Is love so hard Why is love so hard?

Updated on society 2024-05-17
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    But emotionally, we are social animals.

    Not only do children have a weaning period, but parents also have an emotional "weaning period", which is now often referred to as the "empty nest period". Especially the parents of the post-80s generation and the only child generation, there are very few who can fully trust their children, trust them to handle their own affairs, and at the same time take too much care of their children, for fear that their children will be wronged. In fact, in the relationship between two people, how can there be no grievances at all?

    It all makes sense, but it's emotionally hard to get by.

    Communicate with your parents and say good or bad things about your partner according to their personality. If you say too many good things, parents will feel that you have been robbed, and they will be sad; If there are too many bad words, it will naturally be even worse. They can also be encouraged to have their own social circle and do something they enjoy.

    The principle is to get them to adapt step by step to a life that is not centered on you. Others are dealt with on a case-by-case basis.

    Don't fall out with your parents in a hurry, think that one day, you will also be in their place. You're going to think about them, and that's the best sign that you'll be able to handle your own affairs on your own.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is not difficult or annoying, but people themselves add pressure to themselves and seek trouble. Loving someone should be a very happy thing.

    We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, the happiness of the other party is your happiness, you should be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness!! Thank you!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's easy! See how you've run it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not very difficult, it depends on how you love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not difficult for me to say "no" slowly, but I don't know if it's hard for you to say it's difficult to have love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not hard to love, it's just that you haven't found the one you love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Difficult. Do you want to be easily loved?

    No way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To be loved is to be happy, and to be happy is to choose to be loved by others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The answer to the question can only be answered by the wise.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, it just depends on what you think.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    They always do what they think is right, but they never think that the child in their heart has their own ideas, but parents will never harm their children, so let's communicate more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because my parents are from the past.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Opportunities need to be created by yourself, others can't give you a chance, you can also become friends with the friends around the person you love first, a little bit to understand him and then contact him to have a chance, opportunities are created by yourself. Use your brain, be confident, believe that there is nothing you can't do, and be bold and dare to do it. Most of the beauties are chased by shameless and bold people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    They intervened because they loved you.

    If you get to the point where your parents don't care.

    Will it feel good?

    Don't see their love as an obstacle.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you just count for one sentence, you lose your real partner, your own happiness, and your happiness with her, it's not worth it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because the right person was met at the wrong time.

    Because you fell in love with someone who didn't love you, you were still obsessed.

    Because you fall in love with someone with a family, you can't give it up.

    In short, because love shouldn't be, that's why it's difficult.

    It's hard to love, just give up, and giving up is sometimes a kind of happiness, a kind of relief in another sense.

    The difficulty of love is, to some extent, an experience, a kind of wealth, but it is not necessary.

    Since love is so hard, give it up. Let giving up make simplicity simple, and let simplicity become happiness.

    Love is hard

    First of all, it is difficult to find someone you really love.

    Then the difficulty is whether he loves you or not.

    Even if he loves you, he will encounter obstacles from external factors or frictions in life; If he doesn't love you, it's even harder for you, it's hard to forget him, hey

    If you don't love it, it's not difficult, but people can't be ruthless! There's no way around it, it's just going to be difficult.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because love needs to completely open yourself to accommodate yourself and accommodate others at the same time, constantly alternating between sadness and happiness, so love is not simple.

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