A draft of the debate titled White Lies Are Good .

Lies are habitually derogatory. This is because there is a crisis of integrity in today's society, and in fact, lies are neutral. Even if today's society proposes integrity and morality, it is not required to tell the truth in all kinds of environments, and the existence of lies is not allowed, white lies are not "lies" (malicious lies), and integrity does not contradict them, there is room for their existence, if everyone does not like the word "lie", we can mind linguists to reinvent a word, such as "lies" and "euphemisms" to express the meaning of white lies.

White lies, put aside the ugliness, and come to the beautiful world!

White lies, abandon selfishness, and come to the world of integrity!

Ask the opposing friend to give an example, who has been hurt by a white lie? Causing a loss of integrity?

Life needs white lies.

People will often struggle in the whirlpool of confusion between ideals and reality, and only find the direction after some tempering, and different people will choose different directions.

Be honest. From the time I was sensible, the words of my parents, school teachers, and textbooks were the truth. What I remember most clearly is that parents and teachers often admonish, be an honest child, be an honest person!

And we also follow this teaching, step into the society, and guide us in our work life and in the world. At this time, we found that many things are contrary to our education, and in real work and life, it is impossible to be a truly honest person, because I have experienced that saying honest words not only hurts friends or colleagues, but also makes me sad; On the other hand, they rejoice in saying things that go against their hearts. Gradually, I found that in fact, there are times in life when we need some white lies to deceive and comfort ourselves, so we also need to learn to be dishonest in appropriate situations.

There is no way to verify the origin of the phrase "honest people eat praise", and honest people in modern society are not favored, although everyone knows that they should be honest; And reality will always give honest people a head-on blow, and those who have the best means of "simmering sweet potatoes" will go smoothly; "Eight-sided exquisite" cheeky people who say things against their hearts, left and right, the benefits will always fall on these people. All kinds of realistic encounters, personal experience, so that there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to be honest, more and more people who know how to be flexible in the world, and more and more people who can tell white lies, throughout the society, almost everything is on the two sides of "light" and "dark", it is normal to think about it, because the society is very tolerant, and the essence of human nature can be fully displayed in today's society, "Ming" may be the real self, or may not; "Dark" is the real self.

Should we be honest? Should?! It makes sense, dishonesty is clearly lying and deceiving others, and it is an immoral act.

No?! It also makes sense, it is clear that sometimes dishonest words are more acceptable than honest words, and interpersonal relationships are better to get along with. To be a truly honest and kind person is to be confused by the facts that come your way.

Being an honest person is the most simple essence of human nature. But in real life, it is impossible for us to be completely honest, sometimes we can't help but tell white lies, but we can't abandon the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature, and we can't take white lies as a habit, blurt out, and be irresponsible; That will backfire, become a veritable **, lose the trust of others, and lose the foundation of being a human being. Don't forget that there is one more saying:

It is better to be cunning than to be honest.

Everyone has their own principles of life, as a fool, can not be a completely honest person, then be a person who believes in his words and has integrity.

Being too honest and not being flexible will make us frustrated in interpersonal interactions, and will produce some unavoidable misunderstandings and contradictions; But insisting on integrity will not, as long as you insist on being honest, you will definitely have good interpersonal relationships and gain the trust and goodwill of others.

A white lie is beautiful, and this lie is not deception or ill-intentioned. When we tell a small lie in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, the lie becomes understanding, respect, and tolerance, and it has the power of magic, without any impurity. A white lie is a lie with good intentions, a nourishment for life, and a source of faith.

It ignites the flame of hope in people's hearts, and also makes people believe that there is love, trust, and emotion in the world!! White lies can make people find a reason to face life with laughter. The white lie is to endow human beings with spirituality, embody the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, and involuntarily strive to strive for it, and finally overcome fragility and survive in a desperate situation.

A white lie can save a terminally ill patient from a dead end and give someone a glimmer of hope. White lies can restore self-confidence and sometimes save a person who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown. A white lie is motivated by good intentions, with the purpose and starting point of defending the interests of others.

As we all know, contradictions are divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in and special and is distinguished from universality. According to the nature of its white lie, it is not a bad benefit, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, using others as a means with a strong desire for profit and weak reason, and not hesitating to harm others. The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject.

And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity. A white lie can ignite the flame of hope, and who can say that it is not well-intentioned?

White lies are an obstacle to integrity.

What is integrity? Honesty is to tell the truth and keep promises. Telling a lie is dishonesty, it is a lie, mostly for one's own interests, and it should be criticized.

There is no doubt about that. But sometimes the lies that people tell are "for the good of others" are called "white lies". Is this lie an undermine of integrity?

Should it be criticized? People can't tell the difference.

In my opinion, a white lie is a lie in itself, that is, a lie, that is, it does not talk about the integrity of the poor Bu Liang, but just puts on a seemingly wonderful coat. The deceived person does not want others to lie to him at all, and the lie may make the deceived person happy for a short time, but this happiness is empty, unreal, and does not last long. As soon as it is exposed, it will hurt the deceived even more.

Column 1: A person is seriously ill, and his relatives say that it is a minor illness in order to make him cooperate. But patients are increasingly feeling that

Isn't it a minor illness, why did you stay in the hospital for so long? In the end, when you learn the truth, you will be more painful and desperate than if you knew the disease from the beginning, and you will die faster.

Column 2: A sick child who was going to get an injection, and he was very scared, and his father said to him, "Don't be afraid, it doesn't hurt at all!"

The child really believes, but it turns out that it hurts, and from then on he will be more afraid of injections, and he will not trust his father as much as before, and may even learn to lie from his father.

Column 3: A man hated pumpkins very much, and his grandmother was good at making a kind of pumpkin pie, and in order not to discourage his grandmother, he would say, "It's so delicious!" every time he finished eating, he said, "It's so delicious!"

But his grandmother found that he swallowed it with a frown every time, and once even spit it out, how would his grandmother doubt herself? She will be happy to say: Thank you for your kindness; Still want to:

What else are you hiding from me!?

The list goes on and on, and it can be seen that "white lies" are not good. White lies are an obstacle to integrity.

Are you from the 3rd and 4th groups of the 66 class of Dewai, what is your name?