How do I fit into my life circle?

I have also seen this phenomenon when I was studying, I understand your mood very well, I have been working for several years, in fact, it has nothing to do with nature, you can change, you can't change the environment, but you can change your thoughts and mentality, in fact, it's a matter of choice. You can choose excellence, so make a decision to change it first! Learning is necessary, others like to live like that is also the choice of others, why not affirm him, do your own thing, you can choose to live melancholy, you can also choose to be happy, live and study without scruples, these all depend on your choice--- may you have good luck!

Junior high school? My junior high school friend is not mentally mature enough. That"Intrigues"It is a very naïve expression.

As for you, your mind is relatively mature. But there is still a little macro awareness.

Your classmates' behavior is one"Feelings of fear"It's not that their personalities are hypocritical and vain.

A friend is an important companion in addition to a loved one. You just have to remember to be honest with others, not suspicious of your friends, and not suspicious. There is something to be honest. You have to exchange your sincerity for the hearts of friends you think are worth making. Because friendship is bought with integrity.

I can tell you for sure that a sincere friendship is never linked to academic performance. Because friends together are together"Play"!

The pressure of learning The environment of the top class The way of education in the school The way of home education ...I'm sure you must be a little scared too"Left behind"Psychology.

These are all the consequences of exam-oriented education.

Cranky thinking is not necessarily a bad thing, I can see from your writing that your thinking is very clear, and your language skills are quite good.

Don't be afraid of loneliness, because it's only when you're lonely that you can truly enjoy the pleasure of thinking. In the future, your happiness will definitely be shared with you, and you must have faith in the future, child!

How to adapt? In my opinion, it is simply not humble or arrogant, it is peaceful, ignoring the open and secret fights between them, not participating in any discussions behind the scenes, and concentrating on your own business, I think there are so many people in a class, there will always be people who have the same temper as you, you will have friends, this is only a matter of time.

It's like you're just plain looking, to put it bluntly"My IQ is higher than yours, and my grades are better than you when I study - this is how to hit others.

No matter how smart a person is, if he is not diligent, he will only win the gossip of others if he loses at the critical moment.

On the contrary, even if a diligent person can't succeed in the end, others don't dare to say much, which is a valuable fighting spirit in life.

What you say is normal, try to understand others more, or then you can be more open-minded.

To be inclusive of some things, to be inclusive of some people.

My previous class was like this, what happened in the end? In addition to the difference in an admission letter and the fact that the students who are active in their studies and life are more impressed.

No matter how smart you are, I still look down on you in the end, and it's rare for me to remember you.

Don't deliberately think about those problems, leave a shadow in your growth stage, you just need to grasp what you should do, be true to yourself, face the future with confidence, a better tomorrow is waiting for you.

I like it because it's a place where people can communicate with each other without reservation......The things you said were so boring, that was not good, not ......Just leave it alone, whatever they say, you just learn from yours.

It's okay to come and talk about it, it's a big family here.

o(∩_o...Ha ha.

Good luck.

1. Enjoy the joy of reading. Our lives are always spent in tension, think carefully about how long it has been since we have been quiet and enjoying the fun of words, how long it has been since we have had a conversation with books, how long have we not seriously examined ourselves, and read well. We are able to talk to all the people in the book, they are alive, they are within reach.

2. Sit and talk with others. Now there are many people who are reluctant to go out of the door to have some cordial communication with others, we have a mobile phone is equivalent to having happiness, we have a happy chat with friends on the mobile phone, happy to watch movies, browse the web, although these are happy things, but these happiness makes people empty, the real happiness is the communication of everyone, you and your friends have different views on a certain thing, you have gained different ways of thinking in the process of arguing, this is a happy thing.

3. It is very important to find a hobby that belongs to you, everyone has a different way of pastime in their spare time, some people choose sports, some people choose to read, and some people choose to go shopping. Be sure to find a hobby that makes you happy and willing to stick with it.

When we are busy, we rarely care about our inner feelings, we are surrounded by noisy sounds, and when we are idle, we can quietly enjoy everything life brings and do what we want to do.

Some young people often suffer from their lack of communication and introversion. Some of them are personalities that have been cultivated over many years. Can you change this personality and develop the ability to be sociable?

As the saying goes: "The country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change." That's not entirely true.

"Difficult to move" does not mean that it cannot be moved. With the reform and opening up of society, the frequency of personal communication and the increase of social practice, and the broadening of knowledge, there will be great changes in personal concepts, consciousness and character. As long as you consciously pay attention to changing your personality, you will get good results.

In addition, it is necessary to establish confidence, put yourself in the right position, find yourself, evaluate yourself correctly, and do not be domineering, nor arrogant, without self-esteem, nor overwhelmed by inferiority. We should live among people with modesty and prudence, without humility or arrogance. The way to change the introverted personality and learn to communicate is also to expand the amount of information you have, read more books, read more newspapers, care about world and national events, expand your knowledge and broaden your horizons, and pay attention to enriching your spare time, such as playing ball, calligraphy, playing chess, etc., you can increase your communication in these activities and subtly change your personality.

In terms of character building, the following efforts can be made:

First of all, make yourself likable and want to be a good friend to other people.

When you encounter troubles, you may want to assume that you are in a state of happiness and leisure, and over time, you will naturally develop a happy personality.

Try to use your free time to do what you love and participate in different activities, so that you can expand your social circle and increase your knowledge.

Don't expect perfection from yourself. Also pay attention to your own sense of humor.

Second, before you start building friendships with others, think about whether you are genuinely interested in them and whether they will make you happy.

Be friendly.

Be accepting of other people's personalities and opinions, and don't force changes in them.

Pay attention to personal style, do not blindly give to friends, friends should be based on the principle of mutual assistance.

Many times, with a grateful heart, I reverently give to all who know me and those who don't. Just because of the words they have given me, a smile, and a love, it is enough for me to deeply reminisce and be moved when my life is safe.

Four years ago, on a blood-stained autumn day, my life fell to a low point due to the frustration of political infiltration and the deception of co-operating with others to do business. On a bleak night, I left home and came to the city where I am now, and the trauma in my heart will always be hidden in my dreams every night. It was this city that accepted me, it was everything in this city that tolerated me, rekindled my confidence in life, and gave me a new sky to start a business.

Gradually, I had my own life and a circle of friends, and after getting to know each other, I helped each other a lot, and finally I had the foundation of my current career.

So, after experiencing the ups and downs of life and the pain of losing his wife, in many ordinary days, his quiet heart often swells with inexplicable touch. I know that this love is sincere and is dedicated to the world, and there will always be some setbacks and encounters in life. But because of this fiery feeling, my heart is always surging, and I always have a splendor like the sun in my heart, and I insist on continuing on the road of life.

Although it is still the early stage of entrepreneurship, people can settle down by their own efforts and the help of friends, and I often think more about the true feelings of this world that give me a lot of warmth. Such gratitude will always stay with me for the rest of my life, forever.

I want to thank my friend, it is friendship that has dispelled the darkest moments of my life and warmed my heart that has been cold for a long time; I would also like to thank all the people who have cared for me in different ways, let me go through a difficult road in life, and lead me to a bright home. Thanksgiving, the most grateful for the world that is warmed by true feelings, warm hearts!

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