Who are the people who can t confide in them no matter how bitter they are?

Those friends who drink and meat, no matter how bitter they are, can't tell them. They don't care about me, they hurt me, so I can't tell them about me.

If children go to work in other places when they become adults, they often report good news to their parents, because their parents have been worried for half their lives and their health is not good, so they can't talk to them about their pain.

Those who only care about watching the excitement and don't really help. Because some people don't really want to help you solve the problem, they just want to watch the fun, so even if they are uncomfortable, you can't confide in them.

Someone who suffers more than you. If you confide in him, it will arouse his associations and make him sad, so that you will not be comforted. Instead, it hurt him.

No matter how bad the relationship between husband and wife is, you can't tell others about it, because they won't really understand you, because husband and wife are fighting at the end of the bed.

Everyone will have a lot of unsatisfactory things, some can digest by themselves, some can't, the landlord goes to Mimi to find a confidant little brother, your troubles are confided to him, and can also help you analyze and solve the problem.

There is nothing in life that is not bitter, but if you really think that you are bitter and keep repeating your suffering, you will be really bitter.

This is the law of attraction, in fact, it is not impossible to complain, and proper complaints can relieve our suppressed emotions, and also contribute to physical and mental health.

But you can't keep complaining and complaining repeatedly, because complaining shows that your heart is bitter, so how can you not feel bitter?

Bitterness is also an experience, and only after suffering can you know the taste of sweetness, and if you have not experienced bitterness, you will not know how happiness should be cherished.

In fact, in today's society, few people will complain, and most people can understand the difficulties of life, and they can generally let go of some small things.

And the real suffering is unspeakable, and who can empathize with it? Only you know, isn't there a saying that when you don't feel bitter, bitterness is also sweet.

Sometimes we are in a bad mood, or we can talk to our friends about it, share it, and vent our emotions when we encounter something that doesn't go our way, but those are not bitter.

Suffering is the experience of life, learn to make fun in suffering, internalize the real suffering into the driving force for your growth, bitterness does not need to be spoken, don't let your life become more and more bitter.

Talk to oneself. If your grievance benefits the listener, that's a good deed, but that's only an ideal assumption. Whether others can truly accept your release depends on whether the other party is a qualified pastor, because only a pastor needs the repentance of others.

People are really selfish at times, and they always want to transfer their misfortunes away. After a busy life, I still returned to my old place.

Try not to bear to talk to outsiders about your suffering, because outsiders can only see your surface, but the real essence is not prejudiced. On the contrary, it makes itself more and more miserable.

Some people, including me, sometimes have been depressed and have told others about it, but on the contrary, they have diverted my real suffering and only comforted me. Some of the sufferings have increased the permeability per acre, and the erosion has been greater.

Therefore, there is no need to talk about the important suffering, and it is still necessary to solve it by oneself. lest the bitterness in my heart increase. As is the case with everything, every hurdle will be solved in a lifetime, and it will be scattered in a few days.

So, restrain your emotions. Change your mindset to be at ease. There is no river that cannot be crossed.

Everyone has a variety of ups and downs in their lives, and some people have a strong heart and have fun with ups and downs.

Bumpiness can be a good thing, depending on how you deal with it. If you have been bumpy in your life, you will tell outsiders that outsiders may think that you are incompetent. Try to keep our own pain and happiness in our hearts, maybe it will give us a new start and make our mentality calm.

In this way, you will reduce your own burden. The bumps will go away.

It is said that there is no "easy" word in the adult world, therefore, no matter what happens, everyone will choose to endure it, always try to make themselves strong, "why can't you easily complain to others" caused heated discussions, what do you think is the reason why you can't complain? Let's talk about this topic together.

1. If you complain to your family, your family will be worried.

Home will always be our safe haven, if we have something on our minds, we can talk to our family, but if we always complain to our family, our family will be worried that you are not doing well, and your family will be anxious together, and we all want our family to live happily, so we are not willing to tell our family about our troubles.

2. If you complain to your friends, most of the time they can't help and will laugh at you.

When we have troubles, we will tell our friends, although it is much happier to say it in our hearts, but most of the time, friends are not able to help, can not solve the problem for you, and then you still have some troubles, some of the suffering can be borne by yourself, no need to pray that others can help you, because when others are listening, they may secretly laugh at you in their hearts, laugh at your incompetence, your fragility, and will look down on you in their hearts.

3. If you complain to the leader, the leader will think that you have no ability to resist pressure and will not reuse you.

If we have some troubles at work and want to complain to our colleagues and leaders, in fact, at this time, it is even more unnecessary. Colleagues are people who you fight side by side, you can work together and complete work tasks together, but if you complain to them, they will think that your work ability is not good, and your ability to work under pressure is even worse, if it is a leader, they will not give you important tasks, and you will lose a lot of opportunities.

The reason why you can't complain is that you don't easily reveal your heart to others, because you are likely to be used by others.

Because when we complain, we don't know whether others will listen to us or not.

I didn't understand this problem until I entered the society and came into contact with more and more people to understand the reason.

First of all, after entering the society, you will find that everyone in this society has different suffering, some people choose to bear it by themselves and digest it slowly, and some people choose to complain to others. But when you complain to others, you may not notice that the person listening to the brow is furrowed, because he also has his own suffering that has not yet been digested, but he has to listen to your complaints, and he is very annoyed at this time. Of course, some people will say that I am complaining to my friend, and he is happy to listen!

In fact, your friends are not very willing to listen to your complaints, but they do not speak out because of their feelings.

I used to complain to a friend for a while because of the pressure of work, and at the beginning my friend said, "If you have something, just talk to me, just say it". Until one day, she said to me, "Can you talk to me about something happy, you talk to me too negatively now, every time I talk to you, I am not in a good mood". When I first heard her say this, I was a little angry and felt like you didn't understand me as a friend.

It wasn't until the pressure of work forced me to quit my job and go home, and when I came home, I really calmed down and thought about my previous life, that I realized that when people enter the society and start working, they have to face such and such difficulties. When you are complaining to others, it will not only give the listener a bad mood, but also deepen your memory over and over again, making you feel more depressed.

Sometimes the person you complain about may not be your friend, but your colleague. When complaining to your colleagues, especially those who are just starting out, you may want to empathize with them, but the result may be the opposite. I also complained to a newcomer who had just joined the company, and I thought she would agree.

It wasn't until another colleague told me that my complaint was weakness in the eyes of that newcomer, and that newcomer looked down on me very much, that is, I didn't understand, after all, you are a newcomer, you don't know anything when you first join, why look down on me. Later, I realized that a strong person should give the impression of others that he should be positive and strive to improve himself, rather than complaining every day.

In short, if you feel depressed, you still have to digest it yourself, you can go out with friends, eat a good meal, etc., but you must not complain to others, everyone's suffering is different, and everyone can only digest their own suffering. In fact, if you think about it, you will find that those hardships are created by yourself, sometimes you won't be bitter if you don't take it to heart, life is so short, it's better to think about more happy things!

Complaining is a kind of venting of emotions, and venting your trust in yourself will make you feel much more comfortable, but if you confide in others about these things, others will not be able to help you, and in the end you have to rely on yourself to digest and solve it.

Because you are spreading negative energy, there are many people who hate this kind of person who likes to spread negative energy, so don't complain about people when they meet, and people's joys and sorrows are not interconnected.

I agree with the idea that you should not complain about people. Everyone is the same, running around for life every day, who doesn't have suffering, when encountering bad things, it's useless to complain when people meet, others don't want to listen, or cheer yourself up, find a solution, and believe that everything will be fine!

Everyone's life is not simple, some people may take your suffering as a joke, and many of the sufferings in life are for us to savor.

No longer complains to others, but knows how to rely on yourself. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke recounts that he has strength on his own.

Point 1: Don't tell others about such things, others will laugh at you, point 2, don't tell others easily when you're in a bad mood, others will think you're a fool, point 3: Don't tell others when you don't have money, others will treat you as a joke.

You can't tell outsiders about your own inability, the days when you don't have money, and your family's trivialities, because you tell outsiders, and no one helps you, they will only laugh at you behind your back, so you must be strong and get through it.

1.Some issues of principle between husband and wife. 2.Some bad things I've done. 3.Something about their own parents. Don't talk about these things casually, because the ugliness of the family should not be publicized.

1. Don't tell others about your current economic situation and how much you earn, 2. Don't tell others about the contradictions between yourself and your husband, give others a chance to multiply 3, don't tell others, how difficult it is for you, how wronged you are.

One is the debt you owe, there is no need to tell outsiders, when you meet a snob, you will look down on you because of it. The second is the hardships they have endured, no one can empathize, and some people even have the psychology of watching the excitement. The third is the bad things in the family, the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, and it will become a laughing stock for outsiders if they say it.

In interpersonal communication, you should have a sense of proportion in your speech, and know what to say and what not to say. Although everyone has times when they are depressed and upset, no matter how bitter they are, these three things cannot be told to outsiders.

1.Your relationships.

You may not get along well with some people. Then they will inadvertently say something that is not very good to the other person. But you don't know the relationship between the other person and that person, and it's likely that the other person can't keep his mouth shut, and you end up being the one who says bad things about people.

And even if he does, his interpersonal relationships are still not resolved.

2. Your own weaknesses.

Don't expose your soft help. Doing so is to protect yourself. People close to you can't reveal it unreservedly, if the relationship has been very good, I'm afraid that the relationship will be bad.

This person knows your weaknesses, and then you will be in a very passive situation. It is necessary to be cautious.

3.Family distress.

We all want to have a perfect family, but sometimes it doesn't always go our way. But these things really can't be said, and it is possible to spread ten or ten by accident. In the end, everyone knows that you are not doing well.

Others may not be doing well, but others will be silent, so you must not just talk about the family's troubles everywhere.