How does life make me live??? How am I supposed to live?

Life is like a journey, some people take a car, some people travel a boat, and some people walk on their feet......No matter how you do it, no matter how the scenery changes......It's impossible for anyone to stop their steps, and occasionally stop to be nostalgic, just to enjoy the scenery. Some people are intoxicated with drunken dreams, some people are intoxicated with the beautiful scenery of the windy and snowy nights, some people are deeply surrounded by cynicism, and some people are mired ......in hardships and disastersThe ups and downs of the world are inherently wave-like, and we are like floating boats on the sea, immersed in the ocean of time. People run in the long distance of time, and they may miss the spring when the peach blossoms send spring snow, or they may miss the bright summer of fairy clouds, or miss the autumn when the rice is rich and fragrant, and miss the winter covered in white and snow.

People should pace in such a season and such a landscape, leave your brilliant footprints in the season, and have a world of your own. Life is not only serious, but also vivid and lively, how to make life look less hard and less tiring? Many people have not yet lived to the "age of establishment", and their hearts have long been like ice, twilight, and the surface is bright and beautiful, but it cannot hide the hollowness and whiteness of the heart.

There are also people who feel that life is very hard. From then on, I gave up the ideals in my heart, turned my back on the "ideals", and didn't want to grow up ......However, it is impossible to resist the laws and ...... unique to natureThink about it, how sad it must be? Life, just like a math problem, it is torturing our wisdom, try to ask our patience, I want to say, life needs skills, decorate your space with your mind, renovate your humble room warm and bright, learn a little cooking, understand a little romance, life also pays attention to taste, cultivate knowledge, cultivate culture, deepen and thicken the accumulation of self, careful cultivation, and create a unique elegance and chic, in that way, every move, every word, every smile, will show the "perfection and perfection".

When you have such a rich connotation, a unique temperament. Then you will be like a beautiful landscape painted by a painter. Life, too, is an attitude.

Attitude determines consciousness and behavior. In life, if you are unable to appreciate or not appreciate, life will be tasteless or even tasteless. Appreciation is a kind of excavation in the perception, a kind of cognition in the perception, and a kind of appreciation.

In fact, there is too much beauty in life, there is the verdant fragrance of birds and flowers, there is the charm of flowers falling without a trace, everything has its essential essence. If we can't see, or if we don't have the ability to appreciate, then we are missing a pair of wise eyes. You can't see the charm of people and things.

Therefore, we need to have that clear realm, and we need the combination of discernment and spiritual understanding. Life is like mountaineering, and mountaineering is not about height, how to understand height? What is the purpose of your mountaineering, when you stand on the peak of the mountain, when you look far away, the height is no longer just a number, the process of climbing makes people have an unexpected sense of freedom, don't be afraid of others' transcendence, don't be jealous of other people's speed, persistent and firm climb in the mountains, the countless heights under your feet, that is the joy of life!

In today's society, we have to feed our lives.

Live with good optimism.

Live how you want to live.

The first is to have your own goals. It is best to set a long-term, medium-term, and short-term goal for yourself;

The second is not to always compare yourself with others. People are more angry than people, the conditions are different, the standard of life is the same, the same pay, may not get the same effect, treat life with a normal heart, and live a good life;

The third is to think and think about beautiful things. What Chinese lack is the quality of being moved by beautiful things;

Fourth, we must know how to give. Not everyone needs to give, and you are not required to give alms to everyone who needs to give, the so-called poor is good for themselves, and the rich are good for the world, and you can grasp the degree well;

Fifth, be content. You must be content with life, career, etc., remember that you have to enjoy life, not life to enjoy you, that will be very tiring;

Sixth, don't be anxious. The boat must be straight when it crosses the bridge, there is nothing in the world that must be done, so you have to be happy, then you just do it, you don't want to do it, then forget it, don't force yourself too much to do something you don't want to do;

Seventh, don't be stressed. In today's society, measuring work by standards causes you too much pressure, remember that the body is the capital of the revolution, and if you don't die, you won't have anything;

Eighth, firmly believe in being yourself. As long as you think about it carefully, then do it according to your own ideas, there is no perfect thing in the world, learn from work and study, learn from failure, so that life can be more fulfilling;

Ninth, don't suffer from gains and losses. What is yours is yours, what is not yours is not yours after all, as long as you work hard, don't regret it, there is never a regret medicine in the world.

Hello. Nowadays, the pressure of life and work is too great, so we don't know how to live a relaxed and happy life, but reality does not allow it, so we have to learn to think openly, in today's society, go with the flow, and be at peace with the situation.

Be at peace with what happens, and be happy with contentment.

My life motto: Think open, live high!

Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have the troubles of life in this or that hail Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses and being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing. Just like listening to a story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, environment, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic mind, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can take the initiative to show your friendliness, and forgive those people with a tolerant and generous heart, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, and they will naturally cherish you very much. You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm! I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself!

In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely. So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened?

Is that right? For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? If the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people don't have to be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life!

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired. There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made!

So much to the point. You should work harder to face life. Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)