My father said that if a man is not married and has no achievements by the age of 30, his life will

Hello, according to your description. Your father said this, and there is some truth to it, but not absolutely. As long as you work hard, you still have the possibility to change.

In the eyes of his parents, when he is 30 years old, he will not have a family or a business. If you don't have achievements, you will feel doomed, because when people of their age are 30 years old, they have already started a family and have a good career, and they just say you by their standards.

So as a person in modern society, you have to understand that as long as you are willing to learn, you can start whenever you want, and as long as you work hard, you can struggle at any time. The person who is really finished, he is not working hard. Not positive.

So don't get caught up in your father's mind, as long as you start now. You have to find the reason, why not get married? No achievements find the cause, and then find a way to solve the problem.

Is it because you don't work hard that you don't get married, or because of some aspect of your personality? If you don't achieve anything, is it because you don't work hard enough? Or the direction of the effort is not right.

If you're not married, it's because of money. There is no achievement to cause. Then you will work hard to make money from now on.

Try to make yourself accomplished. If you don't get married and have success, it's because of your personality. Then try to change your personality.

Surround yourself with great people. Learn from them.

Find the reason, and then actively work to change yourself. Don't be fooled by your father's words. Learn with practical actions and let yourself grow. Anything is possible, personal opinion, thank you!

That's the old idea. The changes in the development of modern society, people have downplayed the age of marriage, and some are even reluctant to get married, these situations are normal, and it is not that they will be finished without marriage. Believe in your choices, believe that your life must be good.

It's an old saying. People after 30 days of noon, thinking that if you are not married at the age of 30, it is impossible to get married in this life, because the average life expectancy was low in the past, this sentence makes sense, and now the average life expectancy has increased, many people can live to be 70 or 80 years old, and some can be more than 100 years old, this sentence loses its meaning, and now people will be twenty-four or five after studying, and if they go to graduate school, they will be almost thirty after graduation, so it is very normal to get married around thirty.

In fact, I think I still agree with this opinion, there may be many reasons if you are not married at the age of 30, but there are no more than a few points: 1I was busy with my career and didn't care about anything else, so I delayed.

2.Caused by not accomplishing anything and not working hard. 3.

Influenced by external factors, such as family or others. 30 does not stand, and the back feels like a mess. It's getting harder and harder to stand.

I think that's probably a bit too serious. Nowadays, there are more people who marry later in this society, everyone is on a different track, everyone can get married at different ages and achieve success, and so on. Isn't there an idiom that is a late bloomer?

So as long as you do your best and obey the destiny of heaven. Work hard to make money, don't care about the final result, after all, we won't regret it in the end. Work hard to manage your love marriage and make your life colorful.

Life is very short, and there will be no regrets if you have struggled yourself. Satisfied, it's not easy to answer the question, thank you.

This old saying is unreasonable now, now there are many people who marry late and have children late, like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, which big cities, there are fewer boys who get married at the age of 30, and now there are many people who study and graduate with a doctorate and then look for a job, the so-called late bloomer, so, what my father said is unreasonable, I can't say that I didn't get married at the age of 30 and didn't achieve the end of this life, there are many possibilities in life, and it's too early to be qualitative at the age of 30.

I think it's your father's way of urging marriage.

This is very common, and parents try their best to get their children married as soon as possible. Even if there is a kind of story, it is a legend.

So don't worry too much.

Often in families, parents expect too much from their children. Especially when starting a family, marrying a wife and having children, the old people are always on this issue. Looking forward to the children.

Hurry to start a family. So. If it is around the age of 30.

Normally, it should be time to get married. The age at which you start a family. What the old man said was not entirely wrong.

You should have a proper understanding of what the elderly expect from their children.

Father said that if a man does not get married at the age of 30 and does not achieve the end of this life, this is not reasonable, now the society is different, the situation is different, young people do not marry early and have children, work hard for their work and career, but also to lay a good foundation for starting a family in the future, there is no person to 3o days of noon, but the future is bright.

It should be 40 days after noon, men should be 30 years old, and they should start a family at the age of 30, but they can't be generalized that 30 years old is not married and it's over, maybe men are very good but they can't meet the person they like!

Your father's illusion is that the old Huang Li of the past is outdated, and the life span of people in the past is short, and people will be half their lives when they reach 30. It's not too late for a man to start a family in his 30s. Where there is a will, there will be a way, and many aspiring men will have to be 30 years old to achieve great things.

So you don't have to fight with your father. One generation thinks differently from one generation to another.

Your father can only represent the attitude of some parents, and most people speak with a strong sense of subjectivity, and can only listen.

There are many factors that affect people to do something, and with the help of the right time, place and people, it is easier to achieve results in doing things.

Many people are enlightened after 30, and mature men are more likely to recognize opportunities, reduce the chance of making mistakes, and be themselves, in a hurry.

The saying that people pass noon on 30 days is a true portrayal of the pre-liberation period. Because, at that time, due to wars and natural disasters and other reasons, the average age of human beings was low, and not many people lived to be sixty years old.

Now, with the substantial improvement of the national economy, people's living standards and health standards have been greatly improved. The average age of people today is in their seventies.

Coupled with the expansion of urbanization in our country and the improvement of the level of knowledge, the age of marriage for young people is gradually delayed, and there are many people who are not married at the age of 30, especially those with high educational qualifications. Therefore, it is not possible to look at new things with old eyes.

This is an old notion from the past.

There was some truth in the past.

But now society is changing fast.

Life is stressful.

It is normal to start a family after the age of thirty.

Don't be too burdened with thoughts.

However, the male should be married, and the female should be married.

Marriage matters still need to be considered.

It's just a conventional wisdom. From ancient times, when a person reaches the age of 30, he has reached half of his life, and if there is no achievement at this time, the second half of his life has gone downhill. Physical fitness is declining, and ideals and goals are getting farther and farther away.

That's not it, many people are still in their 40s to go to the achievement, ordinary people can also live on the spot, after all, the successful people are a minority after all, but after the age of 30, the way to rise is getting narrower and narrower, and the energy is becoming more and more insufficient.

There is some truth to what your father said, but what your father said is not necessarily right. If you can live to be over 60 years old, then you have lived half or even less than half of your life, and no one knows what will happen in the future, how can you finish talking about it? You have to have faith in yourself.

When love doesn't come, you have to work hard to make yourself better, just let it be.

I don't think so, there are people who are late bloomers, many people don't have a successful career until they are forty or fifty years old, so what your father said is wrong, you are only 30 years old, it is not too late to get married, have children, do anything, as long as you work hard, everything is possible.

Almost, after all, when you are 30 years old, you have money, so it's easy to find a girlfriend, but you don't have money or ability, and it's basically difficult to find a girlfriend, of course, unless you look good, there are still girls or rich women who like it, so you have to work hard to make money, don't spend money indiscriminately, some boys pay their salaries and then drink some here and there with their friends, and the salary is gone in a month, and they don't know how to save money, and it's strange that girls like it, because there is basically no future with such boys.

This is not necessarily, people's circumstances are related to personal ability and strength, plus the help of nobles, accumulation is also a life experience.

I think these things that this old man said are old sayings from the past, and there is no big reason to say it. Nowadays, children are late in starting a family, and 32 cases are indeed true, but as a child, as a 30-year-old, it has not been long since he entered the society. More things in the workplace I want this person to learn.

It's a good time. It's also officially the beginning of the era, and I think it's just right. Like you said, it's over, he'll be sending ** soon.

Your father is not entirely right, men are not married at the age of thirty, and they don't even have girlfriends, isn't it normal in today's society, men are under great pressure now, and their ideas are different from before, and the pressure is high, which is the most important thing, so no matter what age you are, you have to work hard and work hard to have a good future.

What my father said was the old concept of the past, and with the progress of the times, the marriage of young people has also undergone greater changes, and many of them are fighting for their careers and missing the best marriage period that the old people think. Nowadays, the pressure of competition is high, and it is the consensus of modern young people to start a business first and then start a family, which provides a safe support for a happy life after starting a family in the future.

As the saying goes, stand at thirty, your father said that if you don't get married when you reach 30, this life will be over, which has a certain amount of truth, but in today's society, many people are busy with their careers before getting married at almost 40, and they just delay their marriage for the sake of their careers, which does not mean that this life is over.

With the development of the times, young people's sense of marriage is becoming more and more mature, and those who do not get married at the age of thirty abound, and it is an old saying that people reach thirty days after noon, and the average life expectancy of people in the past is very short, so they get married very early, and now it is not applicable. Young people first have a career and then get married, and when they reach a mature age, getting married is also good for the stability of the family.

It's not so terrible, as the old saying goes, a man is 30 a flower, it's a good time, as long as you do a good job and make more money, more beautiful women are willing to marry you.

Not necessarily, marriage can't judge whether a person has achieved a high or low, it's just the criterion that some people think, as long as you think it's not, then it's not, some people only succeed when they're older, such as Jin Dong, Wang Kai, a lot, they are all late formations, no matter when you have to believe in yourself.

In fact, there is no scientific basis for this statement, and men have to consider very positive factors when they want to get married, so it doesn't matter if they don't get married at the age of 30.

Father said so. It's encouraging you. 30 years old is the time to struggle. You can play your own strength. Go start a business. Go to work. Father said so. I'm afraid that you won't be able to do it in the future. Rely on the father.

Agree. The age of 30 seems to be regarded as a watershed in the age of marriage, and if you don't start a family at this age, it is like missing the best time to get married, and you will be labeled as a leftover man, and the value of life will automatically depreciate because you are not married.

Goose heads, it's not terrible to get married late, it's terrible to get married casually, marriage is not something that can be completed in an instant, but a journey, like a train stopping at the station, slowing down first, and then slowly driving into the platform. Similarly, if you want a long-term relationship, you also need to be gentle and tolerant of each other, and if either party is incompatible with these two points, it will definitely speed up the end of the journey of love.

When you find out about this relationship, you can't see the progress bar slowly, if it weren't for your hard work and humble please, you may have already separated. Falling in love is beautiful, when you find that you are sad more often than happy, you should think about whether there is a problem with the way you get along before, but you yourself like her very much, and now in the face of the girl's hot and cold attitude, you really don't think about it, you are in a dilemma, and you really want the girl to re-establish a good impression of you.

Never settle, rather marry later or not marry than settle, otherwise not only unhappy, but also sorry for their children, divorce for fear that the children will suffer from divorce, will be tormented every day.

Ning Wan's marriage will never be settled.

No, at least for now, we're still the backbone of society.

There are still opportunities, and those that should come will always come, so just calm down and just go with the flow.

As an older youth, what is the reason for not wanting to socialize?

Opposite sex? 1. The leftover man thinks that chasing a girl is a "high investment, low return" thing.

Some boys invite girls to dinner, take girls to watch movies, give gifts, and curry favor with girls many times, but in the end they only get a sentence of "We are not suitable" and "I have no feelings for you" and so on, which makes a large part of the leftover men feel very chilled. Now the leftover men have begun to learn to calculate the cost, and they even regard chasing girls as an investment, and it is possible to reap the rewards by investing some money and a lot of time and energy in the early stage, but the probability of failure is still very large, which can be described as very risky, so now many leftover men feel that chasing girls is a "high investment, low return" thing.

Second, the leftover men gradually get used to living alone.

Today's leftover men usually put their energy on work, they all have a regular habit of living, eating and sleeping at work, occasionally playing games when they have time, watching TV, brushing **, life is so general and the same, slowly they are used to their own life, so they are too lazy to make new friends of the opposite sex, accustomed to nature, after a long time, they will adapt to their own life alone.

3. Work hard and wait until you have the financial conditions to talk about marriage.

The current society is still very realistic, two people need money to fall in love, they need money to get married, and even to have children in the future, raising children need money, and now girls have higher and higher economic requirements for boys, which makes many boys who are not very good economically afraid to talk about love and fall in love, so for them, what they need in front of them is to work hard, work hard to make money, and then find a girl who suits them.