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You have to know that loneliness is not one-sided, a person is not lonely, because you are in a group can have this feeling, so according to your transfer description, you must take the initiative to communicate with people, talk to people, give people a feeling that you like to make friends, like to communicate with people, because people already have friends, more than you are not much, you are not small, but you don't, so you have to fight for it! The specific approach is that you can usually see your classmates must take the initiative to say hello, when you don't understand the question, ask your classmates directly, in short, to create opportunities for yourself to communicate with your classmates, and don't forget to laugh more, laugh more, people will think that you are more popular, not lonely, then people will be easy to accept you! No worries!

Got it? Happiness is something you have to strive for!

As you get older, it becomes harder and harder to make close friends.

Because when I grow up and have my own thoughts, I will no longer be as naïve and simple as when I was a child.

Personally, I don't think you should deliberately expect anything.

Everything has to go with the flow.

Including making new friends.

When you feel lonely and lonely, you can go online, chat, go out for a walk in good weather, and don't lock yourself in the dormitory.

Although the roommates who live with you are older than you, it doesn't matter, they are all girls, and you can casually chat about gossip news and fashion, because after all, most of the common topics of girls are beauty!

Suggestion) You can find a day when she is there, and say to her, your clothes are beautiful, I like it very much. It's trending this year! I think there will be a follow-up.

People who have a certain amount of life experience feel that paper stationery has a unique charm when you reach a certain age and go to the society.

After a few years, you will realize that the so-called troubles and depressions, loneliness, and unrequited polyamory love in your student days are not worth mentioning for the troubles you encounter now.

Once you are born and twice mature, you will have new friends if you socialize more.

Don't you use QQ or online chat tools to greet you to write a letter so old-fashioned.

How did you like him. If you like it, tell him.

The new environment is lonely. Call or message her when you have time. Slowly you will find that she is not as lonely as she is now, (because she is already familiar with her).

YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY SO MUCH ... I hope she has a new one and won't forget the old one! I hope your friendship lasts forever!!

Well, it's simple. Is it to write to him? First of all, you have to ask him how he is doing.

After that, you're writing about how to relax and not be distressed. Then tell him that you can make some good friends there. If it's not suitable, don't force yourself to teach.

You can also get used to the environment there slowly. Again, I hope you can be happy, put your pen on hold, and then write the words of blessing.

Life is always about knowing and being known, forgetting and being forgotten.

In fact, many times we can live well alone.

I'm a bit similar to you.

The people in my dorm are from all over the country.

Personalities are very different.

But no one says we have to be friends with people we know, and I'm going to be in my junior year soon.

Since I was a child, almost all my own things have been faced, endured, and solved by me alone, and I don't think there is anything wrong with this.

Maybe it sounds a bit autistic or something.

But I don't think so.

I don't feel selfish either.

Just pretty sure of yourself.

I am very steady.

Hehe, don't care too much about the people or things around you, and let them become your burden, face it easily.

Believe that everything will be okay with you o(o

I'm the same way, they don't take you with them for any bonus activities, they can play with you, but they ignore you in their studies.

Make a few sincere friends, don't just eat and sing friends, have the right personality.

I have the same problem as you, classmate, I guess you are about to graduate. I'm so confused right now, I feel like I can't find the friends I want in college, and instead people will laugh at you and snub you, and I feel like I'm being ignored. I hate those people.

Sometimes, if you don't have something to talk to, then you can find something to do on your own, you can participate in club activities or something, you can meet more friends, so you can try to tell your troubles, it will be fine, these phenomena are very normal, after all, college is also a small society, we have to learn to grow up on our own.

My college life was also bleak.

I slowly got through it.

Looking back on the past, I admire myself very much.

I can understand your feelings, I can understand your situation, but I can only give some advice.

Help each other, help your classmates more, they will appreciate you, you should be more introverted, socialize with some people with similar personalities, will be more speculative, there are also small groups in the dormitory, a few people in a nest, if you really can't fit in, try to contact with other classes and dormitory classmates in the same school, maybe you will make some friends.

Sometimes it's really hard to get out of it, and it's been lonely for a few years.

I just haven't met like-minded people, I have felt very lonely in four years of college, chaotic all day long, especially in the student union is more lonely, it is very dark, you have to learn to adapt to it, learn to do things, and when you get to the society, it will be more complicated, you have to put a good attitude, what kind of people to say what kind of words, things in the dormitory I believe will let you experience some truth, this is to be a person, at home can not be experienced, you are a student or to have to focus on learning, enrich yourself, Ignore these things.

There will be people who are like-minded with you, and as long as you treat others sincerely, they will definitely treat you like that.

This is the reality of today's society, you have to learn to be strong, accept all this, and hope is ahead.

Generally, the university has a place to play, just walk around if you have nothing to do, and friends will come to you

Find a boyfriend.

Is it so? Add me! Let's talk.

Don't care too much, just be yourself, it's no big deal, they are them, they are themselves, and if it's simple, you'll be happy. Whatever kind of people you want to be friends with, just get in touch with them and you'll get better.

You've only been here for a while, and after a while, people are familiar with it, and they won't be lonely, and they think it's fun.

I'm the same way, I've just started college now, I don't feel as close as I was in high school, maybe you used to have a lot of people to play with, but now there are fewer people, you will feel lonely, and I'm the same.

As we get older, we all get older.

Universities are like that, miniature versions of society.

That's how college is, it's okay, slowly adapt.

What to do, what to do, ignore them.

Is it high school or junior high school now? I didn't live on campus from elementary school to junior high school, but then I had to live in high school. At that time, I was not used to life, I was not comfortable (my parents used to wash my clothes, and I had to come to high school by myself.

Alas, I couldn't even wash a short sleeve at the time... I don't adapt to learning (the difference between high school and junior high school is not one or two, and there is a lot of homework). Because of these two reasons, I am often in a bad mood and have a bad relationship with my classmates.

Sometimes in the dormitory, I would hide under the covers and cry secretly. At that time, I really wished that my parents could be by my side. There is a saying:

If you don't experience drought, how can you know the preciousness of nectar? Only now do I realize how useful the training was at that time! High school life taught me to be independent, to follow my own path, and not to always rely on my parents.

You know, if you're in high school now, you're going to go to college later. If you can't live independently at the same level as high school, it will be a disaster for you after college. Come on, believe you for a semester (it just took me a semester to fully adapt.)

Even shorter to get used to!

Let's get in touch with a friend in the dormitory first, this is in a hurry.

Don't think about it so much, this is just the beginning. Be good at expressing yourself. Find friends who match your interests and hobbies.

Even if it's a game to play.

The introverts who have just transferred to the new class need to get along for a while.

Extroverts blend in quickly, and it's not your fault at all. Personality dictates.

Me too, it took me almost two years to get in with them, but you don't have to be deliberate about your personality, you participate in more activities, competitions, or whatever, and do more things with everybody.

Borrow more erasers, communicate more with the people around you, don't have too many worries, I was super heartless when I was a student, and I had a very happy life.

If you are strong, you will naturally attract others. There's no need to deliberately make friends, because such friends may do more harm than good. Loneliness is strong.

The efficiency of studying all day long is not high, often go out to relax and relax, you can ask someone to come out to play with you among the people near QQ, and learning is a very lonely thing, you must learn to endure loneliness.

It depends on what kind of friends you want to make!

It's really hard to find a soulmate in college, so don't be too extravagant and don't worry about it. Let everything be natural, and the appearance of bosom friends is also about fate and timing.

But it's better to make some friends, in general, and when you get to society, you will find that you can't find even this kind of friend who is not a confidant, but is quite sincere.

Learn to get along with yourself, get along with yourself, and be naturally good with others.

In fact, everyone has such a situation, you have to accept them from the heart, look less at their shortcomings, tolerate them, and know how to share things. When you are lonely, you can go to the library to read and study, and listen to **. If you put your heart into it, it will definitely be rewarded.

Have faith in yourself. Memories of college are precious.

You don't have to change yourself, just be your true self and help others more, you may have more friends, because I always believe that as long as you do your best and continue to help others, you can get good friends who are really good to you.

This is very helpless.,It's still easiest to communicate in the dormitory.,Try to communicate with your roommates.,Hearing you say this, you haven't done anything harmful, and there should be no reason not to accept you.。 The current university is a scum, the teacher can't see anyone after class, and there is basically no opportunity for everyone to do it together in their studies**, at most homework will not be done, ask questions or something, this is also an important and meaningful exchange, but there is no one in the current university. Putting too much effort into relationships is a waste of the university.

Overcome shyness, get out of your own world, into other people's worlds, communicate well with others, and let others feel your sincerity.

That's it when I was a student? What about out of society? Let go of yourself and let yourself know more. Learn to fit in with them. Or learn to fit into the world you want to be part of.

Hehe, when you really go out into society, you will feel that the friendship in the university is still simple.

Find a partner and you'll be able to solve it!!

Participate in more activities and talk more.

If you say you don't have friends in college, you don't have friends in society.

Have you ever felt empty? Even if you are at the right time, you may not meet the right friend, you are born alone. We learn to be tolerant and sincere, to have the courage to bear and tolerate when the friendship you believe betrays you one day; Friends are in trouble, don't shirk and find reasons, help if you can, you say money, I don't think it matters to me.

Because if 10 million can bring a critically ill friend back to life, then throw away the money in exchange for the friend's health. It's like to his wife, except that he is another kind of "love" - friendship!