My ex girlfriend told me she had found a new boyfriend! Everybody help me

Updated on society 2024-05-10
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, I think you have seen it very clearly yourself, and she has always regarded you as a safe haven. But you don't want to accept the fact because you think you've given a lot.

    But sometimes, even if you give a lot, but there will still be no result, love things can't be forced, everyone understands this truth.

    She said that having a new boyfriend may be just an excuse, maybe she also realizes that she shouldn't be entangled with you anymore, she said that a long-distance relationship is the reason for your breakup, maybe, the real reason is that she realizes that you are together, it may really be just an accident, and she accepts you, probably to escape her emotional dispute with her ex-boyfriend, that is, her first love. So she might really be seeing you as a substitute, please don't mind being so direct. It's just my feelings.

    Because I don't know the details between you.

    When a girl is emotionally frustrated, it is easy to want to find someone who can be relied on and trusted, maybe at that time you appeared, your various concerns, thoughtfulness, and humility may be the reason why she is with you. So think about it yourself, is the relationship between you really that kind of feeling?

    However, this is your first love, so even if you just have a crush on her, you will think that there is love between you. It's okay, you have to know how to start and finish just right.

    In fact, I have never been very optimistic about long-distance relationships, so I advise you to stop before you hurt yourself deeper.

    I'm sure you'll find a more suitable one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I understand you, there is a kind of woman, looking for a man is the same as looking for a job, finding a home, and slowly letting go of her home.

    Good men have ambitions in all directions, and women are not the only ones in this world.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone has a first love but there are not many people who end up with their first love, because love needs to be honed, even if you want to break up, you can break up, it's a big deal to be sad for a while, the twisted melon is not sweet, you may meet a better girl in the future, I want to open a point, I don't have a place to stay here!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Intellectually, brother, such an experience helps us grow. Emotionally speaking, brother, I can only bless you and bless you to find true love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, you're mature when you're hurt.

    Women can make men mature.

    How can I help you? Seeing that she doesn't really love you at all, only you, it's wishful thinking and very sincere.

    Therefore, women always blame men for their intentions, in fact, women teach men, and in the end, they have to blame men.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divide it, divide it! There is no need to continue this kind of relationship, in fact, in love, there must always be one party who pays more and hurts more, this is the law, but this part of yours, she may not have paid at all!

    There are also a lot of problems in long-distance relationships, if two people can't even do basic communication, then it's over, I can only say congratulations, because sooner or later it's the end, whether she deserves you or not, whether it's worth your love or not, in short, the end is as it should be, don't pay too much attention to anything about her, say goodbye to the past, and there will be a future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, actually, ......

    It's not that they missed it, but they shouldn't have been together in the first place.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Connected to the same fate, I know how you feel.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a matter of time or later, isn't it? Let's get back to ourselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Alas... Don't be unhappy, it's really late, if it's a few months earlier, maybe there is hope.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ay. They are all fallen people at the end of the world, why should they have known each other when they meet. Dude, bro knows how you feel, hey. I don't want to say more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone has a different personality and has a different upbringing. In the end, his three views are also different. When I learned that my ex-girlfriend had a new boyfriend, every man's feelings were naturally different.

    Some guys feel after learning that their ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend. is as a friend, as a person who has loved before, I will sincerely bless her and hope that she will live a better life. I even bring a congratulatory gift to my ex-girlfriend's wedding.

    This kind of relationship is actually the most harmonious and comfortable. Because of the selflessness and openness in their hearts, both sides have done their best to themselves. Even if you can't be lovers, you can get along well and be good friends.

    There are also boys whose worldview, values, and outlook on life are not so bright. When he learned that his ex-girlfriend had a new boyfriend, his feelings were very distorted and deformed. Some people who go to extremes will even have a strange possessiveness that they can't get and don't let others have.

    For the ex-girlfriend who has a new boyfriend and a new lover, not only do you not bless him, but you can't even do it with an ordinary normal heart, you will be jealous, jealous and even have a revenge mentality, which is very terrible.

    Of course, most of the cases are that they no longer care about the affairs of their ex-girlfriends, and they no longer care, and from then on, the lives of two people are like parallel lines, and they will never intersect again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My ex-girlfriend has found a new boyfriend, how to face her. It's just like a normal friend. It can't be on the street either.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your ex-girlfriend says that she has found a new boyfriend and you should bless her.

    Now your ex-girlfriend says that she has found a new boyfriend, which means that she is treating you as a friend. Lovers are over, and it's a good feeling to be friends. Because after all, two people have had a fate, they have been attracted to each other, and they can treat each other as people they trust.

    So you should bless her, bless her to find a boyfriend, and also wish her a good outcome in this relationship. Because of two good friends, the other party is doing well, and he is also very happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's true,,, she obviously still cares about you, she means you don't love her enough...

    You can take it back if you act quickly.

    And then. ,。Hey.

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