Love is a personal act, marriage is a social act, what is the relationship between this?

Love is the relationship between individual behavior and marriage as a group, just as the relationship between our personal beliefs and social beliefs is both related and different.

A responsible love must result in marriage – and this is in a communist society.

Love is destined to be a different color because of a personal act, that is, you think love is like this, I think it is like that, you may feel that love should always be buried in each other's hearts, and he may think that love is ultimately to come together ......

In fact, when people's quality and consciousness gradually become clear and tall, love itself has lost its own kind of defective beauty, because love itself has specificity and exclusivity, and its value is destined to be reflected in the meaning of both sides of love. Although, more often than not, we judge each other with a prejudice in the world of love, but when love really leaves us, the standard of judging each other returns to group evaluation - that is, we like to evaluate each other in the simple way of love union such as marriage.

And marriage itself, is a form of workshop, and love has no necessary relationship, in fact, marriage is far earlier than the consciousness of love, in the primitive society, the clan tribal leader has the most mating rights, which leads to his marriage is a kind of reproduction and maintenance of authority, as for whether he has love with a woman, that is a rare thing.

The end result of love is not marriage, but if both parties think that marriage is a better way to choose, it can give love a wonderful space to cultivate and develop.

Love is actually a devil, it really gives it a space, and it may not grow well.

Love is the truth in the face of adversity.

The final result of love may not necessarily be marriage, some people like the feeling of being in love, and it is not necessarily to rush to get married; And some people are in love for the sake of getting married. Love may not need too much responsibility in it, or even no responsibility, just two people are happy; But marriage is different, when two people get married, there is a veritable relationship of responsibility and subordination, which is dependent on each other, that is, what one person thinks and does, may have to be obtained by two people, whether it is good or bad.

People who love each other do not necessarily get married, and people who marry do not necessarily love each other.

But everyone wants to marry the person they love.

But you don't just have to think about it to get married

Forehead. I don't know it myself.

Marriage gives love a fortress.

And love is a time bomb that can destroy this fortress.

Hehe, what is definitely legal is the product of the development of human society to this day.

Normally, it should be.

Why get married without love?

It doesn't matter or not, depending on what you want. If you want a career, you don't have to think it's important. And if you don't want to be alone, but you want to be stable, naturally love and marriage are important.

Your way of asking tricks some people into it! What you should ask is how many people get married because of love in real life, and form a family. You should distinguish the relationship, boundaries, and scope of love, marriage, and family.

The gap between ideal love and reality is the existence of facts, only a little bit is because of love, some because of age, some because of the pressure of the people around them, some because of parents, some because of desire, some because of greed, some because of loneliness..., I want to find someone, I want to get rid of being single, I want to get married. How many marriages are really because of love, think about it yourself, right? ...It's really because of love, it's too little, just a little bit, and it's a little bit more.

The answer is only given by those who really understand, and the answer is given by those who don't understand, and those who don't understand may also be biased, biased and deviated. Not to mention errors. In fact, do you think love exists?

Does true love exist? What is the probability of it happening. As far as people are concerned, there is a gap between different people's definitions of love and true love, just like a person who has not graduated from primary school and a college student have different definitions of love, different starting points, and more later.

Around you, you can go to investigate and insight. Most people find a similar person at the same age to start a family, live a similar life, and live a similar life. First love is because of love, but too little survives.

It is really because love has a result that it is a fluke event, not an inevitable event. Love is emotional, but marriage and family require rational judgment and various tests of parents in the family, and those who can't pass the test will die. At present, more than half of the marriages of young Chinese people are directly intervened by their parents, and more than 70% of young women's marriages are intervened.

Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and family is a matter of two families. It's not a single location. Because of love, what you don't see will have results, and what you don't see will be happy.

It's not because of love, what you don't see later has no result, and it doesn't necessarily have a bad time. There are exceptions to everything, and only the majority of situations are considered, as well as considerations within the scope of personal circumstances. Love at first sight and long-term love have a reason for existence, and existence is reasonable.

No explanation is needed.

There is no right or wrong, just relatively. The same is true between truth and prejudice. The question is focused on your life, a question of how do you grasp it!

There are not many marriages that are related to love, most of them are just suitable for each other, or they are a good match, but they have nothing to do with love.

In modern society, there are many marriages that are related to love, many people think that there is no love after marriage, that is just that they can't feel it, in our parents' generation, it is indeed because of the parents' orders, matchmakers' words, these things will bring couples together, so for us, we are indeed married because of love, to our generation, we are more looking forward to romance.

Many marriages are related to love, for example, from the love in college to marriage, such marriages are evolved from the love of two people.

In fact, many marriages have nothing to do with love, and are generally for profit, because people nowadays are very realistic.

In fact, there are not many, many marriages are built on the basis of suitability, not on the basis of love.

I think that love this thing, choose to have it in order to live well. Think of someone who has been involved in your life, listened to you talk, watched you laugh, listened to you whine, thought of you, thought of you and said goodnight to you. It's so beautiful and warm, it's enough.

You look at each other, kiss each other, hug each other, and share the happiness of life. Just imagine, there was once a person who made you feel passionate in your heart, and you can be satisfied.

For love, it can be full of hope and confidence, but it is difficult to pursue. Don't get too obsessed, sometimes it turns out badly. Take a look inside yourself and if your partner leaves you or even disappears, will you be able to continue living and pursuing your goals?

Moreover, love is a matter of two people. Sometimes I wish you could be with me but you refuse, what can I do?

In my opinion, "only caring about what you once had, not caring about how long it lasts" is a very clear view of life after experiencing the world, and living in the present is not affected by gains and losses. Only those who truly understand all the hard-won and understand that the world is changing too fast, only those who have truly experienced love, and those who have experienced the pain of parting can understand the meaning of this sentence and can also say such profound insights.

I don't want to limit this sentence to love, everything is the same. When I learned that the only eternity in the world was what I could have, there was always a limit to what I could have. Relatives want to say goodbye, and my youth is also fading by the second.

When you realize that no matter how hard you try, you can't have them forever, you ask yourself, "Then why should I try?" "But we don't live in the future, we live in the present. Take advantage of the moment and live your life so that the next time you view them, they will become your memories.

I believe that memory is the most valuable asset.

Those who laugh at this statement, I think they are too young. I hope that in the decades from now, when they lose so much of what they have been working so hard for, they will still have the courage and the pride they have today.

Marriage and love, as two important components of human society, have always attracted people's attention and pursuit.

In today's society, with the changes of various factors such as economy, culture, and values, marriage and love have also undergone many changes and challenges, and people's beliefs and concepts about them are also different.

In this environment, how should we view marriage and love? First of all, from a historical point of view, marriage and love have always existed, but their meaning and expression have changed with the development of the times. In the traditional family structure, marriage means the aggregation of a family member and the continuation of the family, while love often needs to be hidden and conservative, and is seen as a private matter.

With the progress of society and economic development, marriage and love have gradually broken away from the traditional shackles and become more liberal and diversified. Love began to be expressed openly and gradually became the basis of marriage.

As society changes, so do the challenges of marriage and love. On the one hand, the imbalance in economic development has led to a widening wealth gap between people, which has also exacerbated people's utilitarian and beneficial concepts of marriage, resulting in many marriages becoming lacking in emotional foundation.

The diversity of cultures and values has led people to question the rationality and appropriateness of the traditional marriage system, for example, the emergence of new marriage systems such as gay marriage, which has also had an impact on the traditional concept of marriage. All of these factors have had an impact on the belief in marriage and love.

When it comes to faith in marriage and love, I think people should be tolerant and open-minded. Although the definition and expression of marriage and love have changed in the current environment, there are still many people who firmly believe in and pursue true love and marriage. Therefore, believing that marriage and love are still meaningful and valuable should not be complained about and denied.

We should also respect different marriage and love choices, and should not judge and blame others because of our own ideas and beliefs. The meaning and value of marriage and love can change depending on the course of history, social changes, and personal perceptions. We should think seriously about these issues, maintain a tolerant and open attitude towards marriage and love, respect the choices of others, and establish our own beliefs and values.

Only in this way can we better face the changes and challenges of the times, and find our own happiness and meaning in marriage and eloquent love.

I think marriage and love can still exist and still have a sense of significance in modern society.

Although the current social environment is complex and changeable, and many people are facing marriage and love problems, this does not mean that marriage and love have lost their value. Marriage and love are one of the most primitive and basic emotional needs of the human heart, and they can bring us happiness, fulfillment, and security. At the same time, marriage and love can also generate more responsibilities, obligations and growth opportunities, so that we can better understand ourselves and others, and achieve personal development and family harmony.

Of course, any marriage and love relationship requires joint efforts and understanding from both parties, as well as a good foundation of communication and trust. We should respect each other's choices, constantly improve ourselves and improve the quality of Lu Xingling's marriage and love, so that we can establish a healthy, stable and lasting marriage and love relationship.

One day, the ancient Greek philosopher Plato asked his teacher Socrates what love was, and his teacher told him to go into the wheat field first and pick the largest and most golden ear of wheat in the whole wheat field. You can only pick it once during this period, and you can only walk forward, not turn back. Plato did as his teacher said.

As a result, he walked out of the wheat field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he couldn't pick it, and he said, "Because I can only pick it once, and I can't go back, even if I see a big and golden tree, I don't know if there is a better one in front of me, so I don't pick it; When I walked to the front, I found that it was not as good as what I had seen before, and it turned out that the largest and most golden ears of wheat in the wheat field had long been missed; So, I didn't pick anything.

The teacher said, "This is love." ”

Then one day, Plato asked his teacher what marriage was, and his teacher told him to go into the woods and cut down the largest and most luxuriant tree in the woods, which was the most suitable for a Christmas tree at home. In the meantime, you can only pick it once, and you can only walk forward without looking back. Plato did as his teacher said.

This time, he came back with an ordinary, not very lush, not too bad tree. The teacher asked him how he could bring this ordinary tree back, and he said, "With my last experience, when I was tired and empty-handed after most of the journey, I felt that although there were many trees in the woods, this tree was still quite good, so I cut it down so that I wouldn't end up with nothing."

Teacher: "This is marriage. ”

Another day Plato asked his teacher Socrates what life was, and Socrates told him to go to the woods once. The requirement is to walk casually, and to pick the most beautiful flower on the way.

Plato learned the lesson of the past and went out confidently for three days and three nights, and he did not return.

Socrates went into the woods to look for him, and finally found Plato encamped in the woods.

Socrates asked him, "Have you found the most beautiful flower?" ”

Plato pointed to a flower next to him and said, "Is this the most beautiful flower?" ”

Socrates asked, "Why not take it out?" ”

Teacher Plato: "If I take it off, it will wither at once. Even if I don't pick it, it will wither sooner or later.

So I stayed near it while it was still in full bloom. When it withers, find the next one. This is the second most beautiful flower I have found.

At this time, Socrates told him, "You have learned the true meaning of life. ”

I happened to see that a very old story has been recited in people's mouths for many years, and it is very easy to understand.

Love gives people experiences and memories, and after that, marriage relies on wise decisions and good grasps, and after these tests, in the end, you will understand that life is a kind of cherishing and guarding.