Is it so hard for me to confide

I think it's everyone's personality problem. Some people have troubles and like to talk to others, but some people don't. Because sometimes I don't tell others because I don't want to show my weak side, or maybe I don't want my friends to be unhappy for me.

But it's uncomfortable to hold back, so it's better to write down the unhappy things you want to say. You can write on the Internet, others don't know you, so you don't have to worry about letting your friends share your unpleasantness, etc., netizens will care about you when they see it, and they will help you figure it out together. In short, we must think about everything and learn to be optimistic.

Or find something you like to do, or go out for a walk alone, walk for a few hours, and your worries will be gone.

It's good that you can say that, take your time, make yourself happy :)

Male or female? What did the villain do?

Current occupation?

Do you want to talk but don't dare to talk?

You haven't met someone you think you're talking to.

Even to friends on the Internet, I don't think it's good to talk about it.

You can try to keep a journal or something. You may be too introverted to confide in others about your pain and to show it. Then you can write some journals to vent.

Prepare a very delicate diary. It's very handy. Use it to keep a diary. Write about your feelings, your happiness, your unhappiness.

Many people suffer from having something to say but no one to talk to, and now there is a way that may help you.

Suggestion: Now there are formal psychological counseling institutions everywhere, and there are many psychological counselors who have been formally certified by the state in these institutions, and our first principle is to keep our help-seekers confidential, in these formal institutions, you can spit out in a relaxed atmosphere without worrying about these secrets being known by a third person, you might as well try.

The heavens will descend on the Si people, and Bi will suffer first. Your heart is fragile and easily influenced by the outside world, and how to fill your heart and mind is the key to your future development. The way to enrich yourself is to read more books.

Everyone has villains around them, but if you're acting very depressed, it's exactly what he wants.

It's good to say it.

You must be much more relaxed now.

The first steps have been taken.

I believe that the road will be much easier in the future.

You should probably consult a psychologist.

Write your worries on the orange peel and eat it!

Aren't you saying it now?

Hehe, it's puberty? Adolescence is like this, easy to rebel, in fact, you can see the point, your parents are divorced, they don't want to be, they are also sad, right, you also have to understand them, I think, if you care about them, understand them, and even comfort them, they will feel very gratified, they will feel that you don't have to worry about it, grow up.

And my mother-in-law nagged me, but I was very happy, it's good for someone to care, I'm afraid they don't care about you!

The old people are nagging, don't deny that you will be like this when you are old.

As for your life is boring, then find the right peers to open your heart and talk more, so that you will make a lot of friends, you will have fun with them, you will feel happy, really, as long as you sincerely make friends, there will be people who understand your original intention and make friends with you. No matter who or what kind of person you are, you will make friends, including bad people and beggars, hehe, people are grouped, and things are gathered by like.

Alas, every family has a difficult scripture, if you want, I can make friends with you.

Children, think about it, stand in the perspective of the elders, think about it for them, slowly change your mentality, even if you laugh against your will, it will slowly become a sincere smile.

This has little to do with whether you listen or not.

Aren't you happy, aren't you, classmates, friends, have a good time, talk to them, or, you don't trust anyone too much, perfunctory smile, think you're not old, very protective!

People will always talk about it, you will be like this when you are old, today, I went to breakfast, to see a young mother, with a child, but, obviously, that child was born defective, looking, it really makes people feel pity, you say, if that mother, how much I hope to have a healthy child!

Is your grandmother the witch in the phone story??? If so, then you're unlucky, I also have a nagging grandmother, but she's all kind, for fear that I'll fall into the ditch, or be abducted or something, so she always manages me... I didn't listen to her when I was a child, what can children and the elderly have in common, but when I grow up and she is old, I should also learn to care for the elderly...

Hey, that's how life is...

Everything will be fine! There's nothing wrong with you, is there? Life will be stressful, you have to talk about it, and then you will be fine!

People can't choose their own origin, but their fate can be changed through acquired efforts.

I've always believed in feng shui in turns. There is a fair balance in the world, and if you feel that you are missing a lot in one area, then believe that you will get it back in another place. Get your mindset right!

Life may be boring right now, but remember: don't complain. What's the point of complaining and being content with the status quo? It's better to work hard from now on, work hard to change the status quo, and one day, you will find that your efforts will be rewarded.

I suggest you find one or two things that interest you in doing so that new hope rises out the window every day!

ps: Don't always think that you are miserable, jump out of yourself, you will find that your suffering is nothing, there are more people than you are miserable. As long as you're alive and happy, nothing is a big deal.

Do you know how happy it is to have people nagging around you It's better to have divorced parents than those children who haven't even met You have a miserable life There are many people who live miserably You are much better than those who are more unfortunate Nagging is a kind of concern Never blame the person who educates you straightforwardly No one will bother to say something you don't like to hear If one day your grandmother doesn't nag you You're really pitiful Take advantage of the present and work hard Don't let yourself be pitied.

I understand your feelings, people have to go through a lot in this life, but only by facing it can we do better. If you think life is boring, they control too much, why put on a hypocritical side, she cares about you, is to love you, if he doesn't let go, let you do what you do, will you feel happy? Think about the children who have no one to take care of, how they live their lives.

I sincerely wish you the joy of finding you soon.

Your grandmother is good to you so she nags, you lack maternal love since you were a child, when a person is quiet, your heart will be very lonely, and many people don't know the real world in your heart, you lack an object around you that can or is worth talking to, sometimes the pain in your heart will always become pain, you must face life squarely, be confident... Good luck.

We need the understanding of others, and others need our understanding. Life is like this, you can send me a private message in my space. The subject is needed at the time of prosecution.

If you need someone to talk to, add me as a friend.

Would it be nice if grandma wasn't there either? You at least still have grandma, my grandparents are gone, hey! I envy you, someone nags.

First of all, through your name for your loved ones and the regret you expressed for losing something, I believe that you are an obedient and kind child, in fact, you are a process in life, in fact, once you grow up, you understand what you need in life? I don't want to convince you of anything all at once, because I think you have taken a good way to vent your negative emotions, to show that you can deal with these problems on your own, first to really understand your grandma, first to understand why she cares so much about you? Why doesn't she care about other children, in fact, I don't need to say anything more about this truth!

But if you really understand the reasons for this, you may give yourself a lot of inspiration, what is life originally? What the? How to describe life as empty and boring?

Life is a picture scroll pieced together by yourself, move by yourself to do something, and life will not be empty!

If it's not someone who really cares about you, it's better not to confide in people, you still have your dad, grandma, these are all your relatives, cheer up, believe that everything will be fine!

First of all, make sure that grandma is good for you; Secondly, find a time to have a good chat with grandma and talk about your own thoughts, because you will always be a child in her heart. Things can only be solved through communication.

In fact, you can also think more from the perspective of adults, especially your grandmother, although she nags, but she will not hurt you, one is too concerned about you and loves you too much, and the other is old and unaccompanied, and there is no one to talk to, so I take my concern for you as a comfort, not only for you, but also for himself. Therefore, if you can't just think about how you are, you should also think about it from the perspective and position of others, so that you will find that life is not as bad as you imagined.

Confide in strangers, because strangers don't know you, and after listening to them, you forget.

In fact, it doesn't matter if people have money or not, but there must be a person who understands himself, and a person who loves himself and loves himself, no matter how hard and tired he is, as long as he thinks of Fang Zheng, it will disappear. Your parents may have love for each other, but neither of them understands each other. You don't love each other and don't understand each other, so you can't find happiness in him.

What is happiness and what is happiness? Both material and spiritual satisfaction. Being rich is not necessarily happy, and not having money is generally unhappy, but being unhappy must be unhappy.

Materially and spiritually are not relationships in which determines whom, but in a relationship that influences each other.

Ask yourself what exactly you need? This question bothered me for a long, long time, and then I understood that money was very important to me, so I thought about trying to make money, and then I got a little money, and found that it was not like that, which is not to deny that money is not important, but to say that money is the foundation, and we can't let a person who is dying of hunger or a girl who wears stalls every day say happy. Later, I thought about what happiness is and how to make myself happy.

Read books and ask teachers for advice, it turns out that the root of happiness is the family, family members parents love children and children, through their own efforts, let them be happy, although the sky is cloudy and sunny, there is no guarantee that everyone can live a long life, but live a day, let them be happy.

There is another sentence, making others happy is a little clever, making oneself happy is great wisdom, I understand that others are people other than family members.

And family, what is love? I got married soon after my lover met, young and confused, I felt that she was beautiful at the beginning, she lived for a long time, and the children were not small, but there was real love. At the beginning, living a married life, that's it, now I have feelings, but I am more enthusiastic about that thing, my wife and colleague saw our old husband and wife show affection, almost disgusted to death.

Hahaha. Feelings, this thing, is a matter between two people, how to get into the heart of another person, this is a university question, you married him at the beginning, at least you don't hate it, have a family, have children, learn something about how to communicate, learn how to get into a man's heart, I believe, everything will be fine.

As a man, I don't have high requirements for my wife, I don't ask her to make money, I don't ask her to do housework, the elderly take care of their children a little more, and they are loyal to each other Although I occasionally desert my thoughts, I work hard to make money, and the family is harmonious, of course, bumps and bumps are inevitable, but then go to life.

First of all, you are married, does he love you, if he loves you, the conditions are not bad, and your mother-in-law is good to you, and he also loves you, then you are content, don't think about it.

I think you can get along with this person more, as long as he has a good character and is good to you, love without bread can't last long, and he will be unhappy in the end.

Because women always hope that a loving marriage will give them the motivation to live.

How can you be happy without feelings! Either be silent or leave to find your own happiness.

Be stronger, there are many less fortunate than you, change yourself

It's just that you still don't have any money yourself, and even if you get it at your husband's house, you may lose it at any time.

I'm not afraid to be poor, as long as I like each other, I don't believe that I can't fight my own world after we get married.

Although love is the basis of marriage, there are many people who have no feelings when they meet at the beginning, just like in the era of our parents and grandparents, many of them are set baby relatives, or the matchmaker introduces two people to each other, and they get married after seeing the line, and they can't talk about feelings at all, but they slowly cultivate feelings in later days. This is like many men and women who get married in a flash now, they get married first and then fall in love. Why are you so worried, there are many things in life that cannot be grasped, maybe marriage really depends on fate.

Although the person you marry is not what you like at the moment, since you choose to marry him, you still have a reason to admire him, at least not to hate him. As long as he is a person with a good character, it is not bad for you, try to forget the past, know him, understand him, appreciate and like him, two people have been together for a long time, it is not necessarily that they have to feel that they love or not, anyway, life is a good life. You see.