Books that guide men to maturity, books, books for mature men

Growth comes at a cost.

Anything. Only after experiencing it will I grow up and mature.

Just reading books is the same as going to college now, going to work. It is a truth that I feel that what I have learned is useless.

Since people were born into this world, they will eventually see the world through wind and rain, and the bigger and more mature people are, the deeper they will experience the process of their own growth, and even the more confused they are, which is the trouble of growth. Of course, what kind of things will a person experience when he reaches what age, this is also the basic law of life, no one can escape the arrangement of fate, therefore, people can fight with the sky or the earth, but they can't fight with their own fate, after all, everyone has a basic life trajectory and has their own unique life path.

The first process of growing up was when I was a child and a teenager who did not understand life. All the elders and teachers of their parents taught themselves that "a good child must be honest and not lie." "At that time, I was always naïve to associate lying with bad children, and all the education I received was how to be an honest and good child, and a good person who loved and hated.

Therefore, in this process of growing up, we learned how to recognize what is good and what is bad, and try to learn to be good and not bad according to the teachings of teachers and parents.

The second process of growth is after entering the university and entering the society. At that time, I already have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and then I will find that the social phenomenon I have heard and witnessed is completely different from the education of parents and teachers, and honest people will not only not get the respect of the society but will be ridiculed and teased by others, and will be unbelievably harmed. I also began to try to stop being honest, and began to become philistine and rudderless. At this stage of growth, you will effectively combine your long-term education with the real society, and form your own unique perception of society.

Books that help men mature: The Ordinary World

Everyone is equal and lives in this world. Everyone is born with nothing, and when they die, they don't take anything with them, but some people live well and some people don't have a good life. "Ordinary World" vividly shows us the conflicts between love and labor, frustration and pursuit, joy and pain, life and society.

In fact, there is no road in life that cannot be taken, even if it is difficult and tortuous, persevere, get through, and when you look back, you will find that it is not a big deal. This book has inspired many people, and I believe that as long as you taste it carefully, it will also be helpful to you.

Being exposed to new people and things will increase your self-confidence.

Book: The Weakness of Human Nature.

Secret influence.

The world is different because of you;

In addition: Li Qiang's lecture Brian Tracy's lecture to make more friends, correspondence rather than opposite, empty cup mentality, optimistic attitude, firm belief, step-by-step goals, find out the key points in life and pay attention to them.

Reading books and communicating with people is very fast! Stimulate personal potential 2, Jobs biography, giants.

Growth is mostly based on personal experience.

Growing up by reading books will be slow.

Hello. 1. The ordinary world.

Ordinary Worlds – This is what I personally think is the best book ever written. Because everyone has their own point of view. So I don't want anyone to approve of me.

But I really think that this person can be infectious. It can raise a level of people. Pay more attention to Sun Shaoan's deeds inside.

He tells you men, what should you do? Look at Sun Shaoping inside, he will tell you what is the pursuit and many other realizations. I still yearn for the relationship between Sun Shaoping and Tian Xiaoxia in it.

2. White Deer Plain.

White Deer Plain - Chen Zhongzhong's book, I don't know how many people will read it, but it is indeed a good book without compromise. The patriarch Bai Jiaxuan described in it, look at him, I think many successful people and many millionaires will feel admiration. To be a successful person, to be a person who stands up to the sky, you have to look at him, because not everyone can be like Xiang Yu, like Zhuge Liang...

3. How steel is made.

How Steel is Made" is a description of Paul Kochagin's growth process, which reflects the battle beacon fire, construction scene, and social life style of a specific era, and has a unique cognitive role and educational value. Born into a poor family of railroad workers, Paul was naïve and naughty since childhood, with a strong sense of resistance.

4、heming way

There are countless masters of world literature, but there are few writers who can really be included in the must-read for men, and Hemingway can undoubtedly be counted as one of them. Almost all of his works are for men, for real men.

1. The Shawshank Redemption, a book of four novellas by Stephen King, is an outstanding example of his work. Upon its release, the English version topped the bestseller list of the New York Times, selling 280,000 copies in the United States that year. At present, the book has been translated into 31 languages, and has set a record for three of the four articles included in the book to be adapted into a blockbuster movie.

2. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, women in the eyes of men can never be understood, and men in women's eyes are inscrutable. 3. Those things in the Ming Dynasty, who can PK Yi Zhongtian? Only "Those Things in the Ming Dynasty", the whole process of the rise and fall of China's last Han Dynasty.

In 2006, Sina Blog launched a super popular masterpiece with a monthly hit rate of more than one million. 4. One Hundred Years of Solitude, "One Hundred Years of Solitude" has complex content, many characters, bizarre plots, and novel techniques. In his book, Márquez captures the colorful cultures that are unique to South America.

He depicts the birth, prosperity, decline and demise of the small town of Macondo, showing the surprisingly crazy history of Latin America. * Broad Staring won the 1982 Nobel Prize in Literature for "bringing together incredible miracles and real life in its purest form."

Men's Capital", in today's society, men do not seek to be famous for eternity, but every man should build his own career. What kind of capital should a man who wants to achieve a career have? In the process of chasing, what kind of housekeeping skills should we show?

How should we deal with this complex and pure society? Thinking and Getting Rich, Thinking and Getting Rich is one of the most widely circulated works of Napoleon Hill's life. In the book, he expounds the twelve steps to wealth in Thinking about Preventing Harmony and Harmony, and many of his concepts go beyond the elaboration of the principles of success in his earlier works, but they are also the inheritance and development of his earlier works.

This is. Lover, one of Du Sliolas's masterpieces, autobiographical **, won the 1984 French Goncourt Literary Prize. Set against the backdrop of French colonialist life in Vietnam, the book depicts the deep and hopeless love between a poor French girl and a wealthy Chinese young master. The movie of the same name is also very exciting.

I've heard a saying that men always grow up very quickly after a failed relationship...

I also heard a famous woman say: I have seen many types of men, and I think the biggest characteristic of a man is that he is simple, even if he is many years old, he is like an old boy. If a man always makes you feel that he is mature, it is because you have not yet entered his heart.

This woman is Teacher Cang...

After so much, I just want to say that I don't know what the concept of your so-called mature man is, maybe it's to be more sophisticated and tactful? Or is it more skillful in love and better at coaxing girls to be happy? Or do the women around you keep feeling that you are not mature and stable enough and think that you are too naïve, so you want to change?

Then I can only say sorry, because my sister often says this about me, do you believe that I am younger than you? As a man, the most important thing is to have self-confidence, to have the kind of domineering that dares to be yourself even if others say it. As the saying goes, career is the best cosmetics for men, if you have a successful career, then who will question that you are not mature enough to give girls a sense of security?

If you really want to read books, I think you can read some books on how to communicate with people, and some books on thick black studies and so on. The main thing is to be confident, which is why I may be younger than you, but I can still instill in you my outlook on life and values. Everyone's understanding of maturity is different, and being older does not necessarily mean being mature.

Even if you are so simple, naïve and stubborn all your life, I just want to love you so much for the rest of my life, what woman would refuse such a man?

There's a book called "The Book of Virtues" that I think I can check out.