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Be a good friend to your children" As parents, it is our nature and responsibility to love our children.

Teach by exampleGive respect, be a friend to your child, and don't spoil.

1.Teaching by example: The best way to educate children is to educate through the words and deeds of their parents, if parents usually love to read, respect the old and love the young, the child will be very good in all aspects of education.

2.Give respect: educate children, not scolding, respect children when educating, each child will have their own opinions, their own self-esteem.

It is necessary to let children realize right and wrong by themselves, so that children will have a correct view of right and wrong in the future, so we should pay attention to respecting children and protecting children's self-esteem in ordinary education.

3.Be your child's friend: Don't always get along with your child as a strict parent, get along with your child as a friend, help your child relieve stress and psychology in a timely manner, and let your child take the initiative to communicate with his parents when things happen. In this way, the child will get along better with his parents.

4.Prohibition of spoiling: Although every child is the treasure of parents, but spoiling is equal to harm, educate children to be strict, but also criticize, do not spoil children, so as not to let children have a situation where right and wrong do not distinguish.

Encourage your child to develop good habits.

1) Good living habits. For example, life should be able to take care of oneself gradually, and do things in an orderly manner, without friction or procrastination; Dress appropriately, not overly pursue fashion, be diligent and thrifty, and do not compare with each other in terms of lifestyle and consumption level;

2) Good work and rest time habits. If you go to school and leave school on time, do not make too many stops on the road, and do not enter commercial entertainment venues (such as Internet cafes, game machine halls, song halls, etc.) without authorization. The time arrangement of weekends and holidays is reasonable, and the homework is not completed by surprise.

3) Good study habits. Be able to complete the homework assigned by the teacher independently and conscientiously, without procrastination, perfunctory, or plagiarism; Able to review and preview according to the teacher's requirements; Listen attentively in class, think diligently, and develop the habit of taking notes.

4) Good interpersonal habits. Respect teachers, unite classmates, respect the old and love the young. Reduce contact with classmates from other schools and do not have contact with idle people in society.

For junior high school students who have not yet formed correct values and are not strong enough in self-control, they are too communicative and easy to get contaminated with bad habits, which will affect the healthy and happy growth of children.

Keep track of your child's schedule.

In the process of our work, we found that a small number of students often take advantage of the opportunity to go to and from school to play outside the school. In this way, over time, it is easy for them to become infected with bad habits, which will affect their healthy growth.

Therefore, as a parent, it is important to grasp the time it takes for your child to get from home to school, and to control the time when your child goes to and from school. If your child often starts school early or arrives late at home, ask your child about the situation and get in touch with the class teacher.

Combination of rewards and punishments Only reward and do not punish children, children do not know what rules are, and when they grow up, they will have no sense of law, and it is easy to cause crimes. If you only punish your child and don't reward it, your child will lack motivation, and when you grow up, you will easily lose yourself and lose the meaning of life, and they will often ask yourself what the meaning of life is. The combination of rewards and punishments is the best way of education, and more emphasis should be placed on rewards on the basis of the combination of rewards and punishments.

Because punishment does not make bad behavior disappear, it is only a temporary suppression of bad behavior. Whether it is a reward or a punishment, it should be timely, and if it is not timely, the reward and punishment are ineffective.

Edison, an inventor, was very curious about knowledge at an early age and liked to trace his roots. He asked the teacher the question of "why is 2+2 equal to 4", so he got into a big disaster. He had just been in school for 3 months and was ordered to drop out.

His mother, who was very sad and indignant, was determined to educate her son herself, build up her self-confidence, teach him literature, physics and chemistry, and cultivate in him the habit of learning and science. Edison's intellectual curiosity was further stimulated. The sprout of "genius" grew unconsciously, eventually becoming a world-renowned inventor.

It can be seen that success comes from self-confidence, the establishment of self-confidence, and the common sense of the people around you. Fathers don't appreciate their children, where does their children's self-confidence come from? Edison's mother did not appreciate her son, and there would be no today's inventor Edison.

Parents should consciously create a good living environment so that their children can be infected and edified. The family is the main place of children's life, and parents should organize their lives well, handle the relationship between members well, adhere to the correct moral behavior as the criterion, form a united and harmonious family atmosphere, and establish an orderly order of life, so as to cultivate the good sentiments of their children.

Parents must be good role models for their children. For example, when you want your child to be able to read books for half an hour every day, first of all, you must form a book that you read for half an hour every day, even if you dislike reading books, but you must insist on it and be a good example for your children.

Don't just focus on your child's grades. Chinese parents generally focus on their children's scores and rankings, and take everything their children can do in order for their children to focus on learning, thus stifling their children's hands-on ability and hindering their children's right to explore nature.

Don't spoil your child too much. Nowadays, most families are one child, and the Chinese-style next-generation relatives are really worthy of the name, and grandparents always unconditionally meet all the requirements of the child (even if this request is excessive), so excessive pampering will make the child form a self-centered idea.

Encourage and praise your child at the right time. When the child is hesitant to do something that he is not sure about, the mother may wish to say to him, "I believe you can do it." "Timely encouragement will increase a child's confidence.