What is the reaction after a breakup? What is the performance after a broken love?

The psychological phenomena that generally occur in the case of broken love are:

1. Low self-esteem, after falling out of love, individuals will doubt their interpersonal attractiveness and feel that they are not capable of loving others.

2. Despair, which is an extreme psychological reaction brought about by disappointment, especially when in love, after one party is rejected, this psychology is more prominent, some people will isolate themselves from the outside world, so as not to be hurt and their self-esteem is damaged, some people will not believe in love at this time, no longer in love.

3. Revenge psychology, some people will lose their minds after falling out of love, especially the loss of love caused by the immorality of one party and the obstruction of others, which is easy to produce revenge psychology and is destructive.

4. Grief, indignation, insignificance and depression, some people become indifferent and painful after falling out of love, some people use alcohol to kill their sorrows, ignore their studies and work, become eccentric and unapproachable, and some people feel bleak about the future.

5. Individuals will have suicidal psychology.

After falling out of love, you will definitely be in a bad mood, and even have some depression and feel that life has lost its brightness, but as time goes by, you will be able to slowly come out and start your life again.

In the process of falling in love.

Breakups are inevitable.

However, after the breakup, many people are unwilling, so they make some radical and irrational actions, self-righteous infatuation and human nature, but it is actually a very cheap behavior, have you experienced it yourself, and how many have you seen?

1. Pray for the other person to turn back.

Hoping that the other party will change their minds, or even begging the other party to turn back with death, is a very cheap behavior in the eyes of the other party, such a move will not only not make the other party cherish and feel distressed, but will make the ex more resistant and disgusted. Regardless of whether there is still a chance to get back together after separation, if you are too eager to go back to the beginning and let the other party retract your decision, the tighter you press, the more counterproductive it will be.

2. Foolishness in the way of temptation and self-sacrifice.

Prove that there are still feelings.

Some people find a new love immediately after a breakup, not because they really met a suitable other half, or because they are emotional, but because they want to stimulate the other person's potential feelings in this way. There is a high probability that the breakup is a decision made by the other party after weighing the pros and cons, or even saying that the other party has a sense of disgust with you. This kind of detection method will not only not arouse the other party's jealousy and good feelings, but will make him feel that you are abusive.

3. Spread unfavorable scandals about the other party after the breakup.

There may be grievances in your heart, or it may be true that the other party has hurt you, but since you have broken up, who is right and who is wrong is actually not so important. What's more, the end of a relationship can't be a one-sided problem, if you want to wantonly publicize scandals that are unfavorable to the other party everywhere after separation, in addition to making the other party more disgusted with you, it will also make the people around you think that you have a problem with your character model.

4. Slump after a breakup.

A life is very long, although falling out of love is also a setback, but it really doesn't prove that there is no hope in life, a state of slump is insignificant in the eyes of the other party, people may not pay attention to it at all, only Danhuai's own parents will really feel heartache, and what is really ruined is their future and life.

The most direct way to make your ex regret and even want to reunite is to make yourself better than before, not how miserable and depressed you are.