Imperfect children, imperfect mothers, imperfect children

Imperfect Kids - TFBOYS

Words: Blue Little Evil.

Music: Yan Xiaojian.

Yi Yang Qianxi: When my smile is bright like sunshine.

When my dreams are beautiful enough.

The world applauded me.

Only you are worried about me getting hurt.

Wang Yuan: The whole world is waiting for me to fly higher.

But you feel sorry for my little wings.

Hold me up. A place to rest along the way.

Wang Junkai: When I have to be like a perfect child.

Meet everyone's expectations.

You seem to appreciate it.

I make mistakes and look stupid.

He: I'm not a perfect dream.

You accompany me.

Imperfect courage.

You say braver.

Imperfect tears.

You smile and wipe dry.

Imperfect song.

You can all sing. I'm not perfect.

You're all on your mind.

It's not perfect for me.

You're always treated like a baby.

Qianxi: The love you give me may not be perfect.

But it's the most beautiful. Qianxi:

The whole world is urging me to grow up.

But you can always hold me in the palm of your hand.

Wang Yuan: Cover it for me.

Those winds and waves of the unknown.

Junkai: When I try to be the perfect child.

Meet everyone's expectations.

Wang Yuan: You don't talk about your wishes.

He: I'm afraid of adding weight to my shoulders.

I'm not perfect dreams.

You accompany me.

Imperfect courage.

You say braver.

Imperfect tears.

You smile and wipe dry.

Imperfect song.

You can all sing. I'm not perfect.

You're all on your mind.

It's not perfect for me.

You're always treated like a baby.

The love you give me may not be perfect.

But it's the most beautiful. Junkai:

I'm not perfect dreams.

You accompany me.

Imperfect courage.

You say braver.

He: Imperfect tears.

You smile and wipe dry.

Imperfect song.

You can all sing. I'm not perfect.

You're all on your mind.

It's not perfect for me.

You're always treated like a baby.

The love you give me may not be perfect.

But it's the most beautiful. Wang Yuan:

The love you give me may not be perfect.

But it's the most beautiful.

Many times, we put ourselves in the child's shoes and think about it. My children are not so perfect that they don't make me "angry, frustrated, and embarrassed", and their behavior is typical for all children, walking, jumping, and crawling on the road, which is their nature. They don't walk and eat quietly as I ask them all the time.

When you allow and accept their "disobedience", think about the possible reasons for their behavior, and you will find that many times, they don't mean to do it against me, but sometimes they don't control themselves just like adults (in fact, adults don't control themselves a lot of the time).

For these behaviors of children, if you are unacceptable, it will be difficult to accept your child. Just as we are often reluctant to accept ourselves, ashamed, blamed, angry, but it is our own imperfection that gives us the opportunity to grow. In the process of accepting ourselves, it also makes us more willing to accept our children and accompany them to grow up bit by bit.

By understanding the child's feelings as well as he understands himself, and seeing the real needs behind the child's behavior, the child can better grow himself in such a "natural" environment.

I was deeply touched when I saw this passage on the Internet, and suddenly I didn't want to kill you, I was just naughty, and it wasn't heinous, as long as I was safe and healthy.

Mom is very mediocre and accepts your mediocrity and does not ask you to be the best child, because you have never asked me to be the best mother! ”

The child's love for his mother is far more than our love for him, when we are in a bad mood, all the child's behavior is classified as "disobedient", they just do not follow our so-called good for him, vent their emotions to him, but they will never blame the mother, and will deliberately make the mother happy. After a while, I forgot about it, and I still called my mother sweetly.

We can't be perfect parents, we shouldn't ask children to be perfect children, every child is a unique baby, born to know you, become your mother, pregnant you are not for the sake of inheritance, pension and death, only want to take you to this world, see the prosperity of the world, and have the honor to accompany you for a while.

In the past few days, I have been paying attention to the various interpretations of the case of the mother murder at Peking University, from Liu Na to slowly speaking to insights, and looking at various materials from previous articles on the Internet. I really think it's terrible, it's really a high-IQ crime.

I have been in the German Wheel Lap education class before to say that people with both ability and political integrity are high-end products, virtuous and non-virtuous are ordinary people, and no virtue and no talent will not cause any harm to the society, the most afraid of the most afraid is the talented and unvirtuous people, this kind of people are really terrible against the society.

I have read a lot of analytical articles, if Wu Xie Yu hadn't deliberately leaked his whereabouts, it is very likely that the police would not be able to find him now, and his calm behavior after killing people is really unimaginable.

And after he killed someone, all his teachers and classmates didn't believe it, and the feeling of him was that he was a perfect child, but now I feel that it is: I don't want a perfect child from someone else's family, I don't want a perfect role model, I just want a healthy and upward child, a mentally healthy child. He can lose his temper occasionally, he can get bad grades, he can cry when he is depressed, he can not speak when he is angry, he can have normal emotions to vent, he can have normal joys, sorrows, and sorrows, he can have normal seven bright fighting emotions and six desires, instead of the perfect child hiding under the mask.

Because we were never perfect parents, why do we expect ourselves to have perfect children?

Talented but not virtuous is really an extremely dangerous product!

Although it is a small probability event, it should still cause us to think about it.

There is no perfect parent-child relationship, but at least we can have a good time together.

"Imperfect Child" is a song written by Lan Xiaoxie, composed by Yan Xiaojian, and sung by TFBOYS. So what are the lyrics of "Imperfect Child"?

1. Qianxi: When my smile is as bright as sunshine, when my dream is beautiful enough, the world applauds me, only you are worried that I will be hurt;

2. Wang Yuan: The whole world is waiting for me to fly higher, but you feel sorry for my little wings, hold it up for me, and rest along the way;

3. Junkai: When I have to be like a perfect child and meet everyone's expectations, you seem to appreciate my stupid appearance;

4. He: My imperfect dream, you accompany me, imperfect courage, you say more brave, imperfect tears, you smile and wipe dry, imperfect songs, you will sing, I am imperfect in my heart, you are all in my heart, this imperfect me, you always treat it as a baby;

5. Qianxi: The love you give me may not be perfect, but it is the most beautiful;

6, Qianxi: The whole world is urging me to grow up, but you can always hold me in the palm of your hand;

7, Wang Yuan: Cover me from the unknown wind and waves;

8. Junkai: When I try to be a perfect child and meet everyone's expectations;

9. Wang Yuan: You don't talk about your wishes;

10. He: I'm afraid of adding weight to my shoulders, my imperfect dreams, you accompany me, imperfect courage, you say more brave, imperfect tears, you smile and wipe dry, imperfect songs, you can sing, I don't have a perfect heart, you put it all in your heart, this imperfect me, you always treat it as a baby, the love you give me may not be perfect, but it is the most beautiful;

11, Junkai: My imperfect dream, you accompany me to think, imperfect courage, you say more brave;

12. He: Imperfect tears, you smile and wipe them dry, imperfect songs, you can sing, I am imperfect in my heart, you put it all in my heart, this imperfect me, you always treat it as a baby, the love you give me may not be perfect, but it is the most beautiful;

13, Wang Yuan: The love you give me may not be perfect, but it is the most beautiful.

I'm not a perfect mom and mom, I'm angry, lazy, and irritable.

If you don't eat, I'll lose my appetite once in a while.

You don't go to bed until after eleven o'clock, and I stay up late once in a while.

If you throw things in anger, I will also be angry and make a stinky face.

You like to eat fruit, but I don't eat much, even though I know the benefits of eating more.

You don't have to study to excel because I'm not a top student either.

You don't have to go to a lot of interest classes because I don't know how to play the piano and dance.

You don't have to be obedient because I'm not an obedient child either.

I hope you can grow up to be a person with a sense of responsibility and justice, I hope you always maintain a curiosity to explore the truth, I hope you have the courage to face failure, and I hope you still maintain kindness to the world and others in the face of injustice.

Hopefully, you have the ability to be your most authentic self.