For feelings, for their own future, more and more confused, for the family

Let's talk about feelings first, it's not hard to see from your narrative that you lack self-confidence. I want to say that if you only talk about love, regardless of marriage, it has little to do with real family conditions, after all, love and marriage are two different things. Looking at your situation, it seems that you haven't confessed yet, and no matter what you think about at this time, it's just adding to your troubles.

Moreover, there is no emotional basis for a long distance ... It's very unlikely that it will last.

Speaking of career, no ability, no education is nothing, now there are many unemployed college students after graduation, but you must keep yourself a positive attitude - you must learn something, you can't waste things. People can't reach the sky in one step, they always have to start from the most basic. It is inevitable that those who come out to mix will suffer losses and suffer crimes, and it is a blessing to be able to eat a trench and grow wise.

Worrying is to make you realize the focus of your life now, but not blindly immersed in sorrow, as the so-called wine into sorrow is more sorrowful, after all, it is not the solution to the problem, or to face the reality, find a solution, peel off the cocoon, and take your time.

I hope you think about it.

A man should have the appearance of a man, and he should have the responsibility of a man, and it is true that childhood experiences will cause some psychological shadows on you, but since you can realize this, you must find a way to make changes. When you're rejoicing in the change in your mindset, other good things may follow.

Good luck. If you are satisfied, push one, recommend one

If you have a goal of love in your heart but don't dare to pursue it directly, what an unspeakable pain it is! But why? It's because you have low self-esteem! Why do you have low self-esteem? It's because you have nothing now!

The ancients said well: "The book has its own ** house, the book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own Qianzhongsu", in fact, this "book" not only refers to knowledge, but also refers to the ability to generalize, when you have an enterprising spirit that will never fade, and the ability to change your own embarrassment, wealth will be created continuously with your efforts and dedication. At that time, if you love a woman, will you still lack the courage to confess?

Therefore, it is recommended that you give up your inferiority, give up all unrealistic pursuits and fantasies, give yourself a specific direction of effort, and then make a reasonable and feasible life plan for yourself, and rebuild your ideals in the spirit of "facing the wall for ten years".

I think you are unreliable, you can face yourself very well, I am also sympathetic to your experience,,, but I think you are not very reliable, this is just a little advice from me, I don't know if I can help you, I suggest you contact with other people more, maybe you will be much happier, maybe the first step is difficult to get out, but people always have to change, always have to grow, maybe because I myself don't believe in different places, two options, one is to suggest that you give up your side of the family,, I don't think it's good,,You know,, Either give up on her and start a new life of your own, a man must have a career, or you can find him to make it clear and ask him if he is willing to wait for you, I think she may not be willing, if I am I am not willing to wait, and when you have a successful career, you may also have new ideas.

First of all, I'm going to tell you that this is just your one-sided idea. You only know about it on the Internet, there is a big difference between the Internet and the reality, you can talk unscrupulously on the Internet, but you can't in reality. In addition, from your narrative, I know that the two of you are not very familiar with each other, but they are just ordinary netizens.

Also, you said that he was very touched by the gift you gave him, I think this is not mixed with other feelings, just friend feelings, you really think too much. Your heart is sensitive.

Emotional matters need to be fought for by yourself, and at the same time, don't wronged yourself, the reality is always cruel.

Feelings are a matter of course, this can't be compared with friends, now you are full of helplessness and unconfidence in this relationship, but you are not passive, love is shared by both men and women, both parties have the right to choose, so you are not passive, but it can be seen that you still care about this feeling, as for whether you should stick to it, it will take your courage and your boyfriend's attitude towards this relationship. The key is your boyfriend's perception.

What you need to do is to give you and your boyfriend time to calm down and think, so you can't be impatient, when both parties are calm, both parties do a frank communication, and when the time comes, meet seriously and honestly, have a good talk, and express your opinion. At that time, you have to let him take a stand, and if he can't, he will continue, and if he can't, he will get rid of this relationship as soon as possible, and he can't waste time endlessly and needlessly. Twisted melons are not sweet.

I hope you find happiness soon!!

You should talk to your boyfriend about these things first to see what his attitude is, and you have to make a statement about him, and he must have his own position. In fact, the parents have a very good time, as long as your boyfriend's position is very firm, then I think you will be very happy together, don't recover, don't worry, you have to work together, as long as he is sincere to you, then no difficulties will stump you! Come on!!

Wishing you happiness!

Know how to love yourself and don't marry for the sake of getting married. His current infirmity is not a reason for you to be wronged, he doesn't care about you now, and he won't be good to you after marriage. Be strong and let him take responsibility.

It's useless to just worry about you alone. A woman's best armament is self-confidence, perfect herself, and when there are many people around you who recognize you, he will be in a hurry to catch you. Otherwise, he won't really value you in his heart.

I hope this is helpful.

There is an old Chinese saying: it is better to demolish a temple than to give up a marriage.

Don't get married because you're in a hurry, ask yourself how deep your feelings are for him and if it's enough to live together. Observe over time how much your boyfriend loves you, whether you love him more or if he loves you more.

A hundred years of repair can be crossed in the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together.

If you are unsure, then wait until you are sure before making a decision, and distance produces beauty.

My boyfriend doesn't say anything to show that he cares about his family's opinion, he must be filial, his family doesn't agree, you may not be harmonious after marriage, so I think you should be willing to give up and find someone who loves me to marry, and you will be happy.

Your boyfriend's family doesn't agree, and your boyfriend has to choose between you and your family. According to what you said, your boyfriend still doesn't have any intentions, and it's time for you to ask him to take a stand. In response to his answer, you have to choose between them.

Don't waste your purifications on unfruitful love. Never rush to get married for the wrong reasons.

Feelings are very complicated things Outsiders can't know better than you Measure your feelings yourself, communicate with your boyfriend Whether you can be together or not depends on you Maybe it's because of his family's affairs that make you unhappy and emotionally unfamiliar So it's up to you to eat and drink porridge.

You have to ask what your boyfriend is thinking? If he truly loves you and deserves your love, then the two of you will have to find a way to convince his family. If not, then break up as soon as possible, no one will delay anyone, and it will be good for everyone.

Feeling lost is not your fault, the problem is not your problem, but your boyfriend, whose attitude is very important, but he doesn't say anything. You should look for opportunities to communicate patiently with him and understand his ideas. If he is willing to be with you, but he is not good at expressing himself, then don't worry, you can find a way to solve the problem together, the power of love is infinite, and all difficulties can be overcome.

If he is passive, helpless, and hesitant, then he is not worth relying on, and you don't have to blindly insist.

His family doesn't matter, what matters is what your boyfriend thinks It depends on whether he insists or not, you can talk to him, if he is determined to be with you, then you should insist, if even he is shaken, I think you should forget it.

That little Wang Ba Dan!! Don't say anything? Is it a man!! Did you know that he went to convince his family? That kid didn't move for a long time! I think you're still....Better a finger off than always aching! I wish the baby happiness....

No. I feel like I've always been clear about how I feel about other people, so I've never been confused.

Yes, after breaking up with my first love, I asked myself for a long time what I wanted, what I thought, and why I was so hasty with my feelings.

It's embarrassing for me, I know very well what I want, or I know what feelings can bring me, I won't be confused, I will only enjoy the satisfaction of this relationship.

For a while, I was really confused, and I didn't know where my feelings were going, because the answer of the person I liked would only cause me to be confused, and I didn't know what the use of this persistence was? Sometimes standing on the balcony, alone in a daze.

There were. Once my partner and I quarreled very badly because of a trivial matter, both sides were angry at that time, and the cold war lasted for several days, and I was very confused in those days and began to doubt each other's feelings, so couples must not quarrel cold, and communicate in time.

There will be, especially during the time in a different place, which is particularly difficult, and I will feel that this relationship is very tiring and I don't know how to continue, but I am very lucky, and I survived it in the end, and it is a lifetime to survive the long place.

I was confused, I had a crush on a girl at that time, and when I saw her walking with other boys, I really didn't know what to do.

Yes. For a while, when the two of us had a cold war, I wondered if we weren't suitable for each other, but thinking about how good he was to me, I would try to reconcile with him.

It was when I was about to take the college entrance examination, a boy confessed to me, and I also had a good impression of him, but the most important thing for me at this time was the college entrance examination, and I didn't know if he could wait for me.