In a hurry, my boyfriend and ex girlfriend texted and broke up with me.

I think you should let go, if your boyfriend really loves you, he will understand you and won't break up with you because you're like this, although I don't know what is between you, but one thing is to know if your boyfriend will care about you, that is, your boyfriend's friend said this about you, and your boyfriend didn't stop his friend from saying this about you? Listen to me! Find a man who loves you more than you love him, so that you will be happy, the boyfriend in front of you now does not belong to you, let it go!

He broke up with you because he thought you were too young, maybe you were too childish on the one hand, maybe his personality didn't like to be complained about, saying that he was not good or bad. Maybe he loves face too much, maybe your words hurt his self-esteem. The two of you need to communicate slowly. Hehe.

Explain and apologize well, if he doesn't forgive you, it can only mean that he doesn't love you, because you didn't do anything unforgivable against the principle, then it's not a pity to break up, because he doesn't deserve your love, but his friend's words are not what he said after all, so don't send this fire to him.

There are some things that cannot be explained clearly the more you explain them.

If he thinks his ex-girlfriend is really better than you, then you just need to do a little better than his ex-girlfriend. If that's just an excuse to break up, it's really dangerous.

Men are very face-saving, don't let him lose face in front of his friends; Say in private that he can, but don't always make a mistake for him, or always embarrass him with something; Be more considerate of his feelings, whether it is work pressure and other issues, and don't always think that he is not good enough.

Take the initiative to explain that you lost your temper that night because you drank alcohol and heard his friend's words, which made you feel very uncomfortable. The tone is soft, aggrieved.

Don't cry, don't make trouble, leave, if you continue like this, you can only hurt yourself.

Leave in style, make him feel that he doesn't even have the qualifications to hurt you.

Tell yourself that you're going to find a better one, and it's good that he's not the only one in the world.

Leave it all to time, and go shopping when you have time.

Everything will pass.

Your boyfriend is too stingy, forget about slapping him twice, divide it.

Just as you told us.

Yes, but it is also necessary to combine the specific situation at the time, and it is also necessary to pay attention to methods and skills when sending messages. Many people may want to save the other party, but they use the wrong method, and in the end, it is self-defeating and misses the opportunity.

If you want to message your ex after a breakup, I suggest you do so:

1.Determine the status of the other party first.

You can't message your ex right away from breaking up, when the other person is emotionally and will only make the wrong judgment about your message. After both parties have calmed down, you can tentatively send a message to the other party to see what the other person's attitude is. If the other party can chat with you calmly, then you can continue, of course, you can't post whatever you want, you still have to have the eyesight.

If the other person is very repulsive to you and doesn't want to talk to you, you don't want to bother anymore.

2.Find the right time to send a message.

Many people blindly send messages to each other when they are redeeming, especially when the other party is particularly busy, and they keep bombarding with information, which may block you in minutes. We should send a message at the right time, so that it is beneficial to recover.

You must know that after a breakup, the emotions of both parties cannot fade instantly, and there will be an emotional transition period. Will be extremely repulsed and bored with your messages, and do not want to be disturbed frequently. Therefore, when you send a message to the other party when you redeem it, you must see the right time, and don't bombard yourself with information as soon as it comes up.

Be sure to wait until both parties have calmed down, and occasionally send each other a few messages when the other person is off work or on weekends.

3.The content of the message should be appropriate, and do not expose the sense of need and put pressure on the other party.

Talk to your friends the way you talk to them. Think back to how you and the other person chatted before the Rise of the Jersey? Isn't it like a friend? Like chatting with friends, firstly, you will not be disgusted by the other party, and secondly, you will not do things that cross the line.

Don't post something that makes the other party disgusted and annoying, such as: I miss you so much, I love you so much, such ambiguous words; Don't send some miserable, show off your wealth, and don't always say sorry to the other party, now say anything about sorry, it is more stressful for the other party, if you really do something wrong, you only need a sincere apology, and repeated apologies many times have no effect.

We must recognize the facts clearly, and do not be anxious, because the more anxious we are, the more we will not be able to redeem the other party. You can talk to each other about some interesting things in daily life and recent events, try to let the other person see your positive side, try to be polite in the chat, keep an appropriate distance, and just like a normal friend.

Of course, it doesn't mean that a good chat will definitely be able to save the other party, and being able to save the other party is actually affected by many factors. While chatting with the other person, you also need to improve yourself so that the other person can see your changes. In this way, the possibility of winning back the other party will be greatly improved!

They miss you: Given that the two of you spend so much time together, it's only natural that your ex misses spending time with you. By messaging you, they keep the lines of communication open. They send.

It's a comfort to be sending you a message right now.

They're lonely: if your ex has been single since the breakup, chances are.

They just feel lonely and just want someone to talk to. Considering the amount of time the two of you texted each other during your relationship, it can be very lonely when your ex no longer communicates with you on a daily basis.

They want to get back together with you: Phil will talk about this in more detail below, but it's very likely that your ex wants to get back together with you, and they're sending you a message to see if it's possible.

They do it out of habit: if you just recently broke up, it may be difficult for your ex to break the habit of texting you often, especially if the relationship ended in a peaceful atmosphere. You have to make a judgment to determine whether your ex is sending the message with good intentions or with ulterior motives.