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In fact, all of this is caused by your own problems.
Character determines destiny.
Your personality is responsible for all this strange thing.
You are a person who is easy to trust others, so you are also easy to be deceived.
You are very naïve and child-tempered, so it is not easy for others to get to know you very well.
You can't recognize people clearly, and your ability to judge and analyze things is not strong, so you will continue to be friends with some people who obviously seem to have some problems, which leads to being used by others in the end.
The sister you first recognized, said it was a sister, but in fact, she was still a netizen, and netizens did not know each other, and it was best not to have economic contacts between netizens, and the relationship with entanglement of interests was easy to deteriorate.
You send money to someone every month, which in itself is very problematic.
The sister recognized on the Internet is not a sister who is related by blood in life, there is still a difference between the Internet and reality, and the heart of defense is indispensable, and you are completely unguarded against others, which is the reason why you are deceived.
There is a cause and there is an effect, and it is because of your own reasons that all this is caused.
The second sister doesn't look bad, at least she didn't lie to you.
At first, your relationship was quite good, quite normal, but in the end, it turned out that you were very clingy because of your narrative.
Good fences make good neighbors. If you want to be a long-term friend, you should be like calm water, standing the test of time.
A close friend should trust and understand each other.
Entangled every day, it will soon be tiresome, breathless, and avoidable.
The third sister is purely taking you for a fool, cheating you out of money, cheating you of things, but this is also your own willingness, who can blame it?
It's like Jiang Taigong fishing, the one who is willing to take the bait, you can choose to refuse at that time, but you prefer to discriminate, listen to her instigation, ask your family for money to go out with her, all this can only be blamed on yourself.
You are still young, it is nothing to suffer a loss, it is a good thing to eat a trench and grow wise, but you are afraid of suffering a loss, and you have not learned a lesson, so some people will suffer a loss for the rest of their lives.
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Be cautious when making friends, there are all kinds of birds when the forest is big. Whether it's a friend or a confidant, you have to avoid talking about money, it's easy to hurt friendship, none of your three sisters can be worthy of deep friendship, just as you paid some tuition and learned how to interact with each other
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I don't think anyone is the worst, I just think it's a bunch of weirdos.
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Whoever is a good person, no one recognizes my sister to play.
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Why do you want to recognize your sister like this?! Keep an eye on everything.
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All three are not good birds.
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Now they have grown up, become their own families, and live separately.
In the 90s, this policy was still very tight, many families had only one child, and many couples were very envious of Zen Hui Xunmu who had two in the family.
Rui Rui and Feng Feng are twins, they were born in a pregnancy and childbirth, and after discussion, Mom and Dad thought that the girl could take care of the boy, so the girl Rui Rui became the elder sister, and the boy Feng Feng became the younger brother. This artificially created "sibling" relationship was not fair from the start.
At home, the younger brother can get preferential treatment for everything, and the elder sister must be humble to him and take care of him, and the younger brother must play whatever the younger sister wants to play with her, otherwise she is not sensible. Fengfeng wanted to play chess, Rui Rui patiently played with him, Fengfeng did not play chess according to the rules, and his sister repeatedly tolerated it, but Fengfeng repeatedly played tricks, and in a fit of anger, his sister stopped playing.
As if he was a united front with his mother, the younger brother slapped his sister and asked her sister not to talk about her mother, but her mother blurted out "annoyed to death", but Dad's reaction was to ask Rui Rui to apologize to her mother, the reason was "Dad finally came back for a second meal, and you got it, and if you change it in the future, you will be a good boy." ”
Rui Rui, who was unable to realize what she wanted in her heart, finally cried and apologized to her mother, and her mother also hugged her perfunctorily. Her parents thought she knew she was wrong, but they ignored that her sister also had a need to be recognized and respected, and her sister, who grew up under such persecution, naturally found it difficult to have deep feelings for her younger brother.
Significance of this documentary:
Although the documentary "Sister" is not long, it still makes people watch it very heartbreakingly, "The big one should let the small one" seems to have become a conventional norm in most Chinese family relationships, and how many girls have been kidnapped by "family affection". After watching this documentary, I can finally understand Enron's choice in "My Sister".
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The movie "My Sister" was liked by many people, and it also made many people shed their own tears. In this film and television work, what you may see is only family affection, but what we don't see is that there are many girls who really give their all for a family. In your own family, your parents will always say that you are an older sister and must let your younger brother go, or that your older brother must help if he wants to get married.
Why do girls have to be prejudiced? And from birth to marriage, it seems that a girl still has to follow her parents, and she also has to follow her younger brother or elder brother in the family. In the movie "My Sister", the aunt herself can go to Russia to do business, and if the aunt goes to Russia to do business, her current life will definitely not be like this.
But on the way to Russia, because my aunt's sister-in-law, who is the heroine's mother, gave birth to a child. So the aunt was called back to take care of the child, and the aunt ruined her life because of this, which is also a point that makes everyone very angry.
Is patriarchal thinking really correct? We can see that there are a lot of girls who really give a lot for their families. But in the eyes of many parents, everyone's approach itself is what it should be.
There is no such thing as a deserved, if we are willing to help, it is a manifestation of family affection. But if we're not willing to help, that's normal, and everybody is very selfish.
I don't think we should give up our lives for the sake of each other, and when our brother or brother marries a daughter-in-law, we can live our own lives. There is no need for us to give up our future for each other's sake. Everyone has a life they want to live, so why do we have to revolve around the people around us?
Parents should not be too selfish, and patriarchal thinking should be abandoned. Children are their own flesh and blood, and there is no need to behave in favor of sons.
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Because this ** is easy to make people have a sense of substitution, whether it is in ancient times or now, there is a phenomenon of patriarchy, especially the sentence that the younger brother is right, the younger brother only has the sister, this is not a kind of moral kidnapping, I just watched a clip, and I felt that my heart was blocked by a stone, and I felt that I would not chase this **.
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Because many people feel that it is not necessary for the elder sister to bear the life of the younger brother in the future, which is unfair to the elder sister.
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Because this drama is too patriarchal, many of the plots in it are too excessive.
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Respecting the old and loving the young is our traditional virtue, and there is nothing wrong with letting our younger brothers and sisters do nothing。However, this kind of good reasoning is for reasonable people, and if both parties can't think about each other, and just pick out the words that the older should give way to the younger, it is very wrong. As the saying goes, the eldest daughter is like a mother, and I don't see that he respects you very much.
As for the idea of patriarchy, it really lasts for thousands of years, and it is very difficult to eradicate it completely, what an individual can do is to let himself not have this kind of thought, and then pass on his own thoughts to his family. Don't have the baggage of thoughts, the more grievances you suffer when you are young, the more thoroughly you understand this kind of thing, you will be a good mother Oh yes, about what you said about the education of children in the future, I think it is wrong. The truth itself is not or buried wrong, you feel wronged now, it's not that the reason is wrong, it's that your parents are not good enough.
If the younger brother robs the elder sister of something, and the older sister lets the younger brother, you should praise the elder sister and then educate and criticize the younger brother. Let siblings know what is right and wrong. I feel through what you said, you may be a little impatient and love to drill the horns, this is not scolding, I have to make it clear!!
This may have something to do with the injustices you suffered in your family as a child. The little problem is not enough to worry about, but there will be more worries on weekdays, you have to learn to regulate your emotions and your brother, this kind of stinky brother who can't be called by my sister cares about him, I'm afraid you have nothing to do with Voldemort.
If you're an adult in your twenties, don't treat him as a cub, you're not a, and you're not obliged to be wronged for him. But after all, they are relatives, and if they can repent, they will give them a chance to have a deep relationship between sisters and brothers. If you are still a little emperor, you will send him a red envelope and let him take a taxi as far as he can.
Finally, I would like to say that the truth that can be passed down for thousands of years has a reason for its existence. It is always the one who does the wrong thing that distorts its value. Road.
It is enough that the dead are alive, and it is enough to have a clear conscience with good thoughts.
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Are you a good sister We haven't been with you and haven't seen your life, so we don't know either, I think you are.
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Only you know this.
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The heroine's sister of the Korean drama "School 2015" appeared in the tenth episode and is still alive.
Lee Eun-fei (played by Kim So-hyun), who has been isolated by others, but subverted one morning to become the man of the year at Sejiang High School, a famous high school in Jiangnan, and a rising star with eight-pack abs and a bodybuilder, a swimming genius surrounded by the spotlights of ** and the public, Han Yi'an (played by Nam Joo-hyuk), who is recognized as a school grass in Sejiang High School who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and Kong Tae-gwang (played by Lu Sung-hyuk), a time bomb, a troublemaker, and a fourth-dimensional teenager from Segang High School, what kind of sparks will collide between them.
A pair of twins, separated by the adoption of her sister Gao Enxing, her sister Li Enfei stayed in the Yucha Kindergarten to grow up with other children and developed a cheerful personality even if she was bullied.
After being adopted, Eun Sung was raised by her adoptive mother and became the perfect girl who won the first place from junior high school to high school, but an accident caused a wound in her heart. When Eun Sung decides to find his sister Enfi on the way to graduation, an accident makes the fate of the two have a different beginning.
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The play begins with the heroine having no memory of herself after failing Li Hengji, and tells a series of youth campus stories that take place in an aristocratic private high school in Gangnam-gu, Seoul, and is a campus drama that increases the suspenseful reasoning component.
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