When the person you love the most leaves, how can you get yourself out of the abyss of pain?

You must admit this fact, and face this fact, for example, spend a week to relive the years when two people were together, and then tell yourself that he has left, and treat Tong as a passerby in life, and live alone in the future.

Get away from your original environment. If you can still see old things and old environments, you will think of the lover you once loved, and you can go on a short trip to relieve the pain of this longing.

Then you should let yourself start a new life, you can contact more new people, expand your circle of friends, and divert your attention.

It takes two or three months to heal the loss of your closest loved one, and even if it does, it will leave a wound in your heart.

Human birth, old age, sickness and death are a major law of nature, and no one can reverse it. Therefore, when we face a person, we should cherish it, instead of waiting for it to be lost and then regret it. Whether it is love or family affection, know how to cherish each other, so that the chaos will not leave the regrets of life, and when it comes to the day of loss, at least you can have a clear conscience.

Getting out of the abyss of pain of losing a loved one:

You can think of it this way, if it is the end of life, then you should be happy for him. Your pain is nothing more than too little company, nothing more than the debt of this life, nothing more than not having time to fulfill your filial piety, nothing more than not having the last moment of absence. But you should know that life is short for decades, but it is also a long practice, and old age and death are the right results of cultivation, so you don't have to be sad or sad.

If you are middle-aged and widowed, the other half can only struggle to be reborn in pain. Maybe you still have young sons to raise, maybe you still have parents to support, so for the sake of those who are alive, you have to cheer up, some people will stick to their vows to each other and die alone, and some people will quickly reorganize their families and bury the memory of the deceased in their hearts.

But no matter what kind of thing you will feel like the world is falling apart at the moment of loss, after all, you have fallen in love with each other, and you have been accustomed to the existence of that person for so many years. But the dead are gone, and the living still have to live strongly.

When someone you love leaves you, you can alleviate your pain by forcing yourself to do something else that distracts you, such as chatting with your girlfriends, traveling, or going back to your hometown to heal.

You can turn your attention away and forget about everything that the other person has, and stop thinking about it.

Thinking that he is losing a person who does not love him, and he is losing a person who loves him, this can help alleviate the pain and get out faster.

In fact, to tell the truth, heartache can only be healed with heart, you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to slowly heal, return to nature to heal the wound of the soul, wait for the wound to heal, love the pain, to completely forget how easy it is to say, to really forget how many people can be, that may be absolutely impossible, but also to lie to yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart for eternity, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

How many infatuated people have been stumped by the word "love"? It's so hard to love someone, I brewed a cup of bitter wine of love with my own hands, and in the end I choked with my own tears and swallowed it, love has become a ...... hurtBut in this process, we will gradually realize the true meaning of "love", think about it, we are deeply in love with that person, as long as he (she) is happy, what else do we care? Or got?

Or lost? It's not important anymore Let's pray for the one we love, go on freely, and bless him (her) ...... with a sincere smileBecause our "letting go" does not mean "giving up"; Because we are still holding on to this true love, loving him (her) in another way, while you are liberated, the other party and the block are also happy, isn't that good? Life is short for decades, the bittersweet cover is a boring world, be kind to yourself, maybe in old age, we look back at the past, all these are just a flick of the fingers of a small biography ......Good luck.

Time is the best way to dilute everything