Friends who make me depressed, how to comfort friends who are depressed

Maybe you don't really know him

Maybe he's just that kind of person

People are divided into many weights.

People are also the most difficult to control

None of us can control others

If he really wasn't that good

Then draw a line with him at the right time

It's not that I'm talking about cool words

But sometimes people are like that

Even if you talk to him or what、

It also to no avail

I couldn't figure out what he was thinking

The decision to recommend to you is to give up your friendship with him

Be a bland friend!

Do you understand what it means to be a friend? I really appreciate his quality. If you don't figure it out, it just shows that you haven't melted into it yet:

In fact, he already has a good character that most people don't have, and you should learn more to appreciate and be happy, because you have become his good friend.

I don't know how you understand it! Someone I know well! There's nothing in between, except for women, you can do whatever you want.

The better the friend, the more casual it is, what else do you want to pay attention to, it's too polite, and it's awkward; Ordinary friends don't know him yet, so they will have a good face.

That's what everybody looks like. It's more casual in front of acquaintances. Only those who are not familiar with it will be polite and love face.

Everyone has their own way of doing things, maybe he thinks it's good, maybe it's too familiar to be unsophisticated.

Talking about something that you are depressed about, in contrast, there is nothing to be depressed about. Or, do something special together and stay with them.

Sometimes for a period of time, you need to face the ridicule and sarcasm of others, it's just a small setback, it's not a big deal, you don't want to be ridiculed, you have to work hard.

Make yourself happy, so you can work well.

Let's hang out with her.

If you can talk to someone at any time, who wants to be silent alone;

If you can be free and ** exposed, who wants to cry secretly alone.

If you can make a close friend, who has to carry it alone with a heart;

If you can have a feeling of trust, who has to bear the pressure with a heart.

We are all afraid that what we say will be seen as a joke;

We are also afraid of being seen as a coward.

If someone can understand what is in their hearts, they are not willing to keep the secret closed;

If someone can see through it, they don't want to carry it on their shoulders.

After walking for so long, there are a few people who are worthy of entrusting their hearts;

After going through many things, there are a few feelings worth cherishing.

Instead of having more hearts, it is better to have fewer roots;

Instead of living richly, it is better to live with peace of mind;

Rather than seeing through and seeing clearly, it is better to be light and light.

I'd rather be lonely than settle because I haven't met the right person;

I'd rather be lonely than ask for it, because I don't have a heart that can read.

We're all looking for someone to talk to the heart:

Be able to take out the most sincere heart and be honest with each other;

Being able to say some of the most sincere words warms each other's hearts.

We're all looking for someone to talk to the heart:

When sadness is shared, it is not a kind of wordless warmth;

When you are lonely, you have someone to accompany you, and it may not be a kind of down-to-earth peace of mind.

Someone interprets the sorrow between your brows and gives you a shoulder to lean on;

May someone come into your melancholy heart and open a bright window for you;

May we go through the ups and downs,

He can slowly understand the situation from the side and what has touched him recently, and slowly explain it to his face. It is more effective to persuade him to understand the end of the knot and his own and others' similar experiences, and after a while, he will be clearer, and it will be better for him to figure it out on his own.

First of all, dear, comforting people cannot be blindly comforted, you must know what he is sad about and prescribe the right medicine. I'll share you with an example, one day, even my father and mother quarreled, but I don't know what it was, anyway, it was very noisy at the time, and I comforted my mother on the side, but my mother cried so much that it didn't work at all, and I even went to the room to comfort my father (this is the first time I comforted others), my father was at the beginning, and replied directly: "Go away, you don't have to worry about this matter" The even grievance, the person who comforted people became people who were not people inside and out, and then the couple never interfered in their affairs again.

I tell you this to tell you that when you don't understand the situation, don't comfort others indiscriminately, don't let people not comfort you well, and you will be scolded and make yourself feel bad.

In the second case, you already know that he is unhappy because of something, and at this time you had better pretend that you don't know anything, because he is not in the same city as you, so you can only communicate by playing **, sending messages, if you want to make him feel better, the best way is to play **, you must not talk about his unhappy topics first, try to find some interesting things around him to tell him, at first you said, and then try to let him talk more, so, you communicate more, Maybe he'll talk about his troubles, maybe not, but at least he'll not be so upset, he'll be happy, he'll be upset.

It will always pass, and I will always be with you.

In fact, there is no need to deliberately say more, casual chatting, chatting, chatting about unsatisfactory life or sharing one's own observations or interesting things in life is much better than deliberately comforting others. Because it's not in a city, if you have to say anything, that's the only way to do it.

Don't say it, the Chinese are all played face-to-face, different from the foreign set, if you really care, go to accompany, nothing else.

I think that the key is to be able to come out, and I can't rely on others to comfort me every time.

Your friend said that bai is fine, it may be that he (she) du wants to think quietly by himself, he (she) has a way to regulate his or her mood, or it may be that he or she is afraid that you are worried, so he doesn't want to talk to you too much. In this case, you don't have to ask him (her) what kind of words he (she) feels, you just need to greet and care about it at the right time, chat with him, or even sit quietly with him or her without talking, as long as he (she) can feel your concern, so that it will invisibly add strength to his heart. Your friend is so lucky to have met you.

Do you know what your friend is copying it for?Since he chose.

If you choose someone to bear, then there must be a reason to let him be quiet alone. Of course, if you're sure you're clear. If you have the ability to help him, you can also help him analyze it together. Discuss it, but only if you don't help too much.

Accompany him silently first, let him vent first, talk to him at the right time, go out, go out for a walk, pull him if he doesn't go, and talk to him slowly to ease his emotions.

Cook for him and get drunk at the restaurant.

If you can talk to someone at any time, who wants to be silent alone;

If you can be free and ** exposed, who wants to cry secretly alone.

If you can make a close friend, who has to carry it alone with a heart;

If you can have a feeling of trust, who has to bear the pressure with a heart.

We are all afraid that what we say will be seen as a joke;

We are also afraid of being seen as a coward.

If someone can understand what is in their hearts, they are not willing to keep the secret closed;

If someone can see through it, they don't want to carry it on their shoulders.

After walking for so long, there are a few people who are worthy of entrusting their hearts;

After going through many things, there are a few feelings worth cherishing.

Instead of having more hearts, it is better to have fewer roots;

Instead of living richly, it is better to live with peace of mind;

Rather than seeing through and seeing clearly, it is better to be light and light.

I'd rather be lonely than settle because I haven't met the right person;

I'd rather be lonely than ask for it, because I don't have a heart that can read.

We're all looking for someone to talk to the heart:

Be able to take out the most sincere heart and be honest with each other;

Being able to say some of the most sincere words warms each other's hearts.

We're all looking for someone to talk to the heart:

When sadness is shared, it is not a kind of wordless warmth;

When you are lonely, you have someone to accompany you, and it may not be a kind of down-to-earth peace of mind.

Someone interprets the sorrow between your brows and gives you a shoulder to lean on;

May someone come into your melancholy heart and open a bright window for you;

May we go through the ups and downs,