make feelings fade. If the previous understanding is not sufficient, the previous sense of mystery is lost, the differences in living habits, some hidden shortcomings are also exposed, mutual tolerance and mutual concession are not enough, contradictions increase, conflicts continue, and the foundation of love is constantly eroded, then it will become weaker.

In fact, whether the relationship between the two parties living together deepens or fades depends on the degree of commitment of both parties to this love, the degree of understanding of both parties, and the compatibility of interests of both parties.

I don't think it's possible to say that cohabitation will make it easier for people to weaken their feelings, so if this is true, does it mean that they are likely to be unhappy when they enter married life? In real life, cohabitation may deepen the relationship or become weaker, and if the run-in is good, it will be sunny every day, and if it is not good, it will be rainy.

That's my point of view, I hope it will be helpful to you. I wish you a happy life and a good life together!

Couples have been together for a long time, they already know each other very well, there is no sense of mystery, to put it bluntly, they just have had enough.