Does he love her, or does he love me, or is he hurt and dead?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I've been watching it for a long time

    Hehe: I think there's something wrong with that man.

    Hesitant to do things.

    It's because he doesn't know what the root of the matter is.

    In fact, everyone is responsible for many things.

    But first and foremost, you have to take responsibility for yourself.

    Actually, he is not rational at all.

    He just didn't want his previous efforts to go unfruited.

    Completely living in the "shadows" of the past.

    There is a saying that "if you can't give up your child, you can't find a wolf".

    If you don't "give", how can there be "gain".

    He doesn't know that cherishing you is his own loss.

    In addition, it is better to stay away from this kind of complicated feelings.

    You are the same, you have to give up.

    Be worthy of yourself.

    You should look for a home that is completely your own.

    Don't be impulsive.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    While you are not carried away by sudden love, leave quickly I think that once you fall into it, you will definitely make yourself hurt Even if he loves you Even if you give everything to him with all your heart Love him with all your heart But his years of relationship with her will not be erased If he is a responsible man, he should not leave her He can leave her One day he will leave you Can you understand A good man will value responsibility more than feelings He is indifferent to you It means that you have a good vision He is a good man Men's rationality will be a little stronger, women's rationality will always lose to feelings, in fact, it's not a big deal Let him go a little more chic Send your generous and sincere blessings I think he will remember you well for the rest of his life You may really have no fate in this life Always express your feelings at the wrong time It's painful, isn't it Imagine Even if you come together firmly Do you have a good time Don't you worry about them breaking the thread Are you willing for him to care about the woman he loves deeply What about him What if he regrets it Or always blame yourself You won't be better Let him go That's not your happy destination No matter how they live It's good if you bless you What you have to do is forget about him and start a new life with confidence Maybe your happiness is not far away I bless you too! Be strong, okay.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's dizzy to watch, life is only a hundred years, is it necessary to make it so complicated and painful?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think that the man is not much, one thinks about the other, hey, why bother, suffer yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I had the same experience, remember.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I want to open it a little!

    Since he hurts you, it means that he doesn't understand you and doesn't care about you, and he doesn't deserve your love. It's a stupid thing to be sad about someone who doesn't deserve your love!

    You have to be kind to yourself, take your mind off him, go shopping, travel with friends, etc. (but don't overeat, you will gain weight). To discover other good things in life, you must understand that there are many, many things that are important to you in this world, and they are just a small and insignificant stone on your long road in life. Without him, your life is just as wonderful!

    Women can also be very strong, you must prove it to him and don't let him look down on you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Is it worth it for you to hurt you so much?

    Love is a matter of two people, I think you must know that what you pay so hard in exchange for is only his disdain, and you don't even feel that your contribution is meaningful.

    Since he doesn't know how to appreciate you, you don't have to die for him, giving your love to someone who doesn't love you is the stupidest and stupidest thing.

    What can you do if you die, it is tantamount to happiness in the future, and you have abandoned the happiness in the future, and then he may have some sadness about your sudden disappearance, but even if he repents, you can't gently lean on his shoulder to listen to his comfort, and tell your pain in his arms, right?

    Live bravely and wait for the next prince of your vitality!

    I hope you will become a happy and sunny self as soon as possible, hehe@!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I have really giving, I will suffer. Because I love to the extreme, I will be hurt to the extreme.

    Love is not a business in the first place, and the giving and receiving are inherently disproportionate. Being hurt by someone who doesn't love you is a tragedy in itself, and if you have to die for someone who doesn't love you, then the loss you pay is even greater. As for when you will be able to come out of your pain, it depends on how deeply you love.

    Some use it for only a few months, while others take a lifetime. If you want to come out quickly, set more goals for your life and don't keep drowning in emotional grief. Focus your energy on your future, not your present.

    Enrich yourself and keep yourself busy. Love is not everything in life, it is only a small part, and if you continue to dwell in pain, you will only let yourself lose more and more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After reading your topic, I was moved, but I felt that you were stupid, and then I thought about why that man was not me, I grieved for you, I felt worthless for you, and I also dared to be worthless, why did I pay a lot for each other at the same time as you, but I didn't get happiness in return, once upon a time, I didn't think about cutting myself off, but I now dismiss this idea, because I have brains, I will create, yes, it is knowledge that has changed me, and I have changed my decision, when I struggle, to learn, to create To discover, I deeply understand that the world is still beautiful, and there is love, see Sichuan, Gansu, Qinghai, Yushu How many people pay for love but lose, and they do not fall down, but stand up again, if you need to confide, need enlightenment, welcome to contact 309323567

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I really understand how you feel.

    Because I've been through this before.

    Willing to give everything for her.

    But in the end...

    Every time I think about it, I feel terrible.

    I literally cried every night back then.

    I wanted to die at the time.

    I cried for more than 3 months and more than 100 days.

    Later, every time I think about it, I want to touch my heart at that time.

    It's a feeling that others really won't understand.

    But now that it's gone, I don't think it's really much.

    I thought I was so stupid and ridiculous at that time.

    Now I have met her better and better.

    Let me know how to love her and cherish her.

    I'm actually thankful for that experience.

    It made me mature and understood a lot.

    It's inevitable to be sad now.

    But I want you to be strong.

    It's past that everything doesn't matter.

    You don't care about this person at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I've hurt a lot of people, and I've been hurt by people.

    If a person's happiness is given by others, it is either a tragedy or an annoyance to oneself, and one cannot marry oneself.

    And it's not necessarily a writer who depicts happiness in a happy screenwriter.

    Do they understand happiness?

    Do we who know happiness from them understand happiness?

    The result is that we don't understand what happiness is.

    Don't feel like you won't be happy if you lose something.

    Happiness is a gift from God, what we have to do is to live well, live until the day of the gift, don't be like this, you can hi me, I will give you my QQ, I want to accompany you through this setback.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I want to tell you that there is only one man who will hurt you.

    How can you say that all men in the world are bad.

    Like I was dumped by a woman today.

    I'm not the same either.

    Am I saying that women are bad?

    You should be strong, girls don't give all to men because they should be.

    Because then you won't be attractive.

    So naturally it is necessary to divide.

    So it's better to keep some of it.

    I'm giving you advice from a man's point of view.

    Because I knew this, I never asked my girlfriend to give me anything.

    It's about pulling hands. Hug. A kiss is enough.

    So I tell you to be strong.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If he leaves you, he just doesn't understand you, it doesn't mean that no one understands you, and when love fails, pay more attention to your friendship and you will get other unexpected things. I have also fallen out of love, I also feel that I have given a lot, when those promises disappeared, I also thought about death, but then I found out that it is not worth it, I have other beautiful things, it is not only that he likes me, whether it is the same sex or the opposite sex, I have many things that I have not discovered, in fact, love is just a pastime, and it cannot be regarded as everything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Wen Lan has a song called The Price of Love, and one of the lyrics sings, "There must be someone in this world who is waiting for me." Do you understand the truth? He's not the one in this world waiting for you, so the pain isn't worth it, let alone suicide.

    I can understand your mood now, everyone has a scar in their heart, he is this scar in your heart, it will hurt now, I understand, but, remember, time will change all this, maybe after a while, when you look back and think about it, you will find that all this is so unworthwhile, so ridiculous. Men are like this, when a man and a woman completely break up, the man will delete the woman from the bottom of his heart, but the woman is always entangled and entangled! Think of it this way, the person in front of you is the right person!

    This person who doesn't know how to cherish it, let him become a memory. You think that one day he will regret it and will beg you to reconcile with him. I wish you a speedy opening!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello landlord.

    You have to believe that the world is still beautiful.

    Time is a master healer.

    He will help you.

    You are strong to live.

    Don't let those who betray you see the jokes.

    Remember, people often give up a tree for a forest.

    Maybe you're not a good fit to be together at all.

    Your life is not simply for Him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Oh landlord, your love is not decided by yourself, everything about you is arranged by God! You have to trust God's arrangement. You can't die for love, and the result of your dead heart will be retributed. The landlord, I want to open a point.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Gorky said that time can ** everything including those called love and compassion. Hopefully you'll be able to get back up and you've lost one.

    Someone you love He lost someone who loved him. Do you want to think about your loss or his's loss in the end?

    So let it go, even if it becomes a familiar stranger ...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Forget him? Hehe! It's not something you can do what others say!!

    Forgetting is to look at yourself, the most important thing is to look at this matter from the point of view, don't always think about him, and after a long time, you will naturally be indifferent to this matter. If you are always haunted by it now, then you will never forget him. As long as you don't care, everything doesn't matter.

    If he can see it so open, why can't you? Be strong!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I have a few conjectures:

    1. You should be very young.

    2. You are in love for the first time, or you have little experience in love.

    3. Your relationship is not long.

    4. You already have the answer in your heart.

    I don't know if I'm right? If it's not right, don't bother with it, if it's right, you can read on.

    1. You are very young, and there are still many unknowns and fantasies in your world, don't stop for a thing that has left and send you a police station "The first answer you get is not necessarily the correct answer"; In the same way, the first person you meet is not necessarily your real person.

    2. You don't have any experience in love, so you must not know that relative to love, not giving up is the real treasure. You still have a long life, why should you give up looking for true love in the future for the sake of a worthless love?

    3. Your relationship is not long, so you have not yet warmed up to complete love or affection, you will feel pity and sadness, but you can't choose to compromise. Sadness is something everyone should do, but compromise is not. If you can be 80 years old, how many years will this relationship take ...... you?Now that you think about it, are you looking forward to the future more?

    4. In fact, in the end, you already have the answer in your heart, you are very hesitant, you are very embarrassed, you don't know what to do, so you make a voice to ask. But now, at least for this moment, you can ignore any of the words I said above, you ask yourself, is it worth it, and if you get any answer, go for it......

    Do you need help and reference from others in your life? Only your own choices and intuition are your own true life. Our emotional experience does not represent your emotional experience, maybe your feelings will be more colorful ......

    I wish you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is useless for the dead-hearted to redeem it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's best to find an emotional analyst to redeem yourself, and you'll know the way to redeem it in a minute.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Love lies in the heart, since you are dead, what is the need to cling to.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    In fact, the most precious and important things in the world, that is, one's own family affection, one's own feelings and heart, one's own life and health, one's own happiness and joy, one's own life and career, one's own personality and dignity, it can also be said that the five kinds of people that should be cherished, namely parents, siblings, friends, lovers, and oneself, these are the most precious things and the most cherished things in their own lives, which cannot be lost.

    Because only one's own family affection is eternal love, it is a love that cannot be let go, it is a love that blood is thicker than water, and only family affection is eternal love.

    In the world, only one's own feelings are one's own things, nothing can be lowered, and only oneself is the most real.

    In the first judgment of a person, life is precious, health is the capital, as long as you cherish yourself and cherish life, it is the most precious.

    As long as we face life with an optimistic attitude, happiness will be everywhere, happiness is a feeling, happiness is a wisp of floral fragrance, when the flower blooms in the depths of the soul, as long as the breeze blows gently, the chaos can exude a leisurely, intoxicating fragrance.

    Life and career is the ideal we pursue and the goal of struggle, one thing, if you figure it out, it is heaven, if you can't figure it out, it is hell, since you live, you must live well. If you know how to live, if you can enjoy yourself in a world where colors, sounds, lights, scents, and beautiful scenery are always available, life will become an endless journey of fun.

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

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