Girls choose between going to college and getting married???

If you look at your own life values, if you have always wanted to focus on your studies, then you must choose to go to university; If your goal is to marry a good husband, you may choose to marry someone. But if you want to marry a good man, yes, but you also have your own capital, not only your youth, but also your ability, the vase will always have a time to wither, and there will always be a successor to replace you!

Schoolgirl... I won't choose to marry someone, right? . . If you want to choose, you also want to marry, ha, it's a man's business to marry or not

It depends on what type of girl it is.,If it's a girl who wants to have a career or have some academic achievements.,A very strong girl.,It's definitely going to college If it's a yearning for stability.,And can't get into a prestigious university?,You should choose to marry (provided that there is a suitable object)。。

Besides, why can't you two of them together...

Going to college vs getting a wife.

Excuse me: Can't a person who has gone to college get a wife?

Then I asked: Is it not possible for a person who has a wife to go to college?

The average person wants to have both.

But why do you ask such a question? It must be a family and economic problem.

Different families and different economies will make people have different choices.

It's best not to stand in other people's shoes! Recognize yourself before you decide! Even if you are wrong, you make your own choice.

Go to college, there are not many people who don't go to college now, and if you go to college, at least you have a way out.

Nonsense, go to college first, then take people.

Marriage also has to have hardware... Hey, young man.

It's not the time of the old days, and women don't have to get married.

Now there are also a lot of strong women.

But I think getting married, marrying a good man is the most important thing in a woman's life.

It is difficult to gain a foothold in today's society without academic qualifications!

I advise you to "knowledge changes fate!" ”

Different girls will have different choices.

In order to get into a good city and a good school with a high score in the college entrance examination, I bid farewell to those low classmates in the class who only know cheating and abortion school violence.

In order to study in a purely academic environment in college, meet excellent classmates and first love boys, improve your horizons, and raise your level.

In order to rely on his true talent and learning when looking for a job, he conquered the examiner with his strength rather than his appearance, so that the opponent could lose convincingly.

In order not to be poked in the back by others after work, saying "an empty vase with good looks" or even "a three-no product with no looks, no figure, and no strength".

In order to attract better men with good tutoring and proper manners when talking about love.

In order to rely on his own quality and charm, he can get a precious pure love that has nothing to do with the world, money, and status.

No matter where they are, parents who are far away from home do not have to worry about their livelihood and future, but always believe with confidence that "my daughter can always live better than us".

In order to let the male ticket get his hands when he gets married, so that the future in-laws will be convinced.

In order to maintain economic independence and a strong voice after marriage, with the hardest iron rice bowl (Master Zheng Yuanjie once said that the biggest iron rice bowl is not to have food in one place for a lifetime, but to have food to eat when you go to the **), you don't have to be at the mercy of your husband and in-laws.

In order not to spend a huge amount of money to send children to early education after having children, their correct three views and accumulated knowledge can give children a good education by themselves, establish correct three views, and let him not lose at the starting line.

In order to meet a scumbag in marriage unfortunately, he can still be stubborn and leave, even if he leaves, he can live well, instead of compromising for his livelihood and for his children to have a better life.

In order for children to go to school, they don't have to stick to education fees, they can choose the best and most suitable school regardless of economic factors, they can learn if they like piano, they like to paint, they want to study abroad, as long as their grades are enough, their mother is not short of money!

In order to give their parents a better life in their later years, give them a big house, meet their mother's small wish of "planting flowers and vegetables in the courtyard of their own home" when they were young, and take their parents out of the country for the first time to see the tears in their eyes when their first passport was stamped with an exit stamp.

For the day when my parents are old, I have already laid a good financial foundation, once my parents are sick and hospitalized, I can boldly say to the doctor, "Please use the best medicine, as long as they are healthy, I don't care about money", instead of pitifully asking "Can this medicine be reimbursed by medical insurance"?

For the sake of our life, even if the starting point is low and the platform is weak at the beginning, we can slowly change our fate and rise to a better class through our own unremitting efforts, so as to improve the living standards of our families, make my husband respect and admiration, make my parents proud and assured, let my children win at the starting line, and let myself live with dignity and hope!

And every time people reach a new level, they find outThe people you come into contact with around you are different will change you in all aspects。Whether it's in terms of how you talk or how much you know, you're going to be greatly affected.

So, going to college is a necessity for everyone. Not for anything else, just for their own vision, their own future developmentYou should also go to college, otherwise you will become the person who is at the bottom of society.

With self-awareness and concepts, I have these two types of girls around meFemale students who have gone to college to investigate the pursuit of freedom and independence, they believe that women do not need to rely on men at all, and they can create value themselves. And girls who have not gone to college, they enter marriage early, they will think that this is the destination of life, and only by having children can they create their own value, so these two types of people have completely different values.

1.The basis is not the same, maybe you can build six floors of the highest, and you can build 18 floors after studying in college, but you all live on three floors now, so you think there is no difference, and when you develop in the future, you can see that the academic requirements are getting stricter and higher when you are promoted again and again.

2.Is it important to have academic qualifications? It doesn't matter if a prestigious school is important

Every year during the graduation quarter, you can compare the difference between the company that recruits for a junior college or general undergraduate and the company that recruits at the 985 211 school. The whole society tells you in words that ability is the most important thing and academic qualifications are scum, but they are all voting with their feet. Try harder, or read more books.

4.University is not academic qualifications, in fact, ability is greater than academic qualifications, this is unchanged, unfortunately, you have the ability to rely on academic qualifications to knock on the door, without the brick of academic qualifications, then there are fewer opportunities,In fact, the university is not a professional course, is the vision, thinking, three views, have seen the big rivers, thinking is not always unable to see far, of course, does not mean that the road to college is not far, hard work will be good development, just to say that people who do not go to college on the same road will go harder, more tired, for people who have gone to college there is nothing to be proud of, you have improved their thinking, three views, vision, but these will have other aspects of loss, into a good enterprise people warm and cold self-knowledge, physical strength is not tired, mental tired, If you think about it more, you will naturally think about it more, friends who didn't go to college in their hometowns, they don't have any heart for righteousness, and friends who have gone to college in the unit are deceitful and complement each other.

Women who have gone to college will not worry about some trivial things, and of course they will not compromise on family trivialities, and their opinions are deeper than those of women who have not gone to college.

Women who have gone to college will generally have more connotation than women who have not gone to college, and they also know more about how to behave and deal with things, and they will be more generous in dealing with people.

Girls who have gone to college have more common sense in society, will understand a lot of common sense in life, and will understand you better.

It may be that there will be a difference in concept and ideological consciousness, and women who have gone to college must have received higher education, and their ideological consciousness must be higher.

Women who go to college have their own ideas, have their own opinions and opinions on some things, and will not let others say it.

Women who have gone to college know more and have a wider range of knowledge, while those who have not gone to college have less knowledge and speak differently.

There must be a difference, first of all, there is a difference in academic qualifications, and second, there is also a difference in thinking.

Girls who have gone to college may know a little more, and their knowledge enriches their brains. But that doesn't mean women who haven't gone to college are inferior. In society, academic qualifications are very important, but ability is even more important, and there are many examples of successful women who have not gone to university.

Women who have not gone to college generally have a marketplace atmosphere, and sometimes they feel that they are uneducated. But girls who have gone to college are generally well-educated and polite.

I think this is a change in temperament, of course, this change in temperament I think of women who have gone to college refer to those who have really gone to college and received real higher education, not those who go to a third-rate university to eat, drink and have fun all day long can reflect any temperament difference.

Personally, I feel that it is obvious that women who have gone to college and women who have not gone to college sit togetherGap, speaking temperament. An understanding of things. There will be a noticeable difference.

There is also a difference in the ability to adapt to society. Nowadays, many companies require college students to interview for interviews.

The biggest difference is the way of thinking about the problem, and the vision. A girl who has not gone to college is like a little girl, and after going to college, she has her own opinions on many things and has a wide range of knowledge.

The gap is big, big. Nowadays, this society is highly educated, and it is becoming more and more difficult for people with low education to find jobs. There are many things you can learn in college, such as learning how to be a good person.

You'll meet a lot of people in college, and you'll have to learn to deal with all kinds of relationships. With a college degree, you can find a boyfriend with the same college degree in the future, get married and have children, and after the children go to school, you can also tutor your children's homework.

People who can approach their college careers will not have bad academic performance, and at a certain level, the professionalism and ethics of women who have studied in college and those who have not studied in college are not the same. I think that the requirements of many companies in society for entry barriers and academic qualifications are probably fully reflected in this aspect, and for female students, people who have at least a good level of university education are more likely to win the favor of society than female students who have not studied in college.

College is the best beauty salon for motivated girls Countless goddesses around me are learning makeup, trying to dress up, and insisting on exercising in college. Whether you go to university or not, just like the difference between the atmosphere of the market and the college, you will become excellent if you have excellent contact and communication. The circle determines the quality of the individual, as Nietzsche said Gaze into the abyss, the abyss must return to gaze, fight the dragon, and you will also become a villain If you don't go to college, what will your fate be?

We often only see Bill Gates and Steve Jobs dropping out of school to start a business, but we often don't see how many people with low educational qualifications in China endure extremely hard lives, do not have enough to eat, do not dress well, and when they are dying, they scold the "uselessness of reading", and they should study hard for their dreams.

In fact, not only girls, but also boys, college is like the first dividing line of life thinking, it can invisibly locate our pattern, locate our life circle, locate our future, this is actually a improvement and improvement of thinking concepts, just like this world, different people have different three views, often everyone is looking for people who agree with their three views. For female students, most of her ideas are very emotional, everyone says that college is like a "small society", sometimes college can improve a person's emotional intelligence very well, and for female compatriots, it can effectively increase their rational thinking.

Girls, don't always think that you are almost the same, find a good man to marry, don't work hard to have this kind of thought, girls and boys are all people, you have to rely on your own hands to create a happy life, I am embarrassed to take what others give, no merit is not punished, and then a realistic word, do you think excellent people will find average or even poor girls to marry? Without a common language, it is not at the same level, it is difficult to live, this is my personal opinion. Therefore, you must improve your strength and let others recognize you, and you will also be very confident, and confident people are really beautiful.

Studying in college to learn professional knowledge is only part of the content, and university can broaden people's horizons and see things in the long run. During college, you will meet a group of classmates and friends, which is a valuable network asset! If you can get into a good college, stick with it! If you really can't do it, you can take three books, then drop out of school as soon as possible, it is better to learn a skill such as programming as soon as possible, so as to gain a foothold in society in the future!