I want a divorce, should I be angry about it?

You should communicate well with each other about the following.

Look at her now you are more or your former girlfriend more.

If you are more treated, then live with him.

You should be looking at the future now.

Affection is a kind of tolerance and understanding, and since he is good to you, there is no need to torture him anymore.

The point is do you still love him?

If this is really unacceptable to you, and it will make you depressed for the rest of your life, then you can only leave, right? And the sooner the better.

I understand your current mood very well. Love is selfish and exclusive. But we are all sensible adults, and we all know that most adults don't get married after finding their first friend of the opposite sex.

It's normal for all to have different love experiences. I dare say that if you hadn't seen this message, you wouldn't be naïve enough to think you're your boyfriend's first love, right?! It's just that this passage has made you see it vividly, so that some of you can't accept it.

Think about it, this passage was before you got married, or even before you fell in love, so what does it matter? In love, which sentence is not an exaggeration. Now let's think about it, leaving this message aside, are you happy with your husband?

Do you think he loves you enough? Do you love him? If it's for sure, it's over.

Don't quarrel with your husband over inexplicable dry vinegar, which will make him feel unreasonable and fearful. If you really can't untie this knot, you should also take a little artistic means, wait until you are very close, and be spoiled by him, saying that you inadvertently saw this message, and the psychology is not very good, and ask him to delete the previous "sweet words", so as not to make you unhappy. You think, if you do this, how will he say to you, "Do I just love her", definitely not, he will definitely appreciate your tolerance and understanding, and will definitely love you more.

Don't believe me?

2 and the word: divorce. Otherwise, you will definitely regret it.

3. Whoever encounters such a situation will not be much different from your thoughts.

Don't do that!!

He also has a point, he only loves you after marriage, and the things before marriage are forgotten.

Of course, it's not difficult to understand that you have this kind of emotion about this matter, just give yourself a little time to digest it.

It is normal for husbands and wives or lovers to have conflicts and quarrels for various reasons. But there are some people who talk about breakup or divorce at every turn when they quarrel, causing a lot of harm to the other party. These people are like this because they are more impulsive, lack respect for their other half, and act hastily and irrationally.

1. People who talk about breakups and divorces when they quarrel are often people with more impulsive personalities.

Those who often talk about breakups or divorces during quarrels tend to be more impulsive people, these people are more extroverted and impulsive. Because of this, when they quarrel with their significant other, they will say excessive things and propose to break up or divorce. Although they may not have wanted to divorce or break up, such a statement will cause more harm to the other party.

2. Because of the lack of respect for their other half, they will only mention breaking up or divorce when they quarrel.

Husbands and wives or lovers should fully respect each other, so that the relationship between each other can be more harmonious. But if one party lacks respect for the other, it is easy to get into conflict over trivial matters. And when they quarrel, they propose to break up or divorce at every turn, which will seriously hurt the feelings between two people.

Even the old age can really lead to a breakup or divorce.

3. These people act sloppily and lack reason, so they talk about breakups and divorces when they quarrel.

It is normal for husbands and wives to have some conflicts in daily life, as long as both parties act rationally, they can resolve the contradictions and solve the problem, but if one party is sloppy and lacks reason, they will make inappropriate words and deeds, so that the rising feelings between each other will be affected, and even really lead to the breakup of the relationship and break up or divorce. Therefore, the parties concerned must pay attention to such inappropriate words and deeds, and no matter what problems occur, they must not say such excessive words.

I don't recommend divorce yet, I hate breaking up and divorce as soon as we quarrel, because it's irresponsible.

So when I was in love, I made three chapters of the law, the first of which was that when I quarreled, she could scold me and count me down, but don't break up at every turn. After all, I am serious about feelings, I am sacred to love, I will not curse my feelings casually, and I don't want the person I love to be such a person.

Regardless of men and women, there are several situations when they break up as soon as they quarrel:

First, he (she) does not know how to manage his or her emotions, he or she will only amplify his negative emotions, he or she will not be good at fighting, scolding each other, and quarreling in the most vicious way, which will only consume the feelings of both parties, even if the matter passes, there will be wounds in the heart. Or if there are more, the problem will become less important and less important. Breaking up as soon as you quarrel can only show that he (she) is very naïve.

Second, he (she) does not want to give in in the run-in between two people, and is accustomed to threatening each other with extreme means. If his or her threats are effective every time, then he or she will use this one frequently. In a similar way, running away from home and looking for life and death.

This kind of extreme personality person, so to speak, is flawed, and the other party may tolerate him (her) because of some of his (her) advantages, but if it is consumed for a long time, one day, the other party will get bored.

It is normal for two people to quarrel when they get along, this is a kind of running-in, a process of transforming each other and adapting to their own needs. It's just that there is usually one party who loves more, gives more, and is changed more. As long as both parties feel that they can get by, the relationship is solid.

However, once one party feels that they don't want to do this anymore (usually the one who thinks they are giving more), the relationship can be very dangerous.

So if I file for divorce one day, I guess I've figured it out. These people who quarrel and divorce at every turn don't understand that when the other party proposes to break up one day, he will turn around and walk away, and never look back!

Talking about divorce when you are angry This kind of man is not worthy of your love, and he threatens others with divorce every day, such a boy is really rubbish.

That means he's not happy with his current marital status, and that his anger must have been caused by you, of course, you may have made him angry unintentionally, such as accidentally saying the wrong thing.

I don't think so, because the investment in a relationship already takes a lot of time, and a hasty divorce is not a wise choice.

I don't think you should get divorced, you have to discuss it with him. Although sometimes divorce is an angry word, it will definitely come true if you talk too much.

If it were me, then I would definitely divorce, because if such a husband is angry, it is better to divorce directly.

I think you should still discuss this kind of thing with him, after all, divorce is a big deal.

I think it's a childish remark to mention divorce when you're angry, and of course it's possible that you were in a state of anger at the time, and your brain was a mess of angry words, and it would be fine later.

I think divorce should be given, generally this kind of man often talks about divorce, and will be less responsible.

Don't decide to divorce on impulse, and communicate well in a calm situation where both parties are calm.

Don't be so extreme, find a time to sit down and have a good chat with him, say what is in your heart, then look at his attitude, and then make plans at the end.

Summary. After the divorce, there must be an uncomfortable period, which is called the adjustment period.

After the divorce, how did I learn not to get angry.

After the divorce, there must be an uncomfortable period, which is called the adjustment period.

If you want to get through the uncomfortable period as soon as possible: 1. Change the environment and change the mood. For example, tourism. 2.Find someone to talk to, such as girlfriends, friends, etc. Bright bend 3Find a professional psychological counselor to intervene.

Before the divorce, I was really miserable, only those who have experienced it can understand, but now that I am divorced, I am relaxed and not angry.

Congratulations dear! You're brave!

Still have questions?

Our marriage is cautious that he betrayed the family and made more than 500,000 out, and there was a problem two years ago, but I just stupidly believed him, until I found out that he took out all his savings, I have always loved him, I love him more than myself, and I still feel like a dream, I can't believe it's true, and it's been 4 months since I divorced. Although I love him very much, I can't forgive him for principled things, and he didn't save the air.

You are very rational and resolute, which is something that ordinary women can't do.

Divorce is just a change to a life that is not entangled, accept all the changes, and adapt to a period will be better.

Teacher, I always thought that divorce was a shame, but I really didn't have the courage to stick to it anymore.

Now that the divorce rate has reached more than 50 percent, it is a wise choice to give up when the marriage is no longer happy.