Growing up troubles Can anyone help me, what are the troubles when I grow up?

Updated on society 2024-07-22
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Hopefully you didn't ask this on the spur of the moment! Otherwise, I'll be in vain.

    1. Don't think about anything. Especially messy stuff. Today's society wants to make a lot of money, the requirements are too high, and the opportunities also account for a larger proportion, so you have to understand not to be delusional!

    2. You can ask your family to help, introduce learning skills, and take a solid and persistent road, and it is a very ordinary road! Even if you pay a hundred times the sweat and tears on this road but receive less than others, then you have to bear it, who made you lose at the starting point! So don't rush!

    But it's a bit crucial: don't waste time! One goal at a time is slowly achieved, and your current goal I think should be to find a skill that suits you to learn, and this skill can ensure that you earn 2000+ per month after working for a year

    In this way, you can ensure the basic life of your family and find opportunities to make money within your ability!

    You must have a self-motivated heart, but you also need a pair of realistic eyes!

    Don't degenerate people before the first goal is achieved, then you ...

    If you want to be an extraordinary person, live an ordinary life first!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You get the idea?

    Life is hard.

    Actually, you don't need 3000 as much.

    Wouldn't it be okay to save some?

    Your parents should have some savings and don't be so afraid.

    What you have to do now is learn a skill.

    There is a craft, and it is easy to find a job.

    When you still have the support of your parents, let's learn some skills... Otherwise, you don't need to say the consequences, you know all about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Nothing is useless, try! It's not too late to realize this now! Find a job first, then study and progress!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In real life, I am a strong girl, but I am weak inside. Maybe it has something to do with your personality! When I was a child, I was very stubborn, always letting my parents listen to me, and I had a bad temper!

    Gradually, as I grew up, I seemed to understand some truths, and I became obedient as a stubborn person. When I was a teenager (that is, from the fourth to the sixth grade), my grades were very good, I lived a very chic and carefree life, like a happy bird, and then I suddenly thought; The world is so beautiful. I live a better life than the gods.

    Time flies! I've already entered the door of middle school, and for some reason, my grades have gradually slipped, (maybe the girls are less intellectually inferior than the boys.) I wasn't discouraged.

    Classmates, you are chasing me, and the competition is quite fierce. The classmates have changed, and no one pays attention to anyone, for fear that others will learn a little more than them, and they will become very strangers. They always asked me sarcastically; "Have you written an extracurricular book?

    What time do you go to bed each night? "I'm like one"sinners", and they were"Presiding Judge", are in""Me, I just smiled slightly, there is nothing to say." Then there was their chattering, which was so harsh that it hurt my heart.

    Living in such a class will be suffocating, it's worse than death, really, to be honest, my grades are not good, coupled with the cynicism of my classmates, the distrust of my teachers, not to mention that I have no confidence in myself. Suddenly, I felt an inexplicable discomfort again; This world hurts my heart so much that I can never go back to the happy life I used to have, just because I have grown up. Looking back, I realize; I grew up and had troubles.

    It is not just a simple annoyance, but also makes me feel depressed, feel heartache, feel suffocated, feel the coldness of the world, and feel the selfishness of human beings. The only thing that made me feel the cold and heat of the weather was that my heart was broken, and it could never heal anymore. The sky was so blue, the earth was full of life, there was a flock of birds flying happily, and suddenly, a small bird fell from the sky, and she couldn't keep up with the team that was so fast on the ridge, and she didn't know how much it hurt.

    The Troubles of Growing Up [The fastest and most sure way to conquer your fears and build self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you have the experience of success. 】

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Spend your energy on solving problems instead of worrying about wasting time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't look at the appearance that adults don't have to do their homework, they can teach people! Actually, it's not good to grow up! I get up every day and rush to work, either to pick up this customer or which task.

    At most, we can play and laugh at school after class. Laughing at work is crazy! When you are a child, you can hold hands with boys and girls, and when you grow up, you can be a hooligan; When you are a child, you can jump and jump, and when you grow up, it is a mental disease; When I was a child, I secretly talked and laughed, which was naïve, and when I grew up like this, it was a "long tongue".

    Too much, too much, anyway.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm just as troubled as you are.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Generally speaking, yes.

    1.Money, when you grow up, you need money in many places, and this is the most annoying thing for adults.

    2.Love, some people's love is not as smooth as imagined, so there will be some twists and turns, some pain, some happiness and some sadness.

    3.Career, when you grow up, you are no longer a child, the unrestrained and free sky no longer exists, and there is pressure from all sides, career is also very important for adults, he is very close to money, and it is a synonym.

    4.Marriage, when you grow up, you have to start a family, whether you want to or not, what is your attitude towards marriage, but the burden has fallen, you have no choice, maybe your other half is not the love you want, but you still have to face it seriously and do your part.

    5.Family, when you grow up, your parents are slowly getting older, watching them grow old day by day, the burden of the family will naturally fall on you, you have to take on the responsibilities that your parents once had, take care of your parents, children, and protect your lover and family.

    6.Friendship, the friendship when you grow up is no longer as innocent as a child, there are few absolutely clean friendships that exist, you have to adapt to him, you have to guard against him, and you have to accept him, whether you want to or not.

    In short, SHE's song "I don't want to grow up" is the voice of many adults! If you are still a child, please cherish it!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Worries are relative, because when you were a child, someone took care of you, so there were no worries, and when you grew up, there were some things that you needed to do yourself.

    So there will be trouble, which is called annoyance.

    Believe in yourself and try to live.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It also depends on how old you are, if growing up means that after starting a family, it should be firewood, rice, oil and salt, if you have just graduated, it is a graduate school entrance examination or a job, in short, there will be a lot of troubles in life, if you blindly go to trouble, then lose the fun of life, learn to distinguish it, in short, there will be something that makes you feel that troubles will not become an obstacle to your life path, you are enough as you say when you grow up, then you will understand.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on how old you are, and high school is also growing up, so you will worry about the college entrance examination; In college, I worry about whether I will fail the course; If you have a job, you will worry about the money you earn, and you can support your family; In the future, you will worry about your children.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Vexation? It's just that when you grow up, you need to deal with some things independently, and if you can't handle it well, or you can't bear or face it, your troubles will arise.

    Instead of living in pain, it is better to grasp the present, grasp the present, grasp today, do everything well, try not to leave too many regrets for yourself every day, and cherish everything around you now. After all, no one knows what will happen in the next second.

    I'm optimistic about you, boy — a naïve little pussy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Money, career, relationships, health, and more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    For life, interpersonal communication, work life, too much firewood, rice, oil and salt, the bits and pieces of life, troubles, happy, happy,

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Too much homework. Everything depends on grades.

    I want to go back to the happy times when I was a child, but unfortunately I can't.

    Too much pressure.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Vlad repeatedly defeated the Turkish army, which was several times the size of the Romanian legion, on the banks of the Danube and saved his country.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The simple explanation is that life refers to the various activities that are carried out in order to survive and develop.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on your own situation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Led by Megatron, he attacked the Autobots' spaceship

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the troubles are over, there will be an openness to solve the problems. Be optimistic, boy!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Heaven and earth have nothing to do, mediocre people disturb themselves! Clever people figure it out, stupid people love to annoy! Wise friend, are you still troubled now? Show your pride!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, people live by a certain motivation that they are looking for, and when they are young, they are carefree because of your troubles, your food, clothing, housing and transportation, and your life, all of which are provided for you by your parents, so your childhood, youth, and youth are relatively easy. When you grow up, what you have to do is not to complain about the troubles and pressures of life, but to think about the people who share the troubles and bear the pressure for you when you are innocent and innocent, that person, whether you should do something for them, when you have a sense of responsibility and gratitude, you know that there are actually troubles and a kind of happiness, because love is a sweet burden.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Mortals, mortals, come to this world, they are here to accept annoyance!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because people are young and everything is decided by adults, and we have grown up, we have seen more things, have more feelings, and naturally consider more problems, but the facts often do not go according to our wishes, because we are not omnipotent, so some things can't figure out, so there is a pimple in the psychology, which is the so-called trouble, if you want to reduce your troubles, you must have an optimistic attitude, just look at the point, I wish you a happy life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because I grew up and became sensible. It's no longer like when I was a kid, hip-hop every day, and now we have to face all kinds of difficulties, but in fact, on the bright side, it's a necessary way to grow up, and it's nothing. I hope you can face all kinds of troubles with an optimistic heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It mainly depends on the mentality, so I won't be very bothered. I'll think of one thing as good. Seon is not blessed. Change your mindset. Everything is good.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Everyone has troubles. It's all about how to solve it. There are many ways to try. Such as catharsis, confiding, and so on. Everything will be fine. Trust you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It should be feng shui in turn, and life will be troubled, which is called a day in vain in the world.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Oh, yes. People, they are all born for money.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1.The older a person is, the more things he understands.

    2.The older a person is, the more things he will experience.

    3.The bigger you are, the more things you have to face.

    4.The bigger the person, the more helplessness will be encountered.

    5.The bigger the person, the more complex the mind.

    6.All of the above are probably the causes of trouble.

    Hello, life is like this, there are joys and troubles and helplessness, life is ups and downs. We must accept the reality, face the reality, change the reality, do not run away, do not be defeated by the current difficulties, we cannot sit still, we have many ways to solve the difficulties and troubles, we know that it is difficult, but you have to act. Don't expect too much from life so that you don't feel disappointed with the people or things around you.

    Hehe, theoretically, everything depends on your own efforts, and if you encounter something that doesn't go your way, you might as well find someone who believes in it to vent, listen to other people's opinions, maybe you can get some useful enlightenment, at least the depression in your heart will be reduced a lot, and finding something that interests you to do is also good for your mood. Time and your knowledge of things are the best medicine for troubles. It is recommended not to stay at home during the day, first put your troubles aside, go outside for a walk and play nothing, breathe in the fresh air, feel the atmosphere outside, I believe that you will feel different when you come back, take action, come on.

    I hope what I said can give you a little inspiration and help, and I wish you a happy and happy life.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not a song called.

    Don't want to grow up. Yes. Because when people grow up, their responsibilities will be heavy, and when the burden is great, their psychology will definitely change.

    It's good to have troubles, this is the driving force for people's progress, and they will deal with them when they are troubled, if there is no responsibility in the world and nothing must be done, then there will be no living things in this world.

    o(∩_o~

    Being happier and growing up is the greatest happiness.

    Only grown up.

    In order to have your own world, deal with your own troubles and create your own world.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't think too much, everything has its own ending! No one can change it!

    It may be that the pace of work or life is constantly increasing, which brings you great mental pressure, and you feel that you have psychological troubles and need to be adjusted.

    Adjust the time of work and rest appropriately, set a time for exercise, take a break often, relax the tense nerves, and you will forget your worries.

    How to relieve and eliminate mental stress?

    Stress relief: Roar loudly when you get home.

    minutes to vent the resentment in the heart; Then sit on the sofa and listen quietly to the light**.

    minutes, and you'll feel much more comfortable after that. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. Hopefully, through psychological adjustment, you will be able to deal with similar situations correctly and make yourself physically and mentally happy.

    You should listen to more ** and let the beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue. The brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits get a vertical effect of relaxation. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often.

    You should also consciously slow down the pace of your life.

    Calmly dealing with all kinds of complicated things, even if you do something wrong, do not blame yourself, this is conducive to people's psychological balance, and at the same time, it is also helpful.

    It relieves people's mental stress.

    Be brave enough to face the reality and don't admit that your abilities are limited and that you can't handle things properly.

    You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in people from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance people's friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries are eliminated.

    Have a good mood!

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