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I would advise against letting your children go back to their hometowns.

It is the time for children to establish living habits and study habits, and the elderly will be more accustomed to children, and it will be very difficult to change their living habits in the future, and it is not conducive to the cultivation of good study habits.

Children are still happiest with their parents Children can be happy for a few years After going to school, the learning tasks are heavy, why not take advantage of this time to let him play freely When the child returns to his hometown and comes back in a few years, you have to re-establish a relationship with the child The child is not suitable Why bother In fact, it costs money to go to kindergarten After going to school, it will be more economical.

When the child goes to kindergarten, you can take care of it** You can accompany the child at night Isn't that good?

In fact, this problem should be considered comprehensively, and the best environment for children is to live with their parents, which plays a very important role in increasing parent-child feelings and future communication and education. However, if the conditions are not met, do not cause disharmony in the family, because this is not conducive to the growth of children, the key issue is to measure how much economic pressure the child has caused to your family, if you feel great after the measurement, you may as well let the grandparents take the children, there are many children are grandparents to bring up very good. I'm driving my own ** like you, I think it's okay to take my children, and I'll come out with a few more orders after working hard!

It is best for the baby to live with his parents, the education of parents is different from the education of grandparents, after all, the subconscious cognition of the grandparents on basic education is not to cause trouble, just be healthy and healthy, what to give, easy to get used to children, and it is easy to develop a lot of bad habits. Many experts in the study of juvenile psychology have pointed out that children who lack communication with their parents when they are young and lack emotional communication with their parents are more likely to be withdrawn and unsociable than other children. Communication skills are also worse than other children.

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Also, whether to have another baby is up to you, whether you want to give birth is your own decision, women have absolute power. You also have to think about it well, think about it comprehensively.

As a last resort, it is better for children to be with their parents. Even if parents are busy during the day, it is good to spend a little time with their children at night. The most important thing in children's training is before junior high school, and the influence of parents on children determines the future path of children.

And children are most taboo to change the environment, change the person with them, which has a great impact on the child's personality, even if he is very wealthy in the future, it will be too late to turn back.

Personal advice, it's best to bring it with you, and then say that you open it yourself, and the time is still free. If you stick to it for another two years, your child will go to school, and the cost will be less. Grandma just wants to save more money and give them another boy, but she also has to think about what her daughter will cry like when she returns to her hometown and leaves her parents, and if there is another child, who will take it?

Who will pay for the money? Still wronged her daughter? What if I had another daughter?

What will happen to the family? Think it out for yourself.

Children still have to bring their own. There are some differences between the education concept of the elderly and ours, and the educational conditions in the hometown are not as good as your current ones. The old man may have the idea of wanting a boy, so he wants to take the child away.

You can do your husband's work first, instead of wronging your daughter and raising another child, it is better to raise your daughter well. The child's father's monthly income of 1,000 yuan is not very high, and if you raise 2 children, isn't it more burdensome?

My colleague gave the child to his grandparents, and this summer we took the child out to play, his child is 10 years old, but his ability and comprehensive quality are not as good as that of a 7-year-old child.

I hope you think about it.

Be sure to insist on taking care of your children on your own and don't give up.

1 Little babies will have a swelling reaction, and that's it. Usually nothing too big a problem.

2 The health condition I can think of, again, is the same as the bloating reaction, which should occur at the same time. The old man said that to swell is to grow the body.

3 Babies love to spit, and the most common thing is to play with themselves, because they are so awake that they have nothing to do.

4 The umbilicus is kept dry and odorless, so there is basically no need to worry.

5 The color of the stool is normal, and the milk flap is not completely digested from fat, which may be due to the fact that the mother is more greasy to eat.

6 If the physical examination is fine, then it is fine.

7 It is possible to use it under the neck, but it is more common to use it under the armpits. Because it is easy to fall under the neck, the measurement is not accurate.

8 Yes. Aspiration pneumonia, especially if your baby is a newborn, is less noticeable and is best confirmed by auscultation.

Question 8: It is best to observe whether the baby's condition and reflection are different from usual, and then consult a doctor.

When I first became a mother, it was normal to worry a lot. But the eighth question in it, I don't feel normal. My baby was leaking milk, but he didn't usually choke on breastfeeding.

It is recommended that you go to an old Chinese medicine practitioner who specializes in pediatrics to try it. My baby is always crying when he is just full moon, and the doctor said that there is no problem, and then he was introduced to an old Chinese medicine doctor, and it turned out to be that the child's umbilical cord was cut and the wind caused poor digestion.

If the baby's stool is not normal, the mother should adjust the diet.