What kind of emotions will last?

There are many necessary conditions for a long-term relationship.

First of all, the two people are of the same level, they are the right people, they have common hobbies and interests, and their life goals are relatively close.

Only in this way can we have a common language and common needs, it is easier and simpler to communicate, and we can live together in harmony.

The second is that after a period of running-in, the two people feel more suitable and are willing to be together.

When two people encounter contradictions and differences, they can compromise and forbear, and they can also understand and support each other. Only in this way can the relationship between two people be long-lasting and stable.

In the end, it is like-minded, happy with each other, and loving each other, and this kind of emotion will last for a long time.

It's not that it's due to external pressure, but the kind of love that comes from the inside out, especially likes each other's personality, or external figure, appearance, temperament, likes to be with each other, appreciate each other, and achieve each other.

Only such feelings can be together for a long time, based on interests or impulsive feelings, most of them are short-lived, and they come and go quickly.

Therefore, if you want to have a long-term emotion, you must choose the right object, follow your inner needs, have a long-term plan, don't just look at the surface of the other party, have a correct understanding of the other party's personality and ability, respect yourself, respect others, and the relationship will last for a long time.

Happy families are all similar, unhappy families have their own misfortunes, and it is the happiest thing for people to find someone they like in their life and accompany them for life.

If couples want their love to last longer, don't be short-sighted and do something that hurts love! But some people have no experience, they are in love for the first time, they don't know how to maintain it, even if they talk about it several times, they still don't know how to maintain their love! In love, in fact, you still need a little trick, so as to make the relationship between two people longer.

When two people are together, it is not enough to have love alone, but also to have a career for each other. Love with a career wants to be protected by a thick barrier! Like those loves without a career, they can't experience too much wind and frost, and when they encounter something at all, people's feelings will erupt into contradictions, and then the two will tear their faces apart until they are tired of each other, and then separate!

Some people are just not satisfied, stupid or accustomed to being ambitious, and always want this and that! Obviously, the person in front of her is very good, but she just doesn't cherish it, and she won't regret it until she loses it! Whether it is a man or a woman, it is so important that you must be content, so a person who is content, and knows that the love in his hands is precious.

Complementary love is also very important, for example, two people in love, the man is more careless, and the other half is delicate, when traveling, the girl always prepares everything, at this time if the man lacks something, ask the woman, she can give it one by one, such a tacit understanding, it is really rare! And if you are both careless, it is very bad.

In fact, couples don't need to be entangled often, the two are tired of being together at night, don't get tired of it during the day, you can do your own thing, go out when you should go out on a date with your girlfriends, start a business when you should start a business, and chat with your brothers when you should chat, there is no need to stick together all the time! Have your own space and do something positive.

Determining the feelings of a relationship too quickly does not mean that it cannot last long, the important thing is how to get along together. If there are any of the following situations, it means that the two of them will not last long, and it actually has nothing to do with the determination of the four weeks.

1) Often quarrel over trivial matters, and no one will let anyone.

Many people say that being a lover means arguing. Living under the same roof, our daily lives are inevitably bumpy. There is no reason not to quarrel.

However, there is still a big difference between loving and unloving. Even if a loving lover quarrels, there will always be one party who is willing to bow his head first. Every time a loveless couple quarrels, both of them would rather die than give in.

Everyone wants to be a winner. Both are aggressive, and neither will throw in the towel.

If the two often quarrel over trivial matters, neither of them will let the other, and the two of them blush and have thick necks every time, then they are not far from separation. Although those loving couples usually quarrel over trivial matters, there will always be one party who will give in. The main reason is that they still want to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, which shows that there is still love in their hearts.

2) No more sharing, no more heart-to-heart talking.

Although each other is the closest person, if two people feel harmonious and intimate, and the other person has something on his mind, he will tell each other first. Whether he is happy or unhappy, the first thing he thinks of is his partner, and the first thing he wants to share is his lover. Sharing and taking responsibility for each other is something that many loving lovers often do.

Therefore, if one party never tells the other party what is on his mind and always hides it from the other party, then in his heart, he has actually lost trust in the other half, and there is already a gap between him and the other half. In this case, if he does not communicate in time, the relationship will not last long.

It is basic for two couples to have a deep relationship, not hide from each other, and be honest with each other. If two people don't even have this basic trust, there is no long-term at all.

3) Likes to belittle the other side.

A good relationship must be one of mutual appreciation. Only if you know how to appreciate your partner and have a good impression of you from the bottom of your heart, will you want to live with you for a long time. If one party always belittles the other party for no reason, and uses all kinds of vitriol words to belittle the other party all day long, then such a relationship will be very difficult, because no one can live in a state of being despised by the other party all the time.

Love should be treated and cherished sincerely, support them when they are in difficulty, encourage them when they fail, be happy together when they are happy, and comfort them when they are sad. Instead of ignoring the existence of TA when you have it, and only after losing it does you know that you regret it. To love someone is to be happy forever, to be a safe haven forever...

True love for someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a non-fading token, etc., all of this is boring and dull in the face of true love... The most important thing to love a person is to respect their own independent time and space, let them devote their energy to the struggle for their ideal cause, and urge them to make full use of the time that belongs to them, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together.

Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love.

Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then the eternal love is by your side, not that you have the eternal love, but that you have created the eternal love.

Mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual support, mutual admiration, mutual appreciation, such a relationship can last for a long time.

The feelings of liking each other, leaving space for each other, and respecting each other are long-lasting.

One night in K City, Xi Rui received five **, each of which was about feelings. At this time, he thought of a question: what makes a person live up to it in a relationship for a long time?

According to Seeray, long-term intimacy depends on a person's emotional stability. Human emotions are complex, and even small changes in hail limbs can be enough to affect a person's behavior. In intimate relationships, the influence of emotions is especially important.

Because emotional instability can make people become emotional, short-lived, and uncontrollable, and in the absence of emotional stability, they will do some later confessional behaviors.

In addition, when two people are immersed in each other's intimacy, the state of emotions is also transmitted to each other, and if the emotionally unstable one is the one, the mood will fluctuate, which will also affect the emotional balance of the other party. Therefore, in a long-lasting intimate relationship, emotional stability is essential for the overall emotional balance.

If you want to have a long-term intimate relationship, you must not only keep your emotions stable, but also learn to deal with emotions during the rise and fall. If you feel mood swings, don't rush to do anything, learn to calm down, or use external forces to stabilize it, such as chatting with friends, exercising, listening, etc. At the same time, we must also learn to respect and tolerate our other half, and truly support and understand each other.

From an intimate perspective, emotional stability is the key to success. If you are emotionally stable, you will be able to face and resolve emotional difficulties with a peaceful attitude. Only by facing problems in this way can we achieve lasting intimacy.

In conclusion, Xi Rui would like to share with you one more point: long-term intimacy is not built on perfection, it is based on mutual appreciation, respect, support and understanding. It is because everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings, and being able to live in harmony with these shortcomings and shortcomings can achieve true long-term happiness and warmth.

1. Will quarrel, but not cold war.

After the sweetness of two people, arguments and quarrels are inevitable, and the most terrible thing between two people is the cold war. During the Cold War, two people ignored each other, girls would be cranky in their hearts, and boys would become more angry the more they thought about it. Gradually, the problem became more and more serious, and the conflict began to intensify, and the two people who were already very angry would question the love of the two people, and even have the idea of breaking up.

2. Two people can understand each other.

Perhaps, this is the case for most people. When a person is in a bad mood, it is inevitable to bring emotions to another person. Couples who know how to understand each other will not worry about each other, but will think more about each other and will try their best to make each other happy.

The shortcomings and shortcomings of two people can also understand each other, and only in this way will there be fewer and fewer contradictions in life.

3. Keep a distance from the opposite sex around you.

To love someone is to love all of her. If someone really loves you, he will keep his distance from the opposite sex around him, and will never have an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex. He will let you look at his phone with confidence and will also tell you the password of the chat tool.

Because he is innocent in his heart, he will have no reservations in front of you, and he will give you enough security to make you feel relieved.

4. Pay attention to the details of each other's love.

Sometimes, a guy may find that his girlfriend is suddenly angry, and he hasn't done anything wrong. In fact, when this happens, it can only be said that the boys are not careful enough with the girls. Girls are sensitive, and if a boy doesn't pay attention to an expression or a behavior, it may make the girl unhappy.

Therefore, pay more attention to the details in love, and the two will go further and further. Hope!

What kind of relationship lasts longer? Why?

1. The relationship that knows how to tolerate will last longer, and it will not alienate him because of the other party's shortcomings.

It is very enviable for couples to have a long-lasting relationship. However, in reality, we often find that there are some couples who stick together every day, only to find that they have broken up after a while. If you want to make the relationship more durable, lovers should know how to tolerate each other, we should be aware that everyone has shortcomings, if we correct each other's shortcomings, and continue to blame, then, I feel that there will be quarrels in life, and after a long time, both people will get bored and break up.

If you are more tolerant, then the other person's advantages will be discovered by yourself, and then you will love each other more and more.

Second, the relationship that has experienced wind and rain can last for a long time, which will make two people cherish their relationship more.

In daily life, we will definitely encounter all kinds of difficulties, if two people face some hardships together and find a way to solve them, then, in the future life, we will definitely cherish this relationship. Even if the other party does something wrong, he will remember his good and choose to forgive him. If we can only enjoy happiness together, but not suffer together, such a relationship will not develop for a long time.

3. The relationship that is obtained after hard pursuit can also be long-lasting, because such a relationship is not easy to come by, and you will know how to maintain this relationship better.

What is too easy to get, but will not be cherished, I believe this is a truth that many people understand, and the same is true of feelings. If you get a relationship very easily, then in the process of dating, two people will not cherish themselves, thinking that the other party loves them, and they don't have to go to great lengths to please him, and he will not leave him. Because with this kind of thought, it will hurt the other person's heart.

If you finally get this love after a lot of hard work to pursue each other, then, in the days to come, you will definitely manage it well, and you will firmly grasp the other party's heart.