Helping a friend buy something, my friend doesn t believe me, I just think I just think I m withdraw

Updated on psychology 2024-07-02
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I really don't know how to say this, the first old saying is that friends talk about money the most hurtful feelings. But if this kind of thing can be mentioned to you clearly, then I am really speechless. Even if you are dissatisfied, you can't talk about it on the surface.

    You can't help it, there's nothing to say about this kind of thing. Let him buy it himself. Be an ordinary friend.

    Those who are clean are self-purifying, why are you putting pressure on yourself? Let him say it, this kind of thing can be said in the open, and he can be regarded as a friend. There will always be a lot of ups and downs in people, so let's open it.

    It's really not good.,You just let him buy this kind of wallpaper by himself.,The price difference can be seen at a glance.。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Find your friend to sell wallpaper and confront him face to face, if it doesn't work, go to other wallpaper sellers to understand and then explain to your friend. If it doesn't work, then break off the relationship, since I don't trust you, why do I still ask you to buy wallpapers for him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello, I personally don't think this kind of person should continue to be called friends with him. Explain sincerely, and then you don't want to be with him no matter what he does to you. I wish you a happy day.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just go to the store and ask for an invoice. Besides, the body is not afraid of crookedness. He suspects that you just don't see you as a friend, so why are you calling too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Give him money to buy a roll of the same wallpaper.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally bring your friend to the place where you bought wallpaper and ask**. That's it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't help him in the future, this person is not kind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Secondly, if you have a good relationship with the other party, and you are embarrassed to speak, but you don't want to suffer this loss, then I suggest that you either ask the other party to help you bring it next time, and you don't give it to the other party. Or, next time refuse to bring something for the other party.

    The second chapter of "The Outer History of Confucianism": "When he was enlightened, his father Yang and Jishang's new Mei friends named him. The second chapter of "The History of Confucianism": "It turns out that the scholars of the Ming Dynasty called Confucian students friends, and called Tongsheng Xiaoyou. ”

    In fashion: It's the family we choose. Liu Hongyi, "Lectures on a Thousand Words":

    In ancient times, human beings were mainly active in the Yellow River Valley, and there was no sea, and shells were very rare, so shells were used as currency for circulation. Holes are made in the shells and threaded with ropes, and five are called one series, and two are called one peng. When an old friend came, he hung two strings of shells around his neck to drink, and he called him a "friend".

    Historical Explanation: Classmates; Like-minded people. Later, it generally refers to people who are deeply acquainted. "Yi Dui":

    The gentleman lectures with friends, "Kong Yingda Shu:" The same door is called friends, comrades are called friends, friends live together, teach morality, Ming Gaoqi "The second rhyme Zhou Yi Xiucai sent to the moon": "Friends wither the rivers, seas and air, and brothers are separated from the mountains."

    Ming Feng Menglong's "Chronicles of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty" Chapter 72: "(Shen) Bao Xu said: 'If I want to teach my son to repay Chu, it is disloyal; The godson does not report it, and the son is trapped in unfilial piety.

    Zi Mianzhi. Okay. The friendship of friends, I will not leak it to others.

    If the son can cover Chu, I will be able to save Chu; If the son can be in danger, I will be able to be safe.

    The Ming Dynasty scholars were called Confucian students. Ming Anonymous's "Ming Feng Ji Zou Lin Study Tour": "This morning, a Cambodian post came, saying that Zou friends want to visit, and they can't help but wait."

    Xingshi Hengyan Zhang Shuer cleverly got rid of Yang Sheng": "At that time, these friends were so unhappy that they took five or six family members on the road. ”

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can tell your friend directly how much it cost and ask him for money. If you have an invoice or something, you can show it to a friend.

    Originally, it was a friend who did something wrong, and he couldn't make it a matter of being embarrassed to mention the money.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You find an opportunity to ask her to buy it for you, and you give the money at that time, and if she doesn't pay you back the money, this friend will not be bad. You can also wait for her to buy it before giving the money, just say that I'm afraid I forgot to give you the money earlier. In these 2 cases, she doesn't give you money, so she is not a good friend.

    Otherwise, you just wait, maybe she forgot about it, and she will give it to you when she remembers.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is necessary for us to make it clear to such a friend directly, after all, every penny we earn is either our own hard-earned money or our parents' hard-earned money. There is no free money from the wind. As for this kind of person, no matter what his considerations are, whether he forgets or does not want to mention it.

    Tell him directly to clearly mark the price, how much money to spend to give the corresponding evidence to the other party, and let the other party transfer the money to himself. Don't take into account some emotions to know. Talking about money hurts feelings, so talking about feelings hurts money.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm also so annoyed that my friend asked me to help bring things and I didn't mention the money at all after I brought him because I was a good friend and it was hard to say that I was very annoyed I don't know if I was stingy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What about helping others buy things without mentioning money?

    Hello, help others to buy and disturb the west, and you can do this without mentioning money. If you don't mind, you can ask the person directly. There's nothing to be embarrassed about, my brother is settling accounts.

    Secondly, if you have a good relationship with the other party Wang Yin, you are embarrassed to speak, but you don't want to suffer this loss, then I suggest that you either ask the other party to help you bring it next time, and you will not give it to the other party. Or, next time refuse to bring something for the other party.

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