Hey, I m getting more and more confused about my future ideals, what should I do?

The value and meaning of life is given by yourself, and what anyone else imposes on you is not your life, but someone else's life, so if you want to know what life is, only ask your own heart, where your heart goes, is the direction of your life, don't use other people's standards to demand yourself, otherwise you will always be a dancer on the stage, and spend a lifetime to interpret others, which is the biggest sorrow in life!

What suits you is the best, and what can make you feel happy is what guides you in the direction of happiness.

There are three realms in life, looking at the mountains is the mountains, and looking at the water is the water;

Look at the mountains are not mountains, and look at the water is not water;

Look at the mountain or the mountain. Look at the water or the water.

That is to say, a person is pure and flawless at the beginning of his life, when he first knows the world, everything is fresh, what his eyes see is what he sees, and when people tell him that it is a mountain, he knows the mountain; Tell him it's water, and he knows water.

As I grew older and experienced more and more things in the world, I discovered the problems of this world. There are more and more problems in this world, more and more complex, often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, unreasonable travel all over the world, it is difficult to move an inch with reason, good people have no good reward, and evil people live for thousands of years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, vigilant, and complex.

People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, people look at the mountains and sigh, and sigh when they see the water. Mountains are no longer simply mountains, and water is no longer simply water.

Everything is the carrier of people's subjective will, the so-called "good wind with strength, send me to the clouds". If a person stays at this stage of his life, he will suffer this life. People will look at the mountain and look at the mountain, keep climbing, be competitive, compare with others, how to be a person, how to behave in the world, rack their brains, exhaust their organs, and never end and be satisfied.

Because this world is originally a circle, there are people outside the people, there are still heavens outside the sky, the cycle goes on and on, and the green water flows forever. And human life is short and finite, can you go to the eternal and infinite?

Many people reach the end of their lives when they reach the second state of life. Pursue a lifetime of hard work, a life of arrogance, and finally find that you have not achieved your ideals, so you hold a grudge for life. However, some people, through their own practice, have finally raised themselves to the third realm of life.

The mouth suddenly opened, and it returned to nature. At this time, people will concentrate on what they should do and will not have any problems with others. Let your red dust roll, I will be clear from the breeze and the moon.

In the face of complicated and worldly things, laugh at it, and understand what's wrong, at this time, people look at mountains and mountains, and water and water. Exactly: people are human beings, and they don't have to be deliberate to be human beings; The world is the world, and there is no need to deal with the world carefully; That is the real life and life.

Because you often go out to study your art courses, so your heart slowly runs away, it is recommended that you take your heart, high school and junior high school are different, and it is not good to lose a class and not come back. Don't think it's easy to go to an art university.

As long as you imagine yourself realizing your wishes at this time, the pride at that time is the fruit of now!!

Dreams are just annual rings.

Be self-confident, learn to be self-reliant, do things yourself, and don't always pay attention to how others do things.

Enrich yourself and make yourself more mature.

Heroes only come out in troubled times, and now is the era of peace!!

The emotional side of things is very complicated, you like someone very much, but she is cold to you and good to others, you have to try to think about why? What are some of the differences between you and the person she likes?

There are a lot of troubles in adolescence because this is the time to know a lot of things, but you don't have any experience at all!!

After seeing more and experiencing more, you will find that it is actually the same thing!!

Happy Mid-Autumn Festival!!

Dreams are magic lamps that can become whatever they want, dreams are set to the sea and the needle is called to hold up until you can pick off the stars in the sky, kid don't be too cranky, you are in the third year of high school and haven't put your mind on studying, but you care about others' doubts about yourself, you have to be more diligent than others to prove yourself, and you have to go beyond the goal with sweat, and the knowledge of high school politics and philosophy is clearer than anything else, go in and calm down your mood!

The dream is: to do what you want to do but not do at the moment. No one is perfect, in fact, no matter what, as long as you can be happy, life in the world to go once, do not seek the stars to shine brightly, but to seek peace and happiness every day, in fact, it is not that you are always inferior to people, but you see far away, look down and see, not as good as your own people are not less, isn't it, beyond or something, the important thing is not the result, but the process of your efforts, I am also a senior in high school this year, I don't want to be ordinary, I also want to be vigorous, But all this is not something that can be achieved by thinking, in fact, as long as you are down-to-earth, remember every word, understand every question, take every step well, walk steadily, and walk steadily, naturally, you don't want to face these things.

In fact, it is not difficult to succeed, it just takes time, and time can witness all your efforts. Regarding the question of feelings, this... If you have a crush, tell her directly, long pain is better than short pain, at most you are sad for a week to beat the bed or something, that's all, just look away, I wish you progress in your studies, and you will get good results in the exam with me next year, hehe.

Dreams sometimes make people feel lost, dreams are their own ideals, dreams are a kind of thing that can be confused at any time, some dreams may be just a fantasy, some may come true, some can only disappear, and some people may give up friendship, family affection, and family because of dreams.

It's my third year of high school, time is really precious, I hope you can cherish it, and I hope you can read my answers in a hurry. Dream is the lamp in your heart, guiding you to chase the light; It is the star of the sky, shining in your eyes. The road to chasing it is always long, but if you are passionate and persistent, your life will be full and beautiful, because you are not spending it in idleness, because you have worked hard and struggled, and you will not regret it.

The important thing in life is the process, and the result may as well be lightened. I know that there is always a gap between people, but with hard work, the gap can get smaller and smaller. As Lu Xun said, my success is that I am still learning when others drink tea.

When others don't work hard, I'm still struggling. That's how the gap narrows. So please don't doubt the results of your efforts, but learn to keep working hard, God rewards hard work, believe in yourself, and you can also create brilliance.

Motivation needs to be supported by dreams, and of course, pressure can also be turned into motivation, learn to transform it. In fact, as long as you have a clear goal in mind, you will be motivated. The third year of high school is what you need to fight vigorously!!

Come on! The third year of high school is so precious, you can't help but be troubled by the love of your children, leave those behind, nothing is more important than your future! It's the third year of high school, try not to be emotionally involved, because in a blink of an eye, you may take the college entrance examination.

Don't be sad, in fact, I'm the same as you now, I'm in the third year of junior high school, and I'm studying intensely like you, I'm really tired, to be honest, in fact, when it comes to the critical moment, I rely on hard work. Laugh until the end. You must be strong, don't believe that hard work has no gain, they work hard, you have to work harder, although tired, but, this can realize your dreams!!

Like you, I'm also working hard in the third year of junior high school, so let's work together!! Make your dreams come true!

You are idle, think too much, the more you lack something, what is the dream, I lack money, the dream is rich, I lack love, the dream is a home, you are now in the third year of high school, the realistic dream is a good university, you may ask how to go to college, but you never know what will happen if you don't go to college, my answer is very vulgar, but it is all sincere.

1. Dream is the desire in your heart, with the growth of age and the change of social experience, what kind of person to become, this is not a dream, this is your philosophy of life, what to do, this is too much, it cannot be said to be a dream.

2. There is not much comparability between people, do what you are good at, there are people outside the sky, there are people outside the world, either the high grades are the best, the key is to do what you want to do, what is beneficial to everyone.

3, the road is out of their own, to tell you, throughout the ages, heroes are lonely people, heroes need a lot of sacrifice, belong to the devotees, consider the happiness of others is far greater than their own, people have ups and downs, vigorous is just an impulse, the key is perseverance.

4. Feelings can not be forced, there is always a flower for you in the world, provided that you are also for others, we are not spare tires, we are always your own protagonists, the best way to regulate emotions is to communicate with others.

Hmm, it's just one step at a time, walk steadily, don't want to climb to the sky in one step. Come on, give us juniors, be an example, if you can really come back vigorously, in the future, let me remember your name.

Life is like this, there are often a lot of helplessness, if you want to be reborn, you must find the shining point of life, such as what you like, what hobbies, or what specialties you specialize in, and then rely on this to improve the charm, waste wood is not practiced in a day or two, because it is not practiced, to believe in yourself, believe that you are the only one in the universe, work hard, come on!!

I also thought about it when I was a junior in high school, when I had a nervous breakdown...Now I know the answer, the dream is to live according to your own lifestyle, don't think about it first, study hard in the third year of high school, college is very necessary now, although it is not of much use....A buddy was a soldier in college and was admitted to a military school, which is also very good.

If you have time to think about that, you might as well be who you are. You should still be a senior in high school, what is your dream? Find some more practical ideals and strive for them, and you will not be confused.

Everyone will be young and ignorant, everyone has youth, if you waste time now, hesitating, at a loss, in the future, even your life, you will regret it.

For feelings, I want to say: now you think you love her, and one day you will change. Nothing is permanent except the fake (e.g

prostheses). In this world, there are the most two-legged people, so don't be fooled by superficial favorites. If you decide what you decide, you will do it, and if you can do it without regrets, you will be successful!

Everybody feels lost for a while, like when I'm studying.

I feel like I can't use my strength.

When you read more, you'll understand.

What is your dream You need to calm down and think about it It's the third year of high school Don't think about love Now you have to decide whether to go to school If you want to go to school, you can settle down Prepare well for the college entrance examination Don't go to it, then choose the job you want to do now To learn it Love is for you Don't think too much about it now Because there will really be a lot of variables.

Huh....Pretty much the same....I'm also a sophomore in high school now....I realize that I don't have a real sense of the world....It's as if I'm just a passerby, and I feel like there's nothing ahead of me that I know, pursue, or look forward to...In fact, a person's life passes quickly, and the most important thing is to try to make yourself happy...! Dream is a goal to work hard for, and only with a goal can there be the motivation to move forward! The strengths of others are not innate, there is their efforts behind what you can't see...!

Try to be yourself....Let others see their differences...For the kind of "friend" who uses you facing forward instead of you facing backwards, he said that he used you again when he used you again....Snort coldly and turn around and leave...!

Point 4 is your focus, young people just like this, and as soon as their feelings are frustrated, they will pull the big truth of the dream of the ideal.

As for the things of your dreams, you have to ask yourself Don't waste your time Do yourself well What you should do now is What you should do first is to prepare for the exam Regardless of whether you can get into your ideal school or not Don't lose confidence in yourself and patience There are countless paths to choose from in life Remember a sentence Called born I will be useful One day you will understand and deeply believe in this sentence.

Dreams are about trying to achieve your goals in your limited life.

Take it one step at a time, look at it one step at a time, and go with the flow. Tomorrow may not be the case.

I'm a sophomore, and my advice to you is, don't think too much, take one step at a time, and everything will be fine.

Dreams are sugar, so sweet that they are confused ......

Of course, it is better to continue to work hard to achieve your dreams, and you will find that even if you have worked hard even if you have not realized them, you will not regret it, which is better than giving up halfway.

This situation of yours has been encountered by many people, and your solution is:

1.Knowing that your dream is difficult to realize, that is, it cannot be realized all at once, you can separate the stages, let go of the time, realize it gradually, and adjust it gradually.

2.If you feel that your dream is in the wrong direction and cannot be realized, don't be confused about the future, you can adjust the direction and do real things.

3.If you feel that your dream is too high to be realized. You can set goals that suit you and work hard to achieve them.