I have been married for two years and meet my first love when I find out that I still like her.

Personally, I would like to exercise restraint because now you are a person with a family. Unless you are single again, can you consider whether it is possible to have a first love? Can there be substantial development?

1.Give yourself some time to calm down

Don't make up your mind early at this time, give yourself some time to calm down. Because now that you've been married for two years, your daily life is mostly the same. It may be that sudden encounter with your first love makes you have that throbbing feeling, as if the appearance of your first love has broken the original peace in your life.

It is recommended to take a look after a while, and perhaps your attitude towards your first love has changed.

2.See if you want marriage or first love?

If you calm down for a while, your mood still can't calm down for a long time, it depends on how you choose, whether you choose to continue with your current wife, or do you want to be with your first love, and see which one you tend to be more between the two? If it's the former, you have to keep your feelings for your first love in the bottom of your heart and maintain your existing marriage. If you are more inclined to the latter, you need to make a trade-off, give up this marriage, and then continue to find your first love to see if the two are likely to be together.

3.Do you have the courage to start over?

When it comes to this situation, it's up to you to have the courage to start over. Because at present, if you have been married for two years, it means that your marital status is still very stable. Suppose you are asked to give up a stable marriage in exchange for an uncertain relationship, do you want a stable married life more, or do you want to pursue a new and different love life?

Think about it thoughtfully. If you don't have the courage to start over and don't want to take a huge risk, continue to be married. If you want to find your first love even if you lose everything, it depends on whether your first love has a good impression of you, and you must be prepared to lose everything.

4.Is it unknown whether you will be able to walk with your first love in the end?

You like your first love, and it's unknown how your first love feels to you. Even if you are really willing to divorce and find your first love, you must also consider what is the current relationship status of your first love? Whether you are married, divorced or single, whether you want to be with you or not is another matter.

Moreover, in the bottom of your heart, the first love is still in the initial impression, even if you express your intentions, it is not certain that you can go together? Compared to your existing 2-year marriage, sticking to your marriage is your most rational choice at present.

Overall, I personally recommend that you manage your existing marriage. Unless you particularly like your first love, even if you lose your existing marriage, and want to fight for your first love, then consider the consequences of your choice, and then make a decision, don't be impulsive.

With restraint, many couples may break up peacefully and without bitter resentment. Then the next time you meet, you will indeed have a more or less good feeling, and even have some expectations.

You must control it, this kind of psychology is terrible.

1. If you have a family, you must be responsible for your family and marriage. No matter what happened, now that you are married to someone else, you should be responsible for yourself in addition to being loyal to your choices.

2 The other party may have already had their own life, maybe the other party is not married, maybe the other party is married. But there will be no more "involvement", rather than thinking crankily, it is better to bury it in your heart and laugh it off.

It is normal for a married person to meet his first love when he finds that he still likes it, but after all, you are a married person, you should restrain yourself, you don't have to be together if you like it, you should be responsible for your family and your children when you are married, be responsible for her, and wish her happiness.

Since you have been married for two years and still like each other, in this case, for the sake of the family, you can only bury this love in your heart and wish her happiness.

It's normal to like it, just put it in your heart, and you like your first love more of a "first love complex", if you really marry your first love, you will most likely be disappointed, just like your goddess is extremely holy in your heart, but suddenly one day she farted in front of you, you will feel that the image of the goddess collapsed.

People who are all married, think about it, don't take any action, live a down-to-earth life, think more about your wife's goodness, if you really can't help but take action, it is recommended to give yourself two slaps to sober up first.

In fact, it is "what you can't get is always in turmoil", if you like it, it's good to keep a good one, there's nothing to do, you have to restrain this commotion, maybe your wife is the most suitable person for you, let it pass in the past.

Your situation, maybe most men have, otherwise why have a first love complex, it's not a big deal, you're normal, but we are all adults and have a family, we should be responsible for our own behavior and family, people's growth will always face a lot of problems, emotional problems are just one, have found their own happiness, don't destroy it, in my opinion, staying in my heart is the best choice, I hope she is doing well.

The first love of the year aroused all your emotions, and when you went to find your love after separation, you found that no one was as warm as she brought you. But when you really go to your own career path, life path, and bear all kinds of pressure brought by the family, you will feel that companionship is the only way to make yourself happy, but this disconnected relationship will still be hidden in your heart.

Even if the current wife is not as beautiful and gentle as her first love, she may have many shortcomings, and she may quarrel, but in the end the wife is still willing to accompany you, which is the most worthwhile.

And the first love may have let go of this memory, or buried the feelings in the bottom of your heart like you, but time waits for no one, and she doesn't need to always be stuck in this and can't extricate herself, so she started a new life.

So I sincerely wish her happiness and happiness, it is your only right left.

Spend more time with your current wife, dedicate those feelings that you can't give to your family, and believe that you will become a qualified husband.

This question requires understanding your current specific situation.

1. Liking and loving are two different things. Like it is also divided into unilateral likes or two loves. If it's just that you like her, just take it to heart.

If the two are happy, it depends on whether her current situation is unmarried or married. As long as one of the parties is married, or both parties are married, the crossing of the line will affect both families and needs to be carefully considered.

Second, the current marital status, if the husband and wife have a good relationship, a happy family and children, there is no need to renew the relationship with the real love, if you insist on doing it, it will hurt the wife and children.

3. The person you like is not necessarily suitable for being a spouse, because love is one thing, life is another. It needs to be well thought out.

Specifically, if you find that you still like your first love, you still like her many years ago, not the one you met today or two years ago.

With the passage of time and their different growth experiences, whether it was their first love back then or their current self, there have been fundamental changes and changes. Now your liking can be said to be a kind of emotional sustenance revisited entirely based on past memories and life experiences at that time, and whether you really like it or not is largely unknown. The trajectory of their respective lives and the goals they pursue for the future may be in front of them, and even if they start over, it is a new choice, rather than a continuation of the first love in the past.

At present, you and your first love are strangers to each other in the final analysis, and your liking is of little practical significance, maybe when you really feel each other, the beauty of the past will be shattered in an instant.

Since it is the first love, the best result is to keep the beauty in the bottom of the heart. The present like and the first love of the past must have a clear ability to discern, today is not the past, the past can not go back to the present, preserving this like exists in the heart is a beauty, once entangled by the past, the result may be to hurt real life and destroy good memories. In the final analysis, this is a memory killing and fantasy in the extravagance, the past can never go back, and the first love will always be the first love, if the first love is pulled back to reality, the result is to see the light and die.

So, if you like it, you like it, but don't think of any way, because no matter what you do, it's a blow to yourself, and distinguishing between dreams and reality is the beginning of experiencing happiness.

Buy her a car, buy a house, buy a bag, and then tell her what you want, and see what people say.

You didn't do anything, you just felt like it in your heart, you liked people, you liked your own feelings.

Besides, you've been married for two years, and you can't even coax your own wife, you think you can get rid of a person you hurt before, and after so many years, people haven't come to you, which means that you are actually nothing.

It's not a child, I see a certain toy and like it so much, I want to do it.

2.If your first love doesn't like you, but you like her unilaterally, and you don't want to give up your marriage, then please take responsibility for what you don't want to give up, stay away from your first love (away from people who don't like you), and flirt with your wife more;

3.If you don't want your current marriage anymore and feel that you can't do without your first love, then divorce! Give your wife the opportunity to pursue someone she likes, and you can also pursue your first love again (whether she still likes you or not).

There is so much love day by day, is there no other pursuit in life except love? You and your first love have not been baptized by firewood, rice, oil and salt, and in the past few years of separation, how many women have he told him that there are stars in his eyes, do you know? Even if you become a divorced woman, you won't be able to live with him, and you may not be as good as your current husband.

Maybe people just want to flirt with the woman they have been with, and it's too late for you to divorce and go to someone else with him. Even if he wants you to divorce and raise your children, it is a bit shameless for a man to intervene in someone else's marriage as a third party.

Just keep this feeling in your heart! If you like it, you don't necessarily have to get it, and even if you get it, you can't guarantee that the feeling will still be the same! What you should do now is to cherish the person in front of you, the person you marry is the person you should spend time to love, and she (he) is the person who can be with you for a lifetime!

If she likes you, she will divorce and be together, life is once, don't let yourself regret it.

Then you should hurry up and get your current divorce and your first love married.

I think that since I have been married for two years, although I still like each other, in this case, you can only bury this love in your heart, and you can only face the reality.

Divorce is recommended. Otherwise, you will be uncomfortable, and you will be uncomfortable now.

In addition, since you still like your first love, why do you want to marry now? Is it love or deceive feelings? Either way, I think it's bad.

Before marriage, you can think that love is a matter of two people, and after marriage, you form a family with your wife and children, your parents, your lover's parents, your first love family, and so on. This work is responsible for yourself.,Responsible for others.,It's recommended to hide this love secretly in your heart.。

There is a saying that what you can't get is always the best, two people are not suitable, can you be humble to each other, tolerate each other, make changes for each other, to really live together, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, daily trivialities, the elderly and children, etc. In fact, in the end, we will find that we can be consistent.

1. A married wife who shares weal and woe is the most beautiful and beautiful.

I hope that every male compatriot cherishes the lover in front of you who has always been by your side and never abandoned.

It is normal to be married, meet the first love of the year, and find that you still like it, but you don't have to be together to like it, you must be responsible for the family when you get married, take its responsibilities, and restrain your psychology.

If this person is simply making you feel like your first love, but doesn't have the urge to be together, then go with the flow.

But! If this person once again makes you feel the urge to fall in love, then I think it's better to be brave, after all, it's not easy to meet

First love is a relationship that most people will remember in their lives, because in this relationship, both people have their sincerity and are free from material interference. But perhaps because of this, first love is often fragile. If two people don't agree with each other, they may miss each other.

According to relevant statistics, the probability of the first love eventually going to the marriage hall is very low.

However, I always felt thatThe kind of heartbeat in the face of first love is actually rare。For myself, except for one such heartbeat, I have never met the person who made me feel this way. So if I can meet someone like my first love again after many years, I can't wait to take the initiative.

Then get rid of those willful bad habits back then and have a good relationship.

But these are just some of my thoughts, and it's possible that first love doesn't feel that way for everyone. If your first love didn't bring you such an unforgettable feeling, and you have been hurt enough in this relationship, then I think it's better not to meet such a person again. It would not be good to meet again and then repeat the same mistakes.

In addition, I really think that if two people like each other, they must be very brave. Because the older you get, the more you understandIt's really not easy to meet someone who makes your heart flutter。The relationship in the future may be far more than just heartbeat.

I hope that so people who give their hearts can meet the person who makes them happy.